tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14037689624317714452024-03-05T05:59:31.177-08:00Sui Generis...Intamplari din viata...Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-63445436100923253612012-03-29T16:09:00.003-07:002012-03-29T16:09:31.282-07:00How To Spot Narcissists On Facebook<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lglGxQ71Urc&feature=related"><span style="font-size: large;">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lglGxQ71Urc&feature=related</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Dr Sylvia Gearing shares her professional methods of how to spot a truly self-absorbed person on Facebook.</span><br />Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-53142199918188748892012-03-29T16:04:00.001-07:002012-03-29T16:04:57.328-07:00When Is It Time To Break Up?<br />
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Dr. Sylvia Gearing shares with you her professional advice on when it's time to call a relationship or marriage quits. <br />
<br />Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-30623941958733998282012-03-29T15:58:00.001-07:002012-03-29T15:58:17.751-07:00How to catch a Liar?<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yw4DW9JYsY0&feature=relmfu">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yw4DW9JYsY0&feature=relmfu</a><br />
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Dr. Sylvia Gearing shares her tips on how to tell if your romantic partner is lying to you. For more information and tips, please visit Dr. Gearing's blog at www.GearingUp.com. Twitter - @DrGearing, Facebook - Gearing Up<br />
<br />Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-6588811815930564152012-03-18T13:17:00.000-07:002012-03-18T13:17:23.989-07:00Arta plastica a nebuniei...<span style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 19.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt;"><strong><span style="color: purple;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><em>Din interiorul nebuniei...picturi ale unor bolnavi psihici</em></span></span></strong></span><br />
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<br /></div>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-22883409489346535792012-03-18T11:08:00.002-07:002012-03-18T11:08:29.269-07:00Teorii privind trasaturile principale ale psihopatilor<br />
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<b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Psihopatii sunt
peste tot in lumea moderna de azi, ei sunt indivizi care se straduie sa para normali, chiar si reusesc, sunt insa niste clovni rai, clovini de mucava, vicleni si plini de cruzime, care joaca zeci de roluri, bolnavi pusi pe manipulare, care au o istorie proprie plina de ascunzisuri,
de minciuni, de dificultati de comportament si de personalitate, de dificultati
emotionale si de relationare…din pacate, victimele lor uneori nu isi mai revin
niciodata!</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; line-height: 115%;">Conform teoriei lui Stefan H. Verstappen, The Art of Urban
Survival, trasaturile principale ale unui Psihopat sunt:<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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</span></span></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; line-height: 115%;">Lipsa
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</span></span></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; line-height: 115%;">Iresponsabilitatea<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Comportamentul impulsiv</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; line-height: 115%;">Un
Control Redus al Comportamentului<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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</span></span></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; line-height: 115%;">Mincinosi
Patologici. Minciunile Obsesive de Necontrolat<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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</span></span></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; line-height: 115%;">Comportamentul
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Conform teoriei Dr. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Robert Hare si a Testului original pentru psihopatie
criminala, caracteristicile principale ale Psihopatilor sunt:<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">1. <b>Volubilitate
superficiala si sarm superficial</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p> </o:p></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">2. <b>Sentimente
grandioase de auto-valoare</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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agitatie, de excitatie</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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si manipulator</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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remuscarii si lipsa vinovatiei personale</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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superficiala, minimala</b><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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Cruzime, Duritate si lipsa empatiei </b>(Empatie=Formă de intuire a realității
prin identificare afectivă; Tendință a receptorului de a trăi afectiv, prin
transpunere simpateticăcu o alta persoana, cu viața eroilor din opere literare,
din filme, etc., conform DEX)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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de viata parazitar</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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redus al comportamentului</b><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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spre un comportament sexual promiscuu</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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de comportament din tinerete</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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penala.<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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controlul rapid si sigur, iar vietile victimelor devin centrate pe nevoile lor,
pe cererile lor si pe scopurile lor.</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Dr. Joseph M.
CARVER</span></i><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>spunea ca pe masura ce trecem prin
viata,</span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> noi intalnim o varietate de indivizi. De asemenea dezvoltam o varietate de
relatii cu altii iclusiv cu membrii de familie, vecinii, colegii de munca,
prietenii si cu fetele familiare. Relatiile sanatoase par sa fie sanatoase in
acelasi mod – avand caracteristicile de respect, grija pentru ceilalti,
afectiunea, cooperarea, cinstea, obiectivele comune, etc. O relatie cu un
bolnav cu tulburari de personalitate este insa total diferita….si prea tarziu
ne dam seama de cosmar…... <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">9-10% din
totalul adultilor care ne inconjoara fac parte din indivizii grupului B - cu
Tulburari de Personalitate – ei ne pot aduce mari dificultati in viata. Pe
scurt contactele cu ei ne aduc umbre, amaraciuni, nebunie, ghinioane si
nenorociri – ei pot fi un unchi care e u tepar sau o cumnata pe care nimeni nu
o poate inghiti si digera la nici o cina din vacanta de familie... <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Cand din
credulitate si bunavointa, sau dragoste il aducem in viata noastra, intotdeauna
un individ cu tulburari de personalitate, preia rapid controlul si viata devine
in curand centrata pe nevoile lui, pe cererile lui, pe confortul si pe obiectivele
lui….<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">In timp ce tu visezi la bine…el
unelteste constant, la rece si cu prioritate la rau, la distrugerea ta care ii
mangaie nebunia…iti extrage energiile pozitive din tine si le inlocuieste cu
extenuare si cu energii negative…<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Psihopatul este
ca o gaura neagra care iti suge toate energiile, te impinge la disperare, la
nebunie, la lipsa de stima de sine, la renuntari multiple in fata vietii, la
imposibilitea de a urma un fir logic sau vreo regula a normalitatii, un
psihopat iti va macina nervii, relatiile, viata, banii, bunele intentii, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>buna crestere, familia, vacantele,
sarbatorile, prieteniile, relatiile de o viata, el te va aduce cu sange rece in
nevroza, in depresie severa, te va impinge spre autodistrugere cu multa multa viclenie
ascunsa, iti va indeparta familia de tine, culmea – prin tine.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Psihopatii sunt maestrii
neincoronati ai propriei lor autodistrugeri …in final!!!<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Pentru a-si
indeplini si duce la bun sfarsit obiectivele de psihopat egocentrist, bolnavul
devine in final frustrat si abuziv, un controlor, un manipulator si un profitor
in oricare din relatii. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ajunge la un
preaplin cu rutinele si programele lui de om nebun si ….refuleaza spre
stupefactia victimei…in agresivitate verbala, psihologica, financiara….ei sunt
maestrii neincoronati ai propriei lor autodistrugeri in final!!! Ca victima
singurele tale sanse sunt: sa intelegi, sa intelegi adevarul, sa fugi din calea
lui, sa atentionezi pe cei din jur pe care i-ar putea el manipula, sa ai
rabdarea de fier <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca sa ii vezi finalul
morbid…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Atentie: Identificarea
din timp a indivizilor care genereaza si intretin vicleni relatii nesanatoase ne
poate salva de ani de dureri de inima si de distrugerea personalitatii noastre,
a stimei de sine, a finantelor, a stilului de viata. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<em><span style="font-size: x-large;">You can heal your life by Louise Hay...</span></em><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Schimbarea....psihologia schimbarii...</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>De la Ambitie la Sens. Descoperind Scopul vietii tale.</em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Film: Ambition to Meaning. Findind your Life's Purpose...with Dr. Wayne W. Dyer</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>"Ceea ce dimineata parea grandios, seara parea minuscul...Ceea ce dimineata parea adevar, seara era o minciuna....</em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Poate esti doar la un gand distanta de a-ti schimba viata! Atragi ceea ce esti tu!</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Soarele nu ii spune niciodata Pamantului: imi esti dator!</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Un semn bun este atunci cand renunti la ceea ce simti ca nu este bun pentru tine...</em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Sa dai un pas inapoi si sa devii un Observator...."</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>"Iisus din capitolul Fapte: Daca vrei safii ca mine stiind ca noi doi suntem asemanatori, eu te voi ajuta. Daca vrei sa fii diferit de mine, eu te voi astepta pana te razgandesti."</em></span><br />
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<br />Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-21724251411879783112012-03-05T12:44:00.001-08:002012-03-05T12:44:12.021-08:00Un Psihopat lasat liber de toate autoritatile sesizate anterior! Incredibil rezultatul bolii psihice - un masacru, un carnagiu in Bucuresti in martie 2012. Cine isi asuma responsabilitatile?<span style="font-size: large;">Masacru de Psihopat...în Bucureşti...soc si groaza!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Un individ, probabil un Psihopat sadea, a împuşcat multi oameni cu sadism si sange rece. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Bilantul Psihopatului din Bucuresti: doi morţi si multi raniti azi, 5 martie 2012, in inima capitalei Romaniei....</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Un Psihopat lasat liber de toate autoritatile sesizate anterior! realizeaza un i</span><span style="font-size: large;">ncredibil rezultat criminal - un masacru, un carnagiu in toata regula....Bucuresti si martie 2012. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Cine isi asuma responsabilitatea?????</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul s-a zbatut si a dat din coate ca sa ajunga macar sofer la Politie/M.A.I, aceasta ii dadea "mai multe posibile oportunitati si drepturi"</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">(tipic logicii unui psihopat)...</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul avea mai multe sesizari penale....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul avea permis de port arma....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul avea tulburari de comportament....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul ameninta....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul urmarea din umbra....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul urmarea posturi inalte....era fost sofer de demnitari...</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul isi schimbase numele....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul avea fantezii mistice, un mic altar in casa....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul credea ca toti ii sunt dusmani....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul tragea pe sfoara sefii, medicii, psihologii...care i-au acordat permis de port arma...</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul era foarte abil in a "trage sforile"....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul dupa macel....rece, detasat, s-a indreptat fara nici o emotie sa se predea....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul conducea imprudent de multe ori....vezi relatarile fostului demnitar caruia i-a fost sofer.....</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Individul isi teroriza fosta sotie si familia....vezi relatarile cunostiintelor, vecinilor, colegilor....</span></li>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Va multumesc celor care cititi ce m-am tot straduit eu sa va spun, ca sa trag un mare semnal de alarma asupra Psihopatilor cu aparente de om normal - auto confectionate, desigur - aici, pe acest blog!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Nu e de gluma! Este Horror!</span><br />
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infesteaza intreg spectrul umanitatii indiferent de rasa, cultura, geografie,
clasa economica sau tip de personalitate.</span></i></b><span style="color: #7030a0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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tau sentimentele si emotiile exprimate de catre altii. </span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Este ceea ce ne
permite sa simtim noi, ceea ce simt altii. Acesta este motivul pentru care
suntem inspirati de opere de arta, de muzica si poezie. Empatia ne permite sa
experimentam grandoarea vietii, sa traim cu adevarat viata, din plin si este
una dintre caracteristicile definitorii a ceea ce ne face sa ne numim oameni. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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nici cu adevarat umani, nici nu traiesc cu adevarat. Cand ei vad oameni Normali
admirand o piesa de arta, sau ca se joaca cu copiii lor, sau ingrijesc un
animal de companie, sau orice alte interactiuni umane emotionale, ei nu pot
intelege ce e tot tam-tam-ul asta. Psihopatii isi dau seama de la o varsta
frageda ca sunt diferiti de ceilalti si ca ar trebui sa actioneze si sa se
comporte ca toata lumea, ca sa fie acceptat de societate.<br />
Ei invata sa imite ceea ce vad la altii, dar ei Nu pot intelege niciodata de ce
ar trebui sa actioneze in acest fel. Desi </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">sunt actori desavarsiti</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">, observarea lor atenta
va evidentia fisuri indicative din fatada lor. Ei ştiu suficient de bine sa se
prefaca atunci cand cineva este bolnav, sa se prefaca si sa pretinda ca sunt
incantati si fericiti cand il loveste norocul pe un prieten, dar în situatiile
in care nu a facut repetitii (ca actorii, care repeta mult timp rolul, n.t.),
pot dezvalui o lipsa de empatie incredibila, socanta. De exemplu, în cazul în
care participa la o înmormântare, un psihopat va imita corect aceleaşi expresii
de tristete ca si cei care plang dupa mort, dar apoi va face avansuri sexuale
vaduvei in doliu, fara nici o remuscare privind aceasta atitudine inadecvata si
obraznica. Persoanele cu empatie ar intelege instinctiv, comportamentul ca si
cum este necorespunzător. Dar Psihopatul nu poate intelege.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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personal simţit de către o persoană după ce el sau ea a comis un act, pe care
le consideră a fi rusinos, dureros, sau violent. Dupa această definiţie se
presupune ca un psihopat nu se confruntă cu un astfel de sentiment. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Daca lipseste empatia
atunci lipseste si exprimarea emotionala. Nici un psihopat nu poate simţi
ruşine şi nici nu poate înţelege ca orice fac ei poate fi dureros pentru alţii.</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> <br />
Psihopatii înţeleg atunci când oamenii sunt supăraţi pe ei pentru
comportamentul lor şi în ultimă instanţă, ca ultima arma ei pot pretinde ca le
pare rau, dar spre deosebire de majoritatea oamenilor, ei nu sunt deloc
deranjati de sentimente de vinovăţie. Remuşcarea este o emotie puternic
negativa, care produce tulburări în cel care o simte, turbulenţe care duc de
multe ori la comportamente auto-distructive sau de auto-invinuire. Psihopatul
poate pretinde ca are remuşcări, dar comportamentul lor real nu s-a schimbat,
ei merg în continuare cumpărături, merg în continuare la petreceri, ei nu au
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Pasiunea poate face pe cineva să meargă mai departe
decât necesar pentru a explora si a invata sa stapaneasca un subiect.
Majoritatea oamenilor se bucura sa asculte muzică, dar daca cineva este
pasionat de muzica, va merge mai departe pentru a învăţa cum să cânte la un
instrument. În mod similar, mulţi oameni sunt interesaţi în tehnologie nouă,
dar numai o persoana pasionata va deveni inginer. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Lipsiti de pasiune pentru orice altceva
decât doar pentru ei înşişi, psihopati nu pot pătrunde niciodata dincolo de
suprafaţa lucrurilor si a stiintelor.</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> Ca urmare, ei prezintă o intelegere
"superficiala" a unor sau mai multor subiecte sau discipline, in timp
ce expertii adevarati ii considera ca fiind superficiali. Această
superficialitate se extinde la încercările lor de a se comporta normal prin
afisarea unor emoţii false printr-un afect exagerat.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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gaunosi, psihopatii nu au nici un fel de probleme de stima de sine. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Psihopatii trăiesc
într-o falsa viziune asupra lumii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>în
care acestia se considera la propriu şi la figurat - Dumnezeu.</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> Adesea văzuti ca
fiind megalomani, grandomani ei au in mod egal un sentiment la fel de exagerat
de ‚a avea drepturi si beneficii’. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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vina lor. Altcineva, sau lumea in general, este întotdeauna de vină pentru
toate problemele lor. Acest lucru are sens în cazul în care doriti sa pricepeti
că </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">psihopati cred despre ei ca sunt perfecti</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">. </span><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">„<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Logica” de psihopat dictează ca
tot ceea ce este întotdeauna rău este numai si numai din vina altcuiva.</i></b></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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lumina megalomaniei lui.</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> </span></i></b><span style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">In</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> lumea lor, tot ce isi doresc acum, este
bun, şi tot ceea ce ei nu doresc este rău. Dacă un psihopat vrea sex si nu il
obtine, atunci violul este bun si partenera este rea. Dacă cineva are bani în
buzunar şi psihopatul ii vrea, atunci jaful este bun, iar victima este rea
pentru ca detine ceva ce psihopatul a vrut sa aiba. Daca toate acestea lovesc
in moalele capului cititorul – ca are de a face cu un nebun – acesta are
dreptate. Unele dintre primele lucrari asupra acestui subiect al Psihopatiei
apartine lui J. C. Prichard care a lansat, acum un termen deja defunct, <i>Moral
Insanity – Nebunia Morala, </i><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">ca un
mod de a descrie Psihopatia in anul 1835</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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psihopaţi, deoarece </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">majoritatea psihopatilor prezintă un auto-control
excelent</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> pentru ca ei se zbat sa se comporte si se pretind „A fi Normali”, in cea
mai mare parte a timpului. Lipsa de auto-control intră în joc atunci când
megalomania lor ii face sa se comporte si sa actioneze exact asa cum le place
face ca acestea să facă şi se comportă exact aşa cum vă rog, în orice moment ei
au o dorinta. Aceasta ne duce la urmatoarea caracteristica.<br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">O altă caracteristică atribuită personalitatii
psihopatice este lipsa de obiective, dar acest lucru induce în eroare. Multi
Psihopatii au obiective, cum ar fi sa termine, sa distruga doua victime deodata
(sa impuste mai multi iepuri deodata n.t.), sa saboteze un partener, un coleg
sau sa devina Preşedinte. Cu toate acestea, de multe ori obiectivele pe termen
lung sunt subminate pe termen scurt chiar de Psihopat, aşa cum este descris mai
sus, pentru ca psihopatul vrea sa faca doar ceea ce ii place lui, in acel
moment particular. (vezi „</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">EU fac ce vreau, cand vreau si cum vreau</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">” din amintirile
relatate de Sui Generis, n.t.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Minciunile Obsesive de Necontrolat. </span></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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situaţie imposibilă într-o societate raţionala. Dar ei sunt in realitate niste
Paraziti!!!(n.t.)<br />
Psihopatii au rezolvat aceasta dilema prin intermediul </span><b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><u><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Armei lor numarul unu - Minciunile</span></u></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">. Minciunile tin la un
loc, unesc viziunea lor despre ei, universul lor privat, interior si le hranesc
nevoia de a trai parazitar pe spinarea societăţii. Fără empatie, fara ruşine şi
fara remuşcare ei sunt liberi să mintă oricat de des şi în mod scandalos de
cate ori le convine. Oamenii normali ar rosi, ar transpira sau ar tremura dacă
ar îndrăzni sa traga de adevar intr-un mod similar. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Dar pentru Psihopat a minti e la fel de
natural ca si respiratia</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">. Acesta este motivul pentru care ei
trec de multe ori testele la poligraf. La ei nu se înregistrează reacţii
fiziologice -in timp ce la nonpsihopati se inregistreaza atunci când mint. Ei
sunt atat de buni la minciuni incat pot pacali psihiatri instruiţi şi chiar
alti psihopati. Ceea ce este important să ştiţi este că, in aceste condiţii, ei
pot pacali pe oricine.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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merge vine abilitatea de a manipula pe alţii pentru propriul lor beneficiu.
După ce si-au petrecut toata viata lor pentru a ne studia pe noi, psihopatii
devin maeştri in manipulare şi experţi în a şti cum să apese pe butoanele
noastre si sa foloseasca emotiile noastre chiar impotriva noastra. Ei folosesc
această capacitate pentru a-i păstra pe cei din jurul lor intr-o stare de
confuzie, incapabil de a gândi clar şi dezechilibrati. Psihopatii afla, de
asemenea, foarte devreme cum personalitatea lor poate avea efecte traumatizante
asupra personalitatilor nonpsihopate şi cum să profite de acest lucru pentru
a-si obtine scopurile. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Ca un ţipar electric care isi electrocuteaza prada cu
un electrosoc, personalitatea inumana a Psihopatului are capacitatea stranie de
a manipula pana la a ameti complet victimele alese.<br />
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psihopatului este anti-sociala.</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> Lipsa lor de empatie pentru alte
persoane se distribuie pe societate şi pe mediul înconjurător. Vandalism, poluare,
graffiti, abuz de animale, distrugerea mediului, încălcări de coduri, conducere
nechibzuita şi o serie de puncte de vedere morale şi unele activităţi sociale
sunt inacceptabile si de nici un interes pentru un psihopat. Acestea sunt
caracteristicile de bază pe care toti psihopati le prezintă. Ţineţi cont de
faptul că putini psihopati vor exprima toate toate caracteristicile si ca
non-psihopaţii pot avea multe dintre acestea, de asemenea.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Extras din<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Art of Urban Survival by Stefan H.
Verstappen, <o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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unor psihopati, cum gandesc ei, ce ii domina in ceea ce fac, cum se explica ei:</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #254061; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #254061; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: accent1; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"> </span></b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-A-Sociopath/241380"><b><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt;">Who
Believes the Self-confessed Sociopath?</span></b></a></span></i><b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Locul
1 in top, cu peste 8000 de vizualizari<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">…„Dacă ar exista vreun leac</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> medical
<span class="hps">miraculos,</span> care <span class="hps">să-mi dea</span> <span class="hps">o CONSTIINTA</span>, <span class="hps">să ma lase sa empatizez si sa
experimentez iubirea, eu nu l-asi dori</span>. <span class="hps">Imi place</span>
<span class="hps">cine sunt <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>eu – si nu ma
deranjeaza ceea ce sunt</span>…”</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">“Eu nu cred nici pe jumatate pe oamenii care spun ca sunt sociopati. </span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Eu</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">admit</span>
<span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">toţi cei care</span> <span class="hps">pretind
că</span> sunt sociopati <span class="hps">(folosind</span> <span class="hps">în
special</span> <span class="hps">identitatea</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">reala</span>), <span class="hps">sunt cu siguranta</span> ametiti. <span class="hps">De ce</span> <span class="hps">ar trebui să</span> <span class="hps">mă
crezi</span> <span class="hps">că</span> sunt asa? <span class="hps">Cui îi pasă?</span>
<span class="hps">Doar</span> <span class="hps">citeste</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Etichetele</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">într-adevăr</span> <span class="hps">nu contează</span>. <span class="hps">Narcisist</span>? <span class="hps">Psihopat</span>? <span class="hps">Sociopat</span>? <span class="hps">Borderline</span>?
<span class="hps">Cui într-adevăr</span> <span class="hps">îi pasă</span>? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Vreau doar să</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">sa ma laud</span> aici <span class="hps">cu privire la</span> <span class="hps">cine sunt eu</span>, deoarece <span class="hps">îmi place</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> sunt.</span></i></b><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">Mă
simt</span> <span class="hps">liber sa spun şi</span> <span class="hps">simt</span>
ca am un avantaj, în ciuda <span class="hps">fazelor</span> <span class="hps">mele
de</span> <span class="hps">mizerie</span> <span class="hps">şi de</span> <span class="hps">depresie</span>. <span class="hps">Eu nu</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span>
<span class="hps">lipsit</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">conştiinţă</span>.
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Constiinta e<span class="hps">ste</span> <span class="hps">doar trecuta pe „off”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(pe
butonul inchis),</span> <span class="hps">din</span> cand in cand.</span><span class="Heading1Char"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><strong> <o:p></o:p></strong></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Ce</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">vă pot</span> <span class="hps">spune</span> <span class="hps">despre mine</span> <span class="hps">este
că</span> <span class="hps">eu</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">mă
pot</span> <span class="hps">pune</span> <span class="hps">în locul</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>. <span class="hps">Nu</span> <span class="hps">simt</span> <span class="hps">nimic</span> <span class="hps">rău</span> despre nimic din ceea ce fac
eu:<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Pentru mine</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">a</span> intreprinde <span class="hps">o acţiune</span>, în <span class="hps">primul rând,</span> <span class="hps">înseamnă că</span> mi-<span class="hps">am</span> <span class="hps">justificat</span>
<span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">mintea mea</span> ce fac. <span class="hps">De ce</span> <span class="hps">sa ma simt</span> <span class="hps">rău</span>
<span class="hps">după</span>? De asemenea eu nu am <span class="hps">principii
ferme</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">convingeri</span> peste
care sa nu pot trece.. <span class="hps">Sunt</span> <span class="hps">ce vrei tu</span>
<span class="hps">să fiu dar</span> <span class="hps">atât timp cât</span> lucrurile
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">lucrează pentru</span> <span class="hps">beneficiul meu, in avantajul meu</span>. <span class="hps">Eu nu</span>
<span class="hps">sunt</span> un <span class="hps">mincinos</span> <span class="hps">compulsiv</span>,
dar tot <span class="hps">eu</span> <span class="hps">voi</span> <span class="hps">minti</span>
<span class="hps">convingător,</span> <span class="hps">atunci când</span> imi
foloseste <span class="hps">si</span> voi utiliza o onestitate selectiva, <span class="hps">ca un</span> <span class="hps">profesionist</span> <span class="hps">experimentat,
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si in tot acest timp, ma uit staruitor
in ochii tai,</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">‚<span class="hps">cea mai</span> calda
sinceritate’</i></b>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Eu nu</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">trişez</span> <span class="hps">si nu</span> <span class="hps">induc în eroare</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span>
<span class="hps">un câştig financiar</span>, decat daca am nevoie. <span class="hps">Eu sunt</span> <span class="hps">un minimalist</span> <span class="hps">şi
un anti</span><span class="atn">-</span>consumerist, prin natura. <span class="hps">Eu</span> <span class="hps">trăiesc</span> intr-o<span class="hps">
populaţie</span> <span class="hps">mică</span>, cu <span class="hps">nici o sansa</span>
<span class="hps">pentru</span> o reintegrare facila<span class="hps">, atunci cand</span>
<span class="hps">reputaţia</span> <span class="hps">trebuie să</span> <span class="hps">fie o pavaza <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>a vietii omului</span>.
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Singurul
lucru care <span class="hps">mă motivează</span> <span class="hps">să merg</span> inainte
<span class="hps">este puterea</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">relaţia
mea</span> <span class="hps">de dominatie</span> <span class="hps">asupra altora</span>.
<span class="hps">Faima</span>, <span class="hps">notorietatea</span>, <span class="hps">banii</span>, <span class="hps">sexul,</span> <span class="hps">sunt toate</span>
<span class="hps">obiective</span> <span class="hps">secundare</span>.<o:p></o:p></i></b></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Sunt</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">sadic</span>. </span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Un
zambet</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">
<span class="hps">vine</span> singur pe <span class="hps">buzele mele</span>, când
aud<span class="hps"> povesti</span> <span class="hps">despre altii care sufera</span>.
<span class="hps">Îmi place sa ii doara pe altii nu pe mine</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">emotional</span>, <span class="hps">fizic</span>,
<span class="hps">verbal</span>. <span class="hps">Sunt</span> <span class="hps">tipul
din sala de</span> <span class="hps">cinema</span>, care <span class="hps">nu</span>
se poate abtine de ras atunci cand altii sunt ingroziti vazand ca un inocent
sufera <span class="hps">în faţa lor</span>. Imi place sa starnesc lupte si ma
comport ca un pui de catea atunci cand beau. <span class="hps">Eu</span> ii voi
atata chiar si <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">cei care sunt</span> <span class="hps">chiar</span> <span class="hps">mai puternici</span> <span class="hps">decât
mine</span>: garzile de paza, <span class="hps">poliţia</span>. <span class="hps">Eu</span>
<span class="hps">le-as spune</span> <span class="hps">lucruri incredibile</span> <span class="hps">în speranţa de a</span> <span class="hps">obţine</span> atentia lor,
sau<span class="hps"> de a</span> <span class="hps">fi aruncat</span> <span class="hps">într-o celulă</span>. Desi, a<span class="hps">ceasta</span> <span class="hps">nu se întâmplă niciodată</span>…<span class="hps">Sunt</span> <span class="hps">masochist</span>. <span class="hps">M-am</span> <span class="hps">rănit</span>
de vreo cateva ori <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">mă deranjează</span>. <span class="hps">O durere</span> <span class="hps">mică</span> <span class="hps">vă permite să</span> <span class="hps">ştiţi
că</span> <span class="hps">sunteti</span> <span class="hps">în viaţă</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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CE EU SUNT DE FAPT.</span></i></b></span><span class="hps"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Unii oameni</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">inteligenţi</span> <span class="hps">au</span> <span class="hps">văzut</span> <span class="hps">steaguriile</span>
mele <span class="hps">roşii</span> <span class="hps">şi doi</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">trei au</span> <span class="hps">îndrăznit
să</span>-mi puna acea <span class="hps">eticheta pe mine</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Ma</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> <span class="hps">ingrozeste</span> <span class="hps">cand oamenii pot vedea ‚dincolo’</span> de <span class="hps">comportamentul
meu</span> <span class="hps">fermecător si sarmant, pana in adancurile mele…Eu</span>
pe acestia ii e<span class="hps">vit</span>. </i></b><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ma gandesc la acestia in mod constant s<span class="hps">i</span> la modul in care <span class="hps">trebuie să</span> ma <span class="hps">descurc cu ei</span>, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">deoarece <span class="hps">acestia sunt o</span>
<span class="hps">ameninţare</span> <span class="hps">pentru mine</span>, pentru <span class="hps">identitatea mea</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> pentru <span class="hps">locul meu</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">mediul</span>
<span class="hps">meu social</span>.</i></b> <span class="hps">Mi se pare</span> <span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">a-i evita</span> <span class="hps">este cel
mai usor</span> <span class="hps">lucru</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Nimeni nu</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">ar trebui să aiba vreodata permisiunea de a</span> <span class="hps">vedea
prin</span> <span class="hps">Masca</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></i></b></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Este</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">dificil <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sa joci teatru - ca esti un om normal -</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> mi-e dificil, dar <span class="hps">există</span> <span class="hps">un preţ</span> <span class="hps">care trebuie</span> <span class="hps">plătit</span>
daca lasi <span class="hps">garda</span> <span class="hps">jos</span> <span class="hps">si dezvalui</span> <span class="hps">interiorul</span> tau ca <span class="hps">fiind</span> <span class="hps">lipsit de suflet</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Cand</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">am intalnit prima data</span>
<span class="hps">termenul de</span> <span class="hps">"</span>sociopat"
a<span class="hps">m fost</span> <span class="hps">destul de</span> <span class="hps">naiv</span> sa <span class="hps">împărtăşesc</span> <span class="hps">bănuielile
mele</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">prietena mea</span> de <span class="hps">la acel moment</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">a
fost o prostie</span>. <span class="hps">Cum</span> <span class="hps">să ii spui
iubitei tale ca</span> <span class="hps">într-adevăr</span> esti<span class="hps">
incapabil</span> <span class="hps">de a o iubi</span>? <span class="hps">Evident,</span>
<span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">ar trebui.</span> <span class="hps">După
ce am</span> <span class="hps">văzut</span> <span class="hps">modul în care
informaţiile</span> mele o afecteaza, imediat a trebuit sa retractez totul
spunandu-i ca e fals,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si convingand-o <span class="hps">repede</span> ca <span class="hps">auto-</span>diagnosticul meu <span class="hps">a fost</span> <span class="hps">inexact şi</span> <span class="hps">că</span>
<span class="hps">diferitele criterii</span> din <span class="hps">lista de
verificare,</span> <span class="hps">nu se aplica</span> <span class="hps">la mine</span>.
Iti pierzi <span class="hps">rapid</span> <span class="hps">naivitatea</span> <span class="hps">de a mărturisi</span> <span class="hps">cine</span> <span class="hps">esti</span>
cu adevarat, <span class="hps">atunci cand</span> <span class="hps">iti dai seama
ca</span> <span class="hps">acest tip</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">onestitate,</span> iti aduce tie <span class="hps">daune foarte mari in</span>
<span class="hps">relatiile</span> <span class="hps">sociale</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Oamenii e mai bine sa nu stie că</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> tu <span class="hps">nu</span>
ii <span class="hps">placi,</span> <span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">nu iti
pasă de</span> <span class="hps">ei</span>, ca nu poti simti nimic pentru ei…<br />
</span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Ambii
parinti</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">
<span class="hps">mei au murit</span> <span class="hps">când eu eram tânăr</span>. <span class="hps">Am beneficiat</span> <span class="hps">de o buna crestere şi</span> de <span class="hps">o educaţie</span> <span class="hps">bună</span>, am <span class="hps">o
educaţie</span> <span class="hps">morala puternica</span>, <span class="hps">eu ma de
auto</span>susţin <span class="hps">financiar</span>- nu <span class="hps">lovesc</span>
<span class="hps">pe nimeni</span>, nu <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">lucruri</span> <span class="hps">simple,</span> <span class="hps">cum ar
fi</span> <span class="hps">banii</span>. <span class="hps">Pentru a</span> <span class="hps">cere oamenilor</span> <span class="hps">bani</span> <span class="hps">este
pur şi simplu</span> <span class="hps">sub</span> <span class="hps">mine</span>. <span class="hps">Imi </span>e scârbă persoanele <span class="hps">anti</span><span class="atn">-</span>sociale. <span class="hps">Nu există nici o</span> <span class="hps">comuniune</span> <span class="hps">printre</span> <span class="hps">noi</span>
<span class="hps">în ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">mă priveşte</span> <span class="hps">şi eu vreau</span> <span class="hps">să rănesc pe</span> <span class="hps">toţi ceilalţi, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">împărtăşesc</span> <span class="hps">experienţa
mea</span>…</span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Aşa cum</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">am spus</span>, <span class="hps">am</span> crescut <span class="hps">in</span> <span class="hps">morală</span>
<span class="hps">şi in educaţie</span>, dar <span class="hps">eu</span> <span class="hps">cred în</span> <span class="hps">nimic</span>. </span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Nu aş</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">merge
atât de departe</span> in<span class="hps">cât sa spun despre mine ca sunt imoral</span>,
dar <span class="hps">nu există nici o</span> <span class="hps">credinţă</span> pe
care sa o sacrific <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">numele</span> <span class="hps">oportunitatilor</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">N<span class="hps">u</span> <span class="hps">contează</span> <span class="hps">pentru mine</span>
<span class="hps">religia</span> <span class="hps">cu care</span> m-as <span class="hps">identifica</span> <span class="hps">public</span>. <span class="hps">Eu
nu cred</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">Dumnezeu.</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">N<span class="hps">u cred</span> ca <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sunt Dumnezeu</span>, dar <span class="hps">eu</span>
<span class="hps">sigur</span> ma simt ca si cum eu sunt un Dumnezeu. </span></i></b><span class="hps">Mă simt</span> <span class="hps">ca şi cum</span> <span class="hps">numai</span>
<span class="hps">experienţele</span> <span class="hps">mele</span> conteaza<span class="hps"> şi că</span> <span class="hps">am</span> <span class="hps">o perspectivă</span>
<span class="hps">clară</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">modul în
care lucrurile</span> <span class="hps">sunt si nicio alta persoana nu conteaza.</span>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Cu acestea spuse, da</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">, <span class="hps">am</span> furat din
magazine si m-am angajat in alte atitudini penale, dar in <span class="hps">cea
mai mare parte</span> <span class="hps">doar</span> <span class="hps">pentru a
încerca</span> ca sa vad daca pot asa ceva.</span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> </span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Nu am fost niciodată</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">condamnat
pentru vreo</span> <span class="hps">infracţiune</span> <span class="hps">şi lumea</span>
<span class="hps">ştie că sunt</span> <span class="hps">o persoană</span> <span class="hps">respectabilă</span> axata <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">profesia
mea</span>. <span class="hps">Nu am nici</span> o <span class="hps">condamnare</span>
<span class="hps">penala</span> <span class="hps">şi fac</span> <span class="hps">aceste
lucruri</span> <span class="hps">doar</span> <span class="hps">pentru a vedea</span>
<span class="hps">dacă</span> <span class="hps">pot</span> fi in stare. Distracţia
nu revine daca fac mereu acelasi lucru<span class="hps"> si</span> <span class="hps">mi se pare</span> <span class="hps">că</span> trebuie <span class="hps">să
escaladez<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>o</span> alta <span class="hps">activitate,
sa re</span><span class="atn">-</span>experimentez<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">bucuria de a</span> <span class="hps">face ceva, ce nu ar trebui sa fac sau sa fiu undeva unde nu ar trebui
sa fiu.</span></span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Partea
cea mai <span class="hps">dificilă</span> <span class="hps">de a fi</span> <span class="hps">cine</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">eu</span> <span class="hps">este că</span> <span class="hps">nu poţi</span> niciodata <span class="hps">împărtăşi experienţele</span> <span class="hps">tale</span> decat
anonim<span class="hps">, iar </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">aici,</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">este tocmai</span>
<span class="hps">anonim</span>, deoarece <span class="hps">informaţiile</span> <span class="hps">mele au</span> <span class="hps">fost</span> <span class="hps">autentificate</span>
si<span class="hps"> înregistrate</span>. <span class="hps">Aceasta este o informaţie</span>
<span class="hps">destul de</span> <span class="hps">inofensiva şi funcţionează</span>
<span class="hps">mai mult</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">un
fel</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">terapie</span> <span class="hps">pentru mine</span>. <span class="hps">Sunt</span> <span class="hps">convins</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">superioritatea</span> <span class="hps">mea</span> proprie <span class="hps">şi</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>traiesc o <span class="hps">suferinţa</span> <span class="hps">tăcută</span> ca nu am cum sa <span class="hps">împărtăşesc</span> <span class="hps">măreţia</span> mea <span class="hps">de caracter</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">alţii</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Ma simt</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">uneori ca</span> fac parte dintr-o alta specie decat cea de <span class="hps">homo</span> <span class="hps">sapiens.</span></span></i></b><span class="hps"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<em><strong><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Ma folosesc si apoi arunc oamenii de care ma folosesc la
gunoi</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">?
Da, <span class="hps">Sigur ca da</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></strong></em></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Există un mare forum</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> de domnite care au fost implicate in
relatii de dragoste cu nenorociti numiti Psihopati, forum dedicat sa ii ajute
sa se vindece – pe acest forum comportamentul meu<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>fost etichetat de i<span class="hps">dealizare</span>
<span class="hps">si de</span> <span class="hps">devalorizare</span>. <span class="hps">Am participat</span> <span class="hps">ceva</span> <span class="hps">timp,
dar</span> <span class="hps">ele au descoperit</span> <span class="hps">repede</span>
<span class="hps">lipsa mea</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">empatie</span>
<span class="hps">şi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>m-au exclus.</span> <span class="hps">Nu</span> este nici o <span class="hps">iubire pierdută</span>. <span class="hps">Au început</span> <span class="hps">să mă enerveze</span>, cu <span class="hps">toate</span> <span class="hps">povestile</span> lor <span class="hps">plângăcioase</span>
<span class="hps">şi cu comportamentul iresponsabil</span>…Niste <span class="hps">Idioate</span>.
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Având</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">cunoştinţă de faptul că</span>
eu ma <span class="hps">folosesc</span> de <span class="hps">oameni</span> si apoi
ma debarasez de ei, <span class="hps">nu mă ajută</span> sa imi pot <span class="hps">controla</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul. </span></span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Este
doar</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">
<span class="hps">o manifestare</span> a plictiselii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">mele</span> <span class="hps">cu
alţii</span>. <span class="hps">De ce</span> <span class="hps">ar trebui să</span>-mi
<span class="hps">pierd eu</span> <span class="hps">secunde</span> <span class="hps">preţioase</span>
<span class="hps">din viaţă</span> pentru a fi cu tine <span class="hps">sau</span>
sa stau <span class="hps">te ascult pe tine</span>, dacă <span class="hps">nu
există nici o</span> <span class="hps">utilitate</span> <span class="hps">între
schimburile</span> <span class="hps">noastre</span>?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps">Am</span> <span class="hps">nevoie de oameni</span>? <span class="hps">Da</span>, <span class="hps">am</span> <span class="hps">nevoie de oameni</span>.
<span class="hps">Puterea este</span> <span class="hps">o relaţie între</span> <span class="hps">oameni</span>. <span class="hps">Pentru a</span> <span class="hps">exercita</span>
<span class="hps">puterea ai</span> <span class="hps">nevoie de oameni</span>. Ma <span class="hps">bucur de</span> <span class="hps">complimente</span>? <span class="hps">Depinde.</span>
<span class="hps">Ei nu</span> <span class="hps">contează</span> prea<span class="hps"> mult</span>…<span class="hps"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">dar da, ma bucură ca eu sa fiu</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> <span class="hps">adorat</span>.</i></b> <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Aceasta înseamnă că</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> <span class="hps">persoana este</span> <span class="hps">într-un fel</span> <span class="hps">sub</span> <span class="hps">controlul meu</span>.</i></b> <span class="hps">Îmi place</span> <span class="hps">critica</span>? <span class="hps">Nu</span>,
<span class="hps">mai ales</span> <span class="hps">atunci când vine vorba</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">cretini</span> <span class="hps">cu idei doar
pe jumatate coapte.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Am</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">emotii</span>? In cea mai mare parte
simt <span class="hps">furie</span>, <span class="hps">plictiseala</span> si am
mici episoade <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">emoţie – urgenta de
dopamina</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">atunci</span> <span class="hps">când</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>prin <span class="hps">inteligenţa</span> <span class="hps">mea</span>, mi-<span class="hps">am</span>
<span class="hps">atins</span> scopurile. Celelalte e<span class="hps">moţii ale</span>
<span class="hps">mele</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">destul</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">superficiale si imi este greu</span> <span class="hps">sa</span> <span class="hps">comunic</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>
<span class="hps">ceea</span> ce <span class="hps">simt</span>. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">De
obicei schimb vorba atunci cand oamenii ma chestioneaza sa descriu in detaliu
ceea ce simt...</i></b><span class="hps"> Oamenii</span> care <span class="hps">uită</span>
<span class="hps">la</span> <span class="hps">pozele</span> mele se fixeaza <span class="hps">întotdeauna</span> <span class="hps">pe</span> ochii mei. <span class="hps">Ei nu isi pot explica ce este in spatele lor.</span> <span class="hps">Unii</span>
ii <span class="hps">gasesc</span> f<span class="hps">rumosi</span>, <span class="hps">penetranti</span>. Pentru cei care nu spun nimic si care probabil
stiu ce sunt eu, sunt sigur ca ei vad <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">doar golul din interiorul ochilor mei.</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> <span lang="EN"><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Nu</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> ma intreb niciodata. L<span class="hps">ucrurile care imi</span>
<span class="hps">lipsesc, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>le voi<span class="hps"> descrie</span> <span class="hps">peiorativ</span> <span class="hps">ca</span>
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">‚o <span class="hps">emotionalitate ca un terci’</span></span></i></b><span style="color: #c00000;">.</span> <span class="hps">O</span> <span class="hps">persoană
care s-a născut</span> <span class="hps">oarba,</span> <span class="hps">nu ii
poate lipsi</span> <span class="hps">văzul</span>. <span class="hps">El nu</span> <span class="hps">ştie ce este</span>. <span class="hps">O persoană</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">a experimentat</span>
niciodata <span class="hps">empatia</span> <span class="hps">(</span>precursoarea <span class="hps">iubirii</span>), <span class="hps">nu poate</span> sa ii fie <span class="hps">dor de ea</span>. Eu p<span class="hps">ot</span> <span class="hps">doar
specula</span> <span class="hps">despre</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce este</span>,
dar <span class="hps">suma</span> <span class="hps">tuturor</span> <span class="hps">experienţelor</span>
<span class="hps">mele</span> nu <span class="hps">mi-au dat</span> <span class="hps">nici o</span> <span class="hps">analiză mai profundă, decât</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> as <span class="hps">putea numi</span> doar <span class="hps">o lectura de</span> <span class="hps">manual</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Dacă
ar exista vreun leac</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> <span class="hps">miraculos medical,</span> care
<span class="hps">să-mi dea</span> <span class="hps">o CONSTIINTA</span>, <span class="hps">să ma lase sa empatizez, sa experimentez iubirea, eu nu l-asi dori</span>.
<span class="hps">Imi place</span> <span class="hps">cine sunt – nu ma deranjeaza
ceea ce sunt</span>.</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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punem intrebarea daca aceasta este cu adevarat problema noastra. Eu cred ca
intrebarea cea mai buna este De ce tu nu ti-ai dori sa fii ca mine? Sa fii
liber in toate felurile, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in care nu
esti? Un comportament neinhibat? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Niciodata
sa nu ai nopti nedormite. Nici o grija pe lume in afara de nevoile imediate.
Este divin…”</span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Locul 2, peste 2400 de vizualizari <o:p></o:p></span></i><br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">„Pur si simplu nu imi pasa. Pur
si simplu eu nu sunt acolo. Am o lipsa generala de empatie pentru oameni si
pentru tot ce se petrece in jur…”<o:p></o:p></span></i></h1>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Aceasta
este o</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">
<span class="hps">poveste</span> <span class="hps">scurta</span> <span class="hps">despre</span>
<span class="hps">mine</span>. <span class="hps">Nu</span> <span class="hps">stiu</span>
<span class="hps">sincer</span>, chiar <span class="hps">de unde să încep</span>, <span class="hps">dar</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sa ii dau drumul <span class="hps">...</span><br />
<span class="hps">Am fost intotdeauna un</span> <span class="hps">copil</span> crescut<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>bine <span class="hps">Happy-Go</span>-Lucky. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Am</span> <span class="hps">iubit</span>
<span class="hps">liceul</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">am avut
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>buni prieteni</span> cu <span class="hps">care
cu care sa ma aflu prin preajma. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Apoi</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>parasind liceul, <span class="hps">viata</span> mea <span class="hps">s-a schimbat</span> <span class="hps">brusc</span>...<br />
<span class="hps">Am avut</span> <span class="hps">mari speranţe</span> <span class="hps">şi ambiţii</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">viitor</span>,
<span class="hps">toate</span> ramase pe din<span class="hps">afară</span>. <span class="hps">Voiam să</span> <span class="hps">merg la</span> <span class="hps">colegiu</span>,
la <span class="hps">universitate</span> <span class="hps">şi sa fac </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de toate. <span class="hps">Din păcate</span>, <span class="hps">am</span> <span class="hps">incurcat</span> <span class="hps">examenele</span>,
<span class="hps">totul</span> <span class="hps">a eşuat </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">şi am fost</span> <span class="hps">blocat</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>intr-un final
mort intr-un<span class="hps"> serviciu pe</span> <span class="hps">ruta</span> de
la <span class="hps">9 la 5</span>, <span class="hps">amestecandu-ma cu</span> oameni
<span class="hps">"</span>comuni", care <span class="hps">am simţit</span>
<span class="hps">(</span>şi <span class="hps">încă mai</span> simt) au fost <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>mult <span class="hps">sub mine</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Eu cred ca s<span class="hps">unt</span> <span class="hps">destinat</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">lucruri
mai mari</span> <span class="hps">şi mai bune</span> <span class="hps">decât</span>
<span class="hps">acestea. Am</span> <span class="hps">pierdut</span> <span class="hps">contactul</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">prietenii
mei apropiaţi</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cu <span class="hps">cel mai bun prieten al</span> <span class="hps">meu…</span> <span class="hps">M-am simţit</span> <span class="hps">lăsat în urmă</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">blocat</span>, <span class="hps">mizerabil şi</span>
<span class="hps">deprimat</span>.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span class="hps">Acestea fiind spuse, astăzi</span>, sunt plin de<span class="hps"> furie</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> de <span class="hps">dezgust</span>.
<span class="hps">Cele două</span> <span class="hps">emoţii pe care le simt in mine
</span>- <span class="hps">cel mai mult.</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>P<span class="hps">rietenii</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pe care ii am doar ma <span class="hps">folosesc</span>
<span class="hps">pur şi simplu</span> de ei, <span class="hps">ca o modalitate</span>
<span class="hps">de a avea</span> <span class="hps">o ocazie de</span> <span class="hps">a ieşi</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">club, la bar,
la un pahar, etc.</span> <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">Mă uit</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"> dispretuitor <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>în general, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la <span class="hps">toate femeile</span></span></i></b><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";">, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">dupa o <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>despartire, dupa ce eu le-am pus ani grei,</span>
in <span class="hps">spate</span>.</span> <span class="hps">Eu</span> <span class="hps">le consider fiinte inutile</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">lipsite de raţiune, femei</span>
<span class="hps">care sunt</span> bune <span class="hps">numai pentru</span> <span class="hps">un singur lucru..</span>. <span class="hps">Eu</span> <span class="hps">fac</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in asa fel incat ca <span class="hps">femeile</span>
sa ma placa, sa se topeasca dupa <span class="hps">mine</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pentru ca apoi sa le fac sa devina disperate, sa
<span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>le menţin</span> dependente,
<span class="hps">suspendate, frustrate</span> <span class="hps">si ma bucur sa aflu
cum</span> <span class="hps">se simt</span> <span class="hps">atunci când</span> <span class="hps">nu le sun,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cand nu le dau
mesaje…<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">apoi,</i></b> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">imi place sa le fac sa se simta nefolositoare,
inutile, ne</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">atractive si parasite.</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<span class="hps">Nu am interes pentru oameni, nu am nici un</span> <span class="hps">interes</span> pentru<span class="hps"> ei</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
in <span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">spun ei</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ii voi atrage, imi pun <span class="hps">farmecul</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">linguşirea</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la bataie <span class="hps">într-</span>un bar, <span class="hps">dar</span> <span class="hps">cuvintele</span> <span class="hps">despre
viaţa</span> <span class="hps">lor, care</span> <span class="hps">deverseaza apoi din</span>
<span class="hps">gura</span> <span class="hps">lor,</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>nu ma intereseaza deloc….e un bla, bla, bla.</span>
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: large;">Pur
si simplu nu imi pasa. Pur si simplu eu nu sunt acolo. Am o lipsa generala de
empatie pentru oameni si pentru tot ce se petrece in jur.</span></i></b><o:p></o:p><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Recent tatal
meu si-a pierdut mama si aceasta l-a durut mult. Dar cand ma gandesc la asta,
eu nu pot in mod real sa simt vreo durere sufleteasca. Imi place sa imi bat joc
de sora mea mai mica, sa o fac sa se simta mica si nedorita de nimeni, nu am
mai vorbit cu ea de doi ani….si traim in aceeasi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>casa…Comentarii rautacioase aruncate pe ici
si pe colo, stiind ca este slaba la minte si usor de necajit. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Eu o
domin.</i></b><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Etica</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">mea</span>
<span class="hps">de munca este</span> <span class="hps">****</span>, <span class="hps">urăsc</span> <span class="hps">toate</span> <span class="hps">locurile de
muncă, le gasesc sub demnitatea mea, mai ales</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pe <span class="hps">oamenii</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>care ma <span class="hps">obliga</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sa lucrez toata<span class="hps"> ziua</span>. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Ma
plictisesc repede dupa o <span class="hps">perioadă scurtă de timp</span></i></b>,
<span class="hps">şi, de obicei</span> <span class="hps">le parasesc</span> <span class="hps">intentionat</span>.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Aş</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">spune</span>
ca <span class="hps">de la</span> <span class="hps">vârsta</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">16-17 ani,</span> <span class="hps">deodată m-am</span> <span class="hps">simţit</span> <span class="hps">diferit</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">toţi cei</span> <span class="hps">din jurul meu</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Nu cred că</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> simt in acelasi fel<span class="hps">.</span></i></b>
<span class="hps">Exista</span> mult <span class="hps">mai multe</span> <span class="hps">in mintea</span> <span class="hps">mea</span>, <span class="hps">decât</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in <span class="hps">ale altora</span> <span class="hps">care</span> nu sunt <span class="hps">vrednici de nimic bun</span>. <span class="hps">Oh, şi</span> imi amintesc de cat m-am <span class="hps">bucurat de</span>
<span class="hps">uciderea</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> de <span class="hps">torturarea</span>
<span class="hps">broaştelor pe care, eu si un prieten le prindeam cand eram mici….lol</span>.</span><span class="hps"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"><strong><em><span style="color: #cc0000;">Eu
nu</span></em></strong></span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"><strong><em><span style="color: #cc0000;">
<span class="hps">pot</span> <span class="hps">forma, realiza </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">nici o</span> <span class="hps">relaţie</span>
<span class="hps">semnificativă cu</span> <span class="hps">sentimente</span> <span class="hps">profunde cu o femeie</span></span></em></strong>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>asa cum sincer ma indoiesc profund ca pot gasi
una pe care sa o respect deplin. <span class="hps">Obisnuinta este</span> <span class="hps">de o</span> <span class="hps">noapte, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">iar</span> <span class="hps">apoi,
după</span> <span class="hps">care in mintea mea</span> le consider ca un <span class="hps">alt instrument</span> murdar, doar pentru <span class="hps">de sex</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Sunt</span> <span class="hps">incoerent</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">nu</span> stiu unde ma indrept cu acestea…<span class="hps">Nu <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pot forma nici un sentiment sau legatura
profunda…Mai exista multe altele, dar….”</span></span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-A-Sociopath/309855"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-size: large;">Sociopathic Driving</span></span></a></span><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><o:p></o:p></span></h1>
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</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Posted
September 4th, 2008 at 10:18PM<o:p></o:p></span></i></b><br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Locul 3,
cu 1274 vizualizari<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">“</span></i></b><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Incep</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> sa fiu sarcastic <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>din nimic</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">…</span></i></b><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> </span></i></b></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Mai des</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">decât</span> linistea, o <span class="hps">furie imi</span> <span class="hps">vine</span> <span class="hps">pe neaşteptate</span>…<span class="hps"> Orice
se întâmplă</span>, <span class="hps">nu</span> ma simt vinovat de asta.”</span></i></b><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">„Cu totii ne</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">-am <span class="hps">întâlnit
cu astfel de nenorociti</span> <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">drumuri</span>.
<span class="hps">Ştii</span>, <span class="hps">clovnul ala</span> <span class="hps">care tocmai</span> ti-a <span class="hps">tăiat</span> calea sau care <span class="hps">conduce masina ca un</span> <span class="hps">maniac</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> care <span class="hps">pune în pericol</span> <span class="hps">siguranţa</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>. Te întrebi cand a
invatat<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>el sa conduca? <span class="hps">E</span>
<span class="hps">beat</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">doar</span>
<span class="hps">prost</span>?<br />
<span class="hps">Am menţionat</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">zona
de</span> <span class="hps">comentarii</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>privind <span class="hps">povestea mea ultima relatata "</span>Cine
crede<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>marturiile unui <span class="hps">sociopat</span>",<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca in prezent, eu nu abuzez<span class="hps">
de</span> <span class="hps">substanţe</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>M-am aflat<span class="hps"> sub</span> <span class="hps">iluzia</span> <span class="hps">pentru o</span> <span class="hps">lungă
perioadă de timp, ca atitudinile mele comportamentale deviante au fost</span> <span class="hps">alimentate</span> de<span class="hps"> substanţele</span> de care am
abuzat. <span class="hps">M-am înşelat</span>, se pare. <span class="hps">Nu am</span>
<span class="hps">pur şi simplu</span> nici o grija <span class="hps">pentru</span>
<span class="hps">siguranţa</span> <span class="hps">celorlalţi sau de</span> <span class="hps">mine şi</span> voi <span class="hps">desfăşura</span> <span class="hps">orice
activitate</span> <span class="hps">imprudenta</span> <span class="hps">pe care o
doresc, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">la</span>
<span class="hps">momentul</span> <span class="hps">potrivit</span>. <span class="hps">Este</span> <span class="hps">adevărat</span> <span class="hps">că în
timp ce</span> <span class="hps">beau</span>, <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">exemplu</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sunt <span class="hps">mult mai</span> <span class="hps">predispus sa fac</span> <span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">nenorocire</span> mi-<span class="hps">ar </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">trece prin</span> <span class="hps">mintea mea</span>, <span class="hps">dar</span> <span class="hps">am</span>
<span class="hps">constatat singur</span> - <span class="hps">comportamentul</span>
meu deviant <span class="hps">a continuat</span> <span class="hps">chiar şi în</span>
<span class="hps">perioadele</span> <span class="hps">mele de</span> <span class="hps">sobrietate, de abstinenta.</span></span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Sunt
lucruri</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> care ma deranjeaza, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dar nu sunt constient de acestea.</span></i></b><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">Un</span>
d<span class="hps">omeniu</span> <span class="hps">în care grija pentru energiile</span>
<span class="hps">mele</span> este atrofiata si in care agresivitatea mea
impotriva celorlalti este fatisa, este cand <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>eu conduc <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>o masina. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Sunt</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">, <span class="hps">în general,</span> un s<span class="hps">ofer</span> foarte <span class="hps">atent</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dar <span class="hps">atunci</span> <span class="hps">când</span> incep sa vad rosu in fata
ochilor<span class="hps"> si</span> sa <span class="hps">clocotesc, nu</span> <span class="hps">există</span> <span class="hps">nici</span> <span class="hps">o</span> imaginatie
posibila fata de ce pot eu sa fac.<br />
</i></b><span class="hps">Am</span> <span class="hps">efectuat</span> <span class="hps">manevre</span> <span class="hps">periculoase, m-am ciocnit</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> a<span class="hps">lte</span> vehicule, <span class="hps">posibil</span>
<span class="hps">cauzand cel</span> p<span class="hps">utin</span> <span class="hps">o</span> <span class="hps">urgenta</span> <span class="hps">medicală…Este
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>i<span class="hps">ntr</span><span class="atn">-</span>adevar <span class="hps">ciudat</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Incep</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> sa
fiu sarcastic <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>din nimic</i></b>. <span class="hps">Pasagerii</span> mei vor incepe sa se teama, isi vor <span class="hps">verifica</span>
<span class="hps">centurile</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">siguranţa
si se vor plange de cum conduc eu.</span> Dar eu s<span class="hps">unt</span> i<span class="hps">ntr</span><span class="atn">-</span>o <span class="hps">alta</span> <span class="hps">Lume</span>, <span class="hps">atunci</span>. <span class="hps">Eu</span>
nici macar nu <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ii aud. <span class="hps">Încep</span>
sa <span class="hps">visez</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la <span class="hps">lucrurile</span> rele care li se pot intampla <span class="hps">oamenilor
din alte masini.</span> <span class="hps">Vreau sa ii vad afara</span> <span class="hps">drumului</span> s<span class="hps">au</span> <span class="hps">răniti intr-un
fel</span>. Cateodata imi scapa lucruri oribile din gura, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iar <span class="hps">pasagerii mei nu imi spun
nimic deoarece</span> <span class="hps">nimeni</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">vrea</span> <span class="hps">sa</span> creada <span class="hps">ca</span>
<span class="hps">as</span> <span class="hps">putea</span> crede cu <span class="hps">adevărat</span> in <span class="hps">lucrurile pe care le afirm</span>.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Uneori</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">ştiu</span>
<span class="hps">sursa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">frustrare</span>
<span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">furia</span> <span class="hps">mea</span>:
<span class="hps">ar putea</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> cearta <span class="hps">recenta cu</span> <span class="hps">prietena mea</span>; <span class="hps">probleme la</span> <span class="hps">locul de muncă</span>, probleme <span class="hps">cu prietenii</span> <span class="hps">şi cu familia mea</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Mai des</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">decât</span> linistea, o <span class="hps">furie imi</span> <span class="hps">vine</span> <span class="hps">pe
neaşteptate</span>. </span></i></b><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">C<span class="hps">onduc <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>normal,</span> <span class="hps">de-a lungul</span> drumului <span class="hps">şi brusc</span> incep<span class="hps"> să</span> <span class="hps">accelerez</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Eu</span> atunci <span class="hps">zâmbesc</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>F<span class="hps">olosesc</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce poate</span> <span class="hps">fi</span>
<span class="hps">descrisa drept - conducere</span> <span class="hps">Kamikaze</span>.
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></i></b><span class="hps">Am</span> <span class="hps">prea multă încredere</span> <span class="hps">în capacitatea</span> <span class="hps">mea de a</span> <span class="hps">judeca</span> <span class="hps">dimensiunea
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>autoturismului meu şi pe ale</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>. <span class="hps">Voi</span> lasa doar <span class="hps">puţin
spaţiu</span> altora <span class="hps">pentru a trece</span>. <span class="hps">Voi</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>depasi <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">alţii</span>, la <span class="hps">viteze</span> <span class="hps">mult
peste</span> <span class="hps">limita de viteză</span> admisa. Ma v<span class="hps">oi</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>distra <span class="hps">cu vehicule</span>le<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>care <span class="hps">se apropie.</span> <span class="hps">Voi</span> trece peste si<span class="hps"> în afara</span> <span class="hps">benzilor</span> <span class="hps">de
trafic</span> <span class="hps">ca un</span> <span class="hps">...</span> <span class="hps">psiho</span>.</span><o:p></o:p><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Zigzag-ul,
</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">traficul</span> <span class="hps">la viteze</span> <span class="hps">mari</span>, <span class="hps">punerea
în pericol a</span> <span class="hps">vieţii</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>
<span class="hps">şi a propriei</span> <span class="hps">mele</span> vieti <span class="hps">îmi dă</span> <span class="hps">un sentiment</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">teribil</span>. Cat timp m<span class="hps">a simt</span> <span class="hps">ca si cum</span> <span class="hps">as</span>
<span class="hps">juca un</span> <span class="hps">joc video</span>, nu
conteaza<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cine <span class="hps">câştiga</span>
<span class="hps">sau</span> cine <span class="hps">pierde</span>. <span class="hps">Gânduri</span>
<span class="hps">de genul "</span>dacă <span class="hps">mă</span> <span class="hps">ciocnesc</span> <span class="hps">acum</span>, si <span class="hps">femeia</span>
<span class="hps">şi copilul ei</span> <span class="hps">şi mor,</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">nu ar</span> <span class="hps">fi</span>
<span class="hps">cool?", mie mi se invart in cap. Am</span> <span class="hps">fost numit</span> <span class="hps">un sofer</span> <span class="hps">bun</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> cativa. <span class="hps">Ei</span> <span class="hps">pur
şi simplu nu</span> <span class="hps">pot să creada</span> <span class="hps">cât de
bine</span> pot conduce un autovehicul. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ce nu stiu este ca mie <span class="hps">pur şi
simplu nu</span> imi <span class="hps">pasă de</span> <span class="hps">viaţa</span>
<span class="hps">lor</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de <span class="hps">viaţa</span> <span class="hps">mea</span> <span class="hps">sau a</span> <span class="hps">vehiculului şi</span>, <span class="hps">pentru aceste</span> <span class="hps">motive</span>, <span class="hps">eu</span> <span class="hps">imi voi
asuma riscuri foarte mari</span> <span class="hps">în timp ce conduc</span>. <span class="hps">Am avut </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">coliziuni cu</span> <span class="hps">câteva</span> <span class="hps">autovehicule</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">(</span>si cred ca <span class="hps">nu pot</span> <span class="hps">fi într-adevăr</span> <span class="hps">un
conducător auto</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>bun). <span class="hps">Ceea ce nu am</span> <span class="hps">observat</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">ceea</span>
<span class="hps">a fost</span> <span class="hps">mi-a subliniat</span> <span class="hps">de către un</span> <span class="hps">pasager al meu</span> <span class="hps">a fost</span> <span class="hps">expresia</span> <span class="hps">feţei</span>
<span class="hps">mele,</span> <span class="hps">după</span> ce <span class="hps">un
vehicul</span> <span class="hps">aproape</span> <span class="hps">m-a</span> <span class="hps">sters</span> <span class="hps">lovind in</span> <span class="hps">partea</span>
<span class="hps">şoferului</span>. <span class="hps">Pasagerul meu</span> <span class="hps">m-a întrebat: </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">"</i></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">De ce <span class="hps">zâmbesti</span>?"</i></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">…<o:p></o:p></i><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Este
nevoie de</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">
<span class="hps">ceva timp</span> <span class="hps">înainte de <em><strong>a</strong></em></span><em><strong> <span class="hps">"ma fixa</span>"</strong></em> <span class="hps">şi</span> imi <span class="hps">dau seama</span> <span class="hps">că am nevoie</span> de timp <span class="hps">pentru <em><strong>"a obţine</strong></em></span><em><strong> <span class="hps">o…aderenţă, o legatura"</span></strong></em>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Poate</span> intr-<span class="hps">o zi</span> <span class="hps">norocul</span> <span class="hps">meu va</span>
zbura <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">voi</span> <span class="hps">provoca</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">coliziune</span>, care va
pune <span class="hps">capăt</span> <span class="hps">vietii mele</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">vieţii</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>.
<span class="hps">Poate că</span> <span class="hps">s-ar putea</span> sa <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ajung un <span class="hps">paralizat</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> o <span class="hps">functionare a creierului</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>redusa<span class="hps">?</span><br />
<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Orice se întâmplă</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">, <span class="hps">nu</span> ma simt vinovat
de asta…”</i></b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif";"><a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-A-Sociopath/315287"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><em><span style="font-size: large;">There Is Nothing So Absurd
But Some Philosopher Has Said It.</span></em></span></a></span><em><span><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN;">..</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></em></h1>
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September 10th, 2008 at 9:01PM<o:p></o:p></em></strong></span><br />
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<strong><em><span lang="EN" style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">“…</span><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">ii <span class="hps">face</span> <span class="hps">şi mai periculosi</span>, ca <span class="hps">o bestie</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">nu</span>
<span class="hps">are doar intenţii voite</span>, <span class="hps">ci</span> si <span class="hps">capacitatea de a</span> <span class="hps">gândi</span>…</span><span lang="EN" style="color: #002060; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">”<o:p></o:p></span></em></strong><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">"Numele</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">meu este</span> <span class="hps">Pie</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">cred că</span> <span class="hps">eu sunt</span> <span class="hps">un fel</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">pseudo</span><span class="atn">-</span>sociopata. <strong><em><span class="hps">Sunt</span> <span class="hps">adepta</span> <span class="hps">manipularii</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">vicleniei
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si</span> <span class="hps">mi se pare</span>
<span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">nu simt nici o</span> <span class="hps">remuscare</span> <span class="hps">pentru fiinţele</span> <span class="hps">umane</span>. </em></strong><span class="hps">Cred că</span> <span class="hps">ceea
ce</span> <span class="hps">mă face</span> <span class="hps">pseudo- sociopata </span>este
<span class="hps">că eu sunt</span> <span class="hps">capabila</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">sentimente</span> <span class="hps">empatice,
am</span> <span class="hps">coduri Ia care tin</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>similare <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">vechile coduri</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">cavalerism</span>.
<span class="hps">Eu</span> <span class="hps">pot</span> <span class="hps">fermeca</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">seduce</span>, dar <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>prefer mereu un scop. Fara <span class="hps">nici
un scop</span>, atunci <span class="hps">eu nu</span> <span class="hps">mai bine</span>
<span class="hps">decât un câine</span> <span class="hps">turbat</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>care trebuie<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>izolat. <span class="hps">Cred că</span> <span class="hps">eu sunt</span> <span class="hps">o rasa rara sau demult apusa, careia nu</span> <span class="hps">ii
pasa</span> de <span class="hps">fleacuri</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">oameni, dar</span> c<span class="hps">auta</span> <span class="hps">doar</span>
<span class="hps">frumuseţea vieţii</span>, <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">ignorarea</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">faptelor sociale</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> a <span class="hps">legilor
care stau in calea mea</span>. <span class="hps">Eu</span> <span class="hps">pot
găsi</span> ca imi taie r<span class="hps">asuflarea</span> <span class="hps">frumuseţea</span>
<span class="hps">unui apus de soare</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> un<span class="hps"> război</span> <span class="hps">în care</span> tinerii soldati <span class="hps">sunt manipulati</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">luptă</span>
<span class="hps">şi in care sunt</span> <span class="hps">sacrificati</span> <span class="hps">lăsând</span> <span class="hps">mormane de cadavre, in urma</span>. <span class="hps">Oricum</span> ar fi, eu <span class="hps">am</span> <span class="hps">găsit
frumuseţea</span> <span class="hps">în acestea,</span> <span class="hps">este</span>
<span class="hps">aproape</span> <span class="hps">poetică</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">îmbătătoare</span>.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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</span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Am citit</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">prin intermediul</span>
<span class="hps">membrilor</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(acestui
forum) cateva <span class="hps">povesti</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">mi se pare</span> <span class="hps">că</span> sunt niste oameni/copii<span class="hps"> pierduţi</span>, <span class="hps">furiosi</span>, <span class="hps">violenti,
infricosati,</span> <span class="hps">lovind</span> <span class="hps">fiecare</span>
in <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">au găsit</span>, deoarece acestia
nu se pot regasi pe ei insisi. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"><strong><em><span class="hps">Este</span> <span class="hps">un
lucru</span> sa te bucuri de ce faci, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">dar un alt</span> lucru este sa intelegi <span class="hps">de ce</span>
te <span class="hps">bucuri de</span> <span class="hps">aceste lucruri.</span></em></strong> <span class="hps">Unii</span> <span class="hps">însă</span> <span class="hps">sunt capabili
să recunoască</span> <span class="hps">instinctele lor</span> <span class="hps">naturale,</span>
<span class="hps">animalice</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sa le tina in frau in balanta <span class="hps">cu</span>
<span class="hps">gândirea</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">logică</span>,
<span class="hps">care într-un</span> <span class="hps">sens,</span> <span style="color: #c00000;"><strong><em>ii <span class="hps">face</span> <span class="hps">şi mai
periculosi</span>, <span class="hps">o bestie</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">are doar intenţii voite</span>, <span class="hps">ci</span> si <span class="hps">capacitatea de a</span> <span class="hps">gândi</span>…"</em></strong></span></span><br />
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....<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Impreuna cu Dr. Paul Babiak, Dr. Robert Hare, celebru
in lume pentru rezultatele sale privind psihopatologia psihopatilor, a
transferat realizarile sale privind psihologia psihopatilor, catre lumea
corporatista a afacerilor, dezvoltand o grila - o lista de verificare si de
scanare a Psihopatiei uneori intalnita in afaceri, numita „Business Scan 360”, aceasta putand fi
utilizata în depistarea Psihopatilor Corporatisti.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> „Business Scan 360"
este o lista de verificare, care implică interviuri cu toti oamenii din jurul persoanei
în cauză, banuita a fi Psihopat Corporatist. Acest chestionarde psihopatologie
a unui individ, este administrat colegilor din firma pentru care lucrează şi
contine intrebari legate de preocupările sale, întrebări cu privire la
eventuale comportamente anti-sociale, la tendinţele de maturitate
organizaţională, la relatiile interpersonaleşi la stilul personal. Un scor/ un
rating final arata ce probleme de tip psihopatic are persoana verificata, pe baza
rezultatelor din aceasta lista de verificare.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Testul Hare original pentru psihopatie
criminala, este rezumat mai joscu titlu de referinţă:<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">1. Glibness/superficial charm – <b>Volubilitate si
sarm superficial<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">2. Grandiose sense of self-worth - <b>Sentimente grandioase
de auto-valoare</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">3. Need for
excitement – <b>Nevoia de emotii, surescitare, senzatii, de agitatie, de
excitatie<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">4. Pathological
lying – <b>Mincinos patologic<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">5. Conning/manipulative– <b>Escroc si manipulator<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">6. Lack of remorse or guilt – <b>Lipsa remuscarii si
lipsa vinovatiei personale<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">7. Shallow affect (emotion) – <b>Afectivitate
superficiala, minimala<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">8. Callous/lack of empathy – <b>Insensibil, Cruzime,
Duritate si lipsa empatiei </b>(Empatie=Formă de intuire a realității prin
identificare afectivă; Tendință a receptorului de a trăi afectiv, prin
transpunere simpateticăcu o alta persoana, cu viața eroilor din opere literare,
din filme, etc., conform DEX)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">9. Parasitic lifestyle –<b> Stil de viata parazitar<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">10. Poor behavioural control – <b>Control redus al
comportamentului<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">11. Promiscuous sexual behaviour – <b>Inclinatii spre
un comportament sexual promiscuu<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">12. Early behavioural problems – <b>Probleme de
comportament din tinerete<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">13. Lack of realistic long term goals – <b>Lipsa de
obiective realiste pe termen lung<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">14. Impulsivity- <b>Impulsivitate<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">15. Irresponsibility- <b>Iresponsabilitate<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">16. Failure to accept responsibility for actions - <b>Incapacitatea
de aaccepta responsabilitatea pentru acţiunile proprii</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">17. Many short term marital relationships - <b>Multe relatii
de tip marital dar pe termen scurt</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">18.Juvenile delinquency – <b>delicventa juvenila<o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">19.Revocation of conditional release - <b>Revocari de eliberare
condiţionată</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">20. Criminal versatility – <b>Versatilitate penala.</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Traducere
Sui Generis din <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: black; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">„The Implications of Corporate Psychopaths for
Business And </span></i></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Society: An
Initial Examination And A Call To Arms”,by </span></i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">CLIVE R. BODDY, Middlesex University Business School</span></i></div>
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<br /></div>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-62295456071171812712012-02-22T04:57:00.000-08:002012-02-22T04:57:16.072-08:00Nu încercaţi să Rationati cu Oameni Irationali, Nerezonabili - Oameni cu tulburari de personalitate<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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nerezonabili si irationali</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span><br />
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Psychologytoday, articol publicat pe 20 ianuarie
2012 de <b>Dr. Susan Biali, MD-</b></span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 9pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">(</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 9pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">traducere Sui Generis)</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Interesantul articol al Dr. Susan Biali prezinta
trasaturi caracteristice ale indivizilor cu „<b>Tulburari de personalitate
privind Bonitatea - Buna Credinta</b>” - Bona Fide Personality Disorders -
desigur alti <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sociopati... </span></i><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Gheisele de Cosmar, Perfizii
de Success, Diversionistii de Profesie, Habarnamistiiatotstiutori, Devoratorii
de Suflete, Psihopatii Corporatisti ...e important sa stim cum sa ne ferim din
calea „Ratatilor Deghizati in Om Bun”- articol interesant despre oamenii cu Tulburari Psihologice
de Buna Credinta…</span></i><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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viaţa ta cu care te stradui din greu sa ajungi la o intelegere, dar care iti
lasa mereu un gust amar si ramai cu sentimentul de inutil, ramai abatut, trist,
umilit?</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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care ajungi sa iti fie teama sa ai de a face sau sa iti petreci timpul, pentru
ca exista ceva legat de ei, care te face lipsit de puteri, fie te provoaca pana
la „a actiona nebuneste” (cand in mod normal tu esti zdravan la minte si o
persoana placuta pentru cei din jur), sau care reuseste de fiecare data sa te
faca sa renunti la ceva important pentru tine si pentru tot binele tau?</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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clientele mele mi-a povestit experienta sa cu o persoana care ii este
apropiata. Acesta ii face remarci ironice tot timpul intr-o conversatie, in
ciuda faptului ca se bate cu pumnul in piept ca este o persoana iubitoare si
protectoare. Ori de cate ori se termina intalnirea lor, clienta mea ramane in
suflet cu o acuta durere de gol, tristete, disperare, lipsa de speranta, care
durează si a doua zi.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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timp cu acest om, ea va exploda cu naduf in masina in drumul sau spre casa, iar
‚prietenul’ei se va uita la ea nedumerit, ca si cum e nebuna. Ea nu este deloc
asa – dar iata ca natura conversatiei lor este nesanatoasa (fiind mereu
otravita de„prietenul ei”).</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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si de a avea de a face cu o persoana nerezonabila, irationala - cu tulburari de
personalitate privind buna credinta-este probabil, cea mai mare lectiepe care
am invatat-o in ultimii ani, provocata de unele crize interpersonale şi
profesionale pe care le-am avut, desi am crezut initial ca a fost numai vina
mea. Am fost norocoasa sa intalnesc un expert uimitor in relationare, cu
pregatire in psihologie si o expertiza unica in tulburari de personalitate. M-a
ajutat sa vad ca de fapt aveam de a face cu indivizi cu tulburari de
personalitate si ca faceam o greseala -clasica - in incercarea mea de a face
relatiile sa functioneze.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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instruire in psihiatrie, a fost un urias moment „a-ha, deci asta e” atunci cand
am inteles ca erau indivizi cu „<i>tulburari de personalitate privind buna
credinta</i>”(bona fide personality disorders). Problema este ca poate exista o
lista clara de caracteristici care descriu persoana cu tulburari de
personalitate limitata, antisociala sau narcisista in DSM (Diagnostic and
Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). Dar cand ai de a face cu acest tip de
oameni, ei deseori nu devin diagnosticabili, pana cand nu petreci mult timp cu
acestia. Si chiar si atunci, daca esti in mod real prins emotional de ei, ai
putea sa nu fii in masura sa ii descoperi pe cont propriu. Interactiunea cu
persoanele cu „tulburari de personalitate privind buna credinta” te pot face sa
simti numai lucruri rele despre tine, ei pot spune sau pot face lucruri, care
te fac sa te simti prost sau care nu sunt in regula cu modul tau de a gandi. </span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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gasesc cai de a te face sa razi dupa toate, sau sa faca ceva dragut, nostim,
care pe tine te aduce intr-o confuzie - „cine”este persoana in realitate. Marea
majoritate a oamenilor vor alege sa se focalizeze pe partile bune si sa
minimalizeze patologicul, de multe ori spre pericolul lor.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p> </o:p></span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">O persoana dificila din viata ta ar putea sa nu aiba o tulburare de
personalitate extinsa, dar poate avea trasaturi partiale din aceasta, care se
exprima din cand in cand. Are nevoie sa puna inca un impozit (sa taxeze) pe
stima ta de sine si pe bunastarea celor din jur. Pentru scopurile acestui
articol, iata o lista scurta a tipurilor de oameni pe care i-as ingloba in
„nerezonabili, irationali”:</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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rezonabila; fac ce fac si iti rastalmacesc cuvintele sau te aduc intr-o stare
de totala confuzie si sustin apoi ca tu esti cel care nu stie sa comunice…</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">2. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Oamenii care subtil sau fatis fac comentarii
umilitoare sau afirma lucruri taioase deghizate in „glume”</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">3. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Oamenii care nu respecta limitele si au o
placere de a incalca toate limitele pe care tu le impui </span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">4. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Oamenii care nu sunt dornici sa ia in
considerare punctul tau de vedere sau sa asculte versiunea ta (sau care pur si
simplu se holbeaza in gol, sau rad, sau explodeaza atunci cand tu incerci sa
explici „ceea ce simti tu”)</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">5. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Agresorii</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">6. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Cei care abuzeaza verbal sau emotional (acestea
pot varia de la subtil la fatis)</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">7. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Manipulatorii</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">8. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Mincinosii</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">9. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Oamenii care te parasesc atunci cand te simti
umilit, trist, zdruncinat sau ai o senzatie de rau pana in cosul stomacului</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">10. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">"Oamenii care te innebunesc (care te aduc
in prag de nebunie, n.t.)", cei care te provoaca sa te comporti nebuneste
sau dezechilibrat (si care iubesc sa te faca sa crezi ca faci des ceva rau),
atunci cand comportamentul tau uzual din viata ta dovedeste contrariul</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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sunt ‚prea buni ca sa fie adevarati’ si care au un motiv ulterior.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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lucruri pe care le-am invatat despre cum sa fac fata si sa minimizez raul, sa
previn deteriorarea celor afectati, a zilele lor, sanatatea lor si a vietii
lor:</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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interactiunile cu ei cat mai scurte posibil. Minimizati expunerea la patologie
- o cale lunga, lunga.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">2)Pastreaza-ti
logica.</span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Sunt o persoana
volubila, inimoasa, asa ca voi incerca intotdeauna sa ma conectez si sa
rationez cu aceste tipuri (destul de mult fata de oricine altcineva) dintr-o
perspectiva emotionala sau empatica. Stiti acele„Cand imi faci lucrul X ma faci
sa ma simt in situatia Y”, tactici de comunicare care se predau in cartile
despre relationare. Aceste tipuri de comunicare centrate pe suflet functioneaza
numai cu oameni rezonabili, rationali‚carora le pasa’. Oamenilor irationali,
nerezonabili in mod uzual ‚nu le pasa’si raspunsul lor (sau lipsa raspunsului
lor) te va face deseori si mai suparat. Pastreaza o comunicare bazata pe fapte,
utilizand la minim detaliile.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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preajma lor.</span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Desi esti tentat
sa dai pe gat un pahar de vin sau doua cand esti in preajma oamenilor de acest
gen, te faci doar mai vulnerabil emotional si mult mai predispus sa faci sau sa
spui ceva inutil, care te va face fie sa arati rau, sa te simti rau sau sa te
transforme mai ales intr-o tinta.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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pe ei in conversatie.</span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">O cale de a evita
sa devii tinta comentariilor umilitoare, a manipularii sau sa ti se
rastalmacesca cuvintele, este sa vorbesti cat mai putin posibil. Ofera cat mai
putine informatii si pune-i in situatia sa vorbeasca despre ei insisi(daca
trebuie sa fii prin preajma lor sau sa discuti cu ei, asta e) –e un subiect
conversatiemult mai sigur decat esti tu.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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visul ca ei vor fi intr-o zi persoana care ti-ai dori tu sa fie.</span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Vad asta in sedintele de lucru cu clientii mei
si in mine de asemenea. Exista oameni in vietile noastre, care au momente in
care ei par a fi parintele/partenerul/sotul/prietenul (si adauga tot ce crezi
ca ar putea fi adecvat) pe care l-ai simtit ca ar putea fi pentru tine, dar ei
intotdeauna sfarsesc prin a ne rani sau dezamagi semnificativ (iremediabil
n.t). Uimitor noi le cadem in plasa si ne repunem sperantele din nou in bratele
lor, data viitoare cand ei ne trateaza frumos sau ne arata ca ‚au intors o noua
frunza’...(in orice toamna sunt mii si mii de frunze moarte, n.t.). Renuntarea
la speranta si acceptarea totala a unei astfel de persoane pentru ceea ce chiar
este, poate deveni o usurare inimaginabila, dupa ceea ce a fost pentru tine
(n.t.) o viata intreaga de dorinte.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">6) Stai deoparte
de subiectele care te baga in necaz, care te necajesc.</span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Inainte sa
interrelationezi cu o persoana dificila, revizuieste-ti in minte temele care te
invita la atac si fii proactiv pentru a le evita. De exemplu, in cazul în care,
ei facmereu remarci nepotrivite cu privire la alegerea ta pentru carieră,
aplica un raspuns neutru sischimba subiectul imediat(vezi pct. 4), daca te
intreaba cum mai stai cu munca.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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ii determini sa ‚iti prinda’, sa priceapa punctul tau de vedere.</span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Nu incerca sa le
explici despre tine, sa ii faci sa te inteleaga si sa empatizeze cu
perspectivele tale. Nu o vor face, iar tu te vei simti foarte prost ca ai
incercat.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<b><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">8) Creaţi o
distragere a atenţiei.</span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Daca trebuie sa
iti petreci timpul cu un om suparator cu <i>tulburari de personalitate privind
buna credinta</i>, incearca sa fii cu acesta doar in circumstante care pot
oferi o distragerea atentiei. Focalizeaza-te in a te juca cu un animal de
companie, daca exista in apropiere, fa ca interactiunea sa fie bazata pe o
activitate recreationala sau de agrement, sau ofera-te sa ajuti intr-o maniera
care te duce in afara ‚inelului principal al Coliseum-ului’ (de exemplu sa te
oferi sa tai legumele in bucatarie, inainte de o masa a familiei - ca sa iesi
din raza lui de actiune-). Daca poti sa faci orice, care le indeparteaza
atentia (de la tine) e cu atat mai bine.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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mentionat unui client azi, daca devii maestru in aceste situatii si poti
conduce aceste interrelationari in timp ce esti civilizat si chiar prietenos,
ai putea reusi sa salvezi relatia. Nu neaaparat ca ai dori, dar in unele cazuri
daca persoana e un membru al familiei, un sef al acesteia, sau o persoana cheie
in viata ta pe care nu o poti alunga din viata ta, aceste tactici se pot dovedi
a fi salvatoare de vieti. Cu siguranta au fost pentru mine!”</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #7030a0; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Dr. Susan Biali </span></i></b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #7030a0; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">este medic practician in psihiatrie, expert in sanatate, speaker, autor si
are ca pasiune personala dansul flamenco. A studiat medicina, dezvoltarea
personala, psihologia sanatatii si a fericirii timp de peste 20 de ani. De
asemenea vorbeste din prisma propriei experiente personale, ea suferind in
trecut o depresie profunda. Dr. Susan Biali a aplicat principiile pe care le
preda pentru asi transforma propria viata si sanatatea. Detine un Doctorat in
Medicina si este licentiata in Stiintele Nutritiei a Universitatii British
Columbia, Canada. A primit numeroase distinctii academice si personale inclusiv
<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">Rakesh Goel Prize </span>pentru cele
mai remarcabile aptitudini medicale clinice, <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">UBC Medal </span>pentru studiile in nutritie si recent premiul <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">Woman of Worth Award in Health &
Wellness</span>.</span></i><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-36001978511326842172012-02-22T04:32:00.000-08:002012-02-22T04:32:42.063-08:00Poarta-n ochi seninul...Esenin<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: #274e13; font-size: x-large;"><em>Poartă-n ochi seninul...</em></span></h3>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Poartă-n ochi seninul. Poartă noaptea-n păr.<br />Nu i-am spus iubitei nici un adevăr.</em></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>M-a-ntrebat: "Afară viscolu-i buimac?<br />Să-ncălzesc căminul, patul să ţi-l fac?"</em></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Poţi aşterne patul şi sufla-n cămin,<br />Eu şi fără tine sunt de viscol plin."</em></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Serghei Esenin (1895-1925), celebru poet rus.</em></span></div>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-25237227284087222132012-02-20T14:35:00.000-08:002012-02-20T14:35:08.261-08:00Iubesti un Ratat?...continuare si concluzii...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; font-weight: normal; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Exista si</span></span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; font-weight: normal; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"> <span class="hps">mai severe</span> cazuri si chiar
mai <span class="hps">periculoase</span> <span class="hps">versiuni</span> <span class="hps">ale</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ilor", <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">au fost identificate</span> <span class="hps">de-a lungul</span> <span class="hps">anilor.</span> <span class="hps">Dacă
sunteţi</span> <span class="hps">implicat</span> <span class="hps">într-o relaţie</span>
<span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">una dintre aceste</span> <span class="hps">versiuni</span>, <span class="hps">puteţi solicita</span> <span class="hps">asistenţă profesională şi</span> <span class="hps">juridică</span> <span class="hps">pentru a</span> va <span class="hps">salva</span>.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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</span><span class="hps"><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; font-weight: normal; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Agresorul</span></span><span style="color: windowtext; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; font-weight: normal; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"> <span class="hps">Fizic</span> <span class="hps">începe</span> <span class="hps">relaţia</span> <span class="hps">în
mişcare –</span> dand din <span class="hps">coate</span>, <span class="hps">împingând</span>,
<span class="hps">forţând</span>, <span class="hps">etc,</span> <span class="hps">se
mută</span> apoi <span class="hps">rapid</span> <span class="hps">în ameninţări</span>
<span class="hps">verbale</span>, cu <span class="hps">gesturi</span> <span class="hps">fizice</span> <span class="hps">–</span> iti arata <span class="hps">degetul</span>
<span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">faţă</span>, are <span class="hps">pumnul</span>
<span class="hps">strâns</span> la <span class="hps">faţa ta</span>, <span class="hps">isi exprima</span> <span class="hps">ameninţări</span> <span class="hps">fizice,
cum</span> <span class="hps">ar fi</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Tu <span class="hps">ma faci sa</span> <span class="hps">vreau sa iti sparg fata", </span>în
cele din urmă, <span class="hps">acestea</span> l<span class="hps">e combina</span>
<span class="hps">pentru a da forma</span> <span class="hps">abuzului</span> <span class="hps">fizic</span> <span class="hps">real</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">lovirea</span>, <span class="hps">palmuirea,</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
chinuirea. In ciclul Ticalos-Dulce, <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
dupa ce se poarta <span class="hps">rau cu tine, întotdeauna</span> <span class="hps">a doua zi,</span> ii pare rau si <span class="hps">reîncepe</span> sa
exerseze pe victima, <span class="hps">ciclul de om</span> Dulce. Victimele <span class="hps">agresorilor</span> <span class="hps">fizici</span> <span class="hps">necesită</span>
<span class="hps">de multe ori asistenţa agenţiilor de protectie a</span> <span class="hps">familiei</span>, asistenta juridica <span class="hps">sau sprijinul
agenţiilor</span> <span class="hps">locale de prevenire a abuzurilor</span>. Ratatii
<span class="hps">de sex feminin</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> isi <span class="hps">ataca</span> <span class="hps">fizic</span> <span class="hps">partenerul</span>,
<span class="hps">sparg</span> <span class="hps">geamuri</span> la masina, <span class="hps">sau se comporta</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">violenţă</span>,
astfel încât <span class="hps">partenerul de sex masculin</span> <span class="hps">este
obligat să</span> <span class="hps">se</span> <span class="hps">protejeze</span> <span class="hps">fizic</span> <span class="hps">de</span> acest <span class="hps">atac</span>.
<span class="hps">În cazul în care ea</span> <span class="hps">pierde</span> teren
fizic in timpul atacului sau daca va ramane cu vanatai din partea partenerului
aflat in <span class="hps">auto</span><span class="atn">-</span>protecţie, <span class="hps">aceste</span> <span class="hps">vânătăi</span> vor fi <span class="hps">apoi</span>
<span class="hps">"</span>afişate" <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">altora,</span> <span class="hps">ca o dovadă ca</span> are de a face cu <span class="hps">o persoană rea,
aratand</span> tuturor <span class="hps">modul în care</span> <span class="hps">partenerul
a abuzat-o pe ea</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">relaţie.<o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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orice <span class="hps">sens psihiatric</span> <span class="hps">–</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>vezi <span class="hps">filmul</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Fatal Attraction". <span class="hps">Unii</span> <span class="hps">pot</span> <span class="hps">să vă spuna</span> <span class="hps">poveşti</span>
<span class="hps">sălbatice</span> <span class="hps">şi vor încerca să te</span> <span class="hps">convingă că</span> sunt conectati cumva <span class="hps">la</span> <span class="hps">Mafia</span> <span class="hps">sau </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la <span class="hps">agenţii guvernamentale</span>
<span class="hps">(</span>CIA, <span class="hps">FBI</span>, <span class="hps">etc</span>).
<span class="hps">Ei</span> <span class="hps">pot juca teatru ca au boli</span> in
faza terminala, ca au o <span class="hps">sarcina in evolutie</span> <span class="hps">sau ca au diverse <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>alte boli</span>.
<span class="hps">Ei te pot</span> <span class="hps">intimida</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> te pot speria <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">comentarii</span>,
cum ar fi <span class="hps">"</span>Eu <span class="hps">pot ucide pe oricine...</span>"
<span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Nimeni nu ma poate
parasi pe mine<span class="hps">...</span>". <span class="hps">Dacă</span> <span class="hps">încerci să</span> <span class="hps">închei cu el</span> <span class="hps">relaţia</span>, <span class="hps">reacţionează</span> <span class="hps">violent</span>
<span class="hps">şi incearca sa iti dea</span> <span class="hps">impresia că</span>
tu, <span class="hps">prietenii</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">familia ta</span>, <span class="hps">sunteti</span> <span class="hps">în</span>
<span class="hps">pericol</span>. <span class="hps">Oamenii de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">rămân</span> <span class="hps">într-o</span> <span class="hps">relaţie
abuzivă</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">de control</span> <span class="hps">din cauza</span> <span class="hps">fricii de</span> a nu cauza vreun <span class="hps">rău</span> <span class="hps">familiei lor sau</span> <span class="hps">reputaţiei
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">acestora</span>. <span class="hps">În timp ce</span> <span class="hps">astfel de temeri</span> <span class="hps">sunt nerealiste,</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">este interesat doar sa detina controlul asupra victimei, in timp ce in
tine aceste temeri</span> sunt foarte<span class="hps"> reale,</span> atata timp
cat<span class="hps"> sunt combinate</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">alte caracteristici</span> <span class="hps">ale</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loserului".<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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psihici te</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="hps">pot urmari</span> si <span class="hps">hărţui</span>. <span class="hps">Acestia te-ar</span> <span class="hps">putea
ameninţa</span> cu <span class="hps">violenţa fizică</span>, pot sa iti arate
arme sau sa te amenite ca te omoara<span class="hps"> daca ii parasesti</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă</span> <span class="hps">încercaţi să</span> va gasiti un alt
iubit, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">ar putea să vă</span> urmareasca <span class="hps">sau va să ameninţe</span>
iubitul<span class="hps">.</span> Noul iubit poate fi supus la hartuire
telefonica, la <span class="hps">acte de vandalism</span>, la <span class="hps">ameninţări</span>
<span class="hps">şi chiar</span> la <span class="hps">atacuri</span> <span class="hps">fizice</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă sunteţi</span> <span class="hps">recent</span>
<span class="hps">divorţat</span>, <span class="hps">separat</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">sau</span> ati <span class="hps">încheiat</span> <span class="hps">recent</span> o alta relatie de
dragoste, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">poate</span> deveni <span class="hps">intimidant</span> <span class="hps">faţă de</span> <span class="hps">fostul
tău</span> <span class="hps">partener</span>, <span class="hps">temându-se</span> ca
acesta a<span class="hps">r putea</span> <span class="hps">reveni</span> la tine, <span class="hps">în cazul în care</span> <span class="hps">celalalt partener</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">"</span>speriat"
destul de bine de el. <span class="hps">Dar</span> <span class="hps">amintiţi</span>
<span class="hps">–va mereu ca tot ce face</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Ratatul"
si tot ce <span class="hps">a mai</span> <span class="hps">făcut</span> <span class="hps">inaintea ta altora,</span> l<span class="hps">e va</span> repeta si<span class="hps"> in cazul tau</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">vă poate trimite</span> <span class="hps">poze cu</span> <span class="hps">voi,</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cu <span class="hps">copiii dumneavoastră,</span> <span class="hps">sau cu</span> <span class="hps">familia -</span> <span class="hps">imagini</span> <span class="hps">care
au fost luate</span> <span class="hps">în secret</span> <span class="hps">–</span> facand
<span class="hps">aluzie</span> ca el ii poate <span class="hps">"</span>ajunge
<span class="hps">şi atinge</span>" si pe cei dragi tie. In concluzie, a<span class="hps">veţi</span> <span class="hps">nevoie de ajutor</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
de <span class="hps">acţiuni în justiţie</span> ca <span class="hps">să va despartiti
de</span> <span class="hps">aceste persoane bolnave psihic</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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trateaza. <span class="hps">Uita-te</span> la<span class="hps"> metodele</span> <span class="hps">enumerate mai sus</span> <span class="hps">şi ai sa vezi cum actioneaza de fapt
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Deveniti treptat</span> cat <span class="hps">mai</span> <span class="hps">plictisitoare</span>, <span class="hps">vorbiti
cat</span> <span class="hps">mai puţin</span>, <span class="hps">împărtăşiti opinii
si sentimente cat</span> <span class="hps">mai puţine</span>. Scopul <span class="hps">este sa incepeti sa il plictisiti pe</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Ratat"
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si de a obtine <span class="hps">diminuarea</span>
<span class="hps">ataşamentului</span> <span class="hps">emoţional</span>, <span class="hps">în timp ce</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> creati o<span class="hps">
situaţie</span> <span class="hps">care el v-ar</span> putea transforma in <span class="hps">ţintă</span>.</div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> In liniste, trebuie sa va <span class="hps">contactati familia</span> <span class="hps">şi pe alte persoane, care v-ar
putea sustine</span>. Cautati tot <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">ar putea</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">de ajutor</span>
<span class="hps">- un</span> <span class="hps">loc unde să stati, o protecţie</span>,
un <span class="hps">ajutor financiar</span>, <span class="hps">etc.</span></div>
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<span class="hps">te temi de</span> <span class="hps">violenţă</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">abuz</span>, obtine un sprijin prin <span class="hps">aplicarea legii</span>, cum ar fi <span class="hps">un ordin de
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Dacă</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
<span class="hps">este distructiv</span>, incet evacuati-va din l<span class="hps">ucrurile
de valoare</span> <span class="hps">de la</span> <span class="hps">domiciliu, incercati
sa va recuperati valorile, în cazul în care</span> sunt <span class="hps">în
posesia</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>. <span class="hps">În multe cazuri</span>,
<span class="hps">se vor</span> <span class="hps">pierde</span> <span class="hps">unele
obiecte</span> <span class="hps">cu caracter personal</span> <span class="hps">în
timpul</span> <span class="hps">detaşarii</span> <span class="hps">–oricum e un
preţ</span> <span class="hps">mic plătit</span> daca vei reusi sa scapi de acest Ratat.</div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> Opriti discutiile, certurile, <span class="hps">dezbaterile
si discutarea problemelor dintre voi</span>. Incetati sa va aparati defensiv si
sa va mai explicati – raspundeti <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">comentarii
confuze, cum</span> <span class="hps">ar fi</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Am
<span class="hps">fost atat de</span> <span class="hps">confuza</span> <span class="hps">in ultima vreme</span>" <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Eu <span class="hps">sunt sub</span> un <span class="hps">stress</span>
<span class="hps">atat de mare incat</span> <span class="hps">eu</span> <span class="hps">nu mai stiu</span> <span class="hps">de mine</span>".</div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Începeţi</span> sa aruncati <span class="hps">indicii</span> <span class="hps">că sunteţi deprimata</span>, <span class="hps">arsa</span>, <span class="hps">confuza in general</span> <span class="hps">despre</span> <span class="hps">viaţă</span>. <span class="hps">Amintiţi-vă</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>un ”Ratat” niciodata nu <span class="hps">îşi
asumă responsabilitatea</span> <span class="hps">pentru ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">se întâmplă în</span> <span class="hps">orice relaţie de a lui</span>. <span class="hps">"Ratatul</span>" <span class="hps">se va</span> <span class="hps">simţi</span> <span class="hps">mai bine</span> in privinta parasirii
relatiei daca pot da vina pe tine. <span class="hps">Multe persoane</span> <span class="hps">sunt obligate</span> <span class="hps">să "joace</span> teatrul de
<span class="hps">confuz</span>", plicticos, neinteresant, <span class="hps">ca
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>să permită</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ului"
<span class="hps">de a spune altora</span> <span class="hps">"</span>prietena <span class="hps">mea</span> <span class="hps">este pe jumatate nebuna</span>!" Ei
pot <span class="hps">spune si altora</span> <span class="hps">ca esti</span> <span class="hps">nebuna</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">confuza</span>
dar <span class="hps">vei</span> <span class="hps">fi mai in siguranta</span>. <span class="hps">Lăsaţi-i să</span> <span class="hps">creada</span> <span class="hps">tot
ce</span> <span class="hps">vor ei</span> <span class="hps">despre tine</span>,
atâta timp cât va aflati <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">procesul</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">detasare</span>.</div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Nu incepeti o alta relatie. Aceasta va va complica
situatia si ii va mari mania. Cel mai bine este sa o lasati mai moale pentru
cateva luni. <strong>„Ratatul” va localiza curand o alta victima si va deveni imediat
atasat de noua victima...pentru ca intre voi moare totul.<o:p></o:p></strong></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Daca Ratatul incepe sa puna intrebari privind
comportamentul tau, vorbeste cu el confuz, admite ca esti in depresie,
intr-o<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cadere emotionala si ofera-i
reactii de plictiseala.</span></div>
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</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">2. Incheierea relatiei de “dragoste”<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Amintiti-va mereu ca Ratatul nu accepta responsabilitatea faptelor sale,
raspunde cu nervozitate si manie la critici si se panicheaza la reactiile de
detasare – sfarsitul relatiei continua aceeasi tema ca si detasarea.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Explica ca din punct de vedere emotional esti amortita, confuza si
distrusa. Ca nu poti simti nimic pentru nimeni si ca iti doresti sa inchei
relatia mai mult spre binele lui. Aminteste-i ca probabil au observat ca e ceva
in neregula cu tine si ca ai nevoie de timp ca sa iti limpezesti gandurile ca
sa intelegi ce se intampla cu tine. Oricat de urat ar suna s-ar putea sa fie
nevoie sa folosesti tema “Nu sunt buna pentru nimeni la acest moment din
viata”. <strong>Daca bolnavul psihic, acest asa numit aici "Ratat", poate da vina pe tine asa cum oricum o face, el se va
evapora foarte repede... <o:p></o:p></strong></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">•</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">Dacă</span>
<span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">intra in panica</span>,
<span class="hps">vei</span> <span class="hps">primi un</span> <span class="hps">duş</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">apeluri</span> <span class="hps">telefonice</span>,
de <span class="hps">scrisori</span>, de note <span class="hps">pe masina</span> <span class="hps">ta</span>, <span class="hps">etc. Tu va trebui sa reactionezi la</span>
<span class="hps">fiecare apel în</span> <span class="hps">acelaşi mod</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">mulţumiri</span> <span class="hps">plictisite
si atat</span>. <strong><span class="hps">Dacă cumva ai</span> permis accesul lui in
apropierea ta, <span class="hps">ai</span> <span class="hps">pierdut controlul</span> <span class="hps">din nou</span>.</strong></span></div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Concentreaza-te pe</span> <span class="hps">nevoia ta de</span> <span class="hps">timp si cat mai departe</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">situaţie.</span> <span class="hps">Nu trebuie
sa fii de acord cu multiplele negocieri</span>, care <span class="hps">vor iti fi
oferite</span> <span class="hps">–</span> sa va intalniti mai rar, sa aveti <span class="hps">intalniri</span> <span class="hps">doar</span> <span class="hps">o dată
pe săptămână</span>, sa luati <span class="hps">o</span> <span class="hps">pauza de</span>
<span class="hps">o săptămână</span>, sa <span class="hps">mergeti la</span> <span class="hps">consiliere</span> <span class="hps">împreună</span>, <span class="hps">etc.
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><strong><span class="hps">Atâta timp cât</span>
<span class="hps">"</span>Ratatul" <span class="hps">are contact</span> <span class="hps">cu tine</span> <span class="hps">el va</span> <span class="hps">simţi</span>
ca <span class="hps">există o şansă</span> ca <span class="hps">să te manipuleze</span>.</strong></span></div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">"Ratatul</span>" <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">se va concentra</span> <span class="hps">pentru a te face</span> <span class="hps">sa te simti</span> <span class="hps">vinovat</span>. <span class="hps">În fiecare</span> <span class="hps">contact
din telefon</span> <span class="hps">vei</span> <span class="hps">auzi</span> <span class="hps">cât de mult</span> te iubeste, <span class="hps">cât de multe a facut
el pentru</span> <span class="hps">tine</span> <span class="hps">şi cât de multe a
sacrificat el</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">tine</span>.
<span class="hps">În</span> <span class="hps">acelaşi timp</span>, <span class="hps">vei</span>
<span class="hps">auzi</span> te comporti ca o haimana<span class="hps">, pentru
ca nu le dai oportunitatea de a repara lucrurile şi</span> ca il pui in <span class="hps">jenanta situatie a încheirii relaţiei voastre</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><strong>Nu</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><strong> <span class="hps">incerca să il faci</span> <span class="hps">să înţeleagă</span> <span class="hps">cum te</span> <span class="hps">simţi</span>
<span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">nu se va intampla</span>.</strong> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" este interesat numai de ce simte el <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">sentimentele</span> <span class="hps">tale
sunt</span> <span class="hps">irelevante</span>. Iti pierzi <span class="hps">timpul</span>
<span class="hps">incercand</span> <span class="hps">sa</span> il faci sa <span class="hps">inteleaga</span> <span class="hps">si</span> <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">vor</span> utiliza <span class="hps">discuţiile</span> <span class="hps">ca</span>
<span class="hps">o oportunitate de a</span> <span class="hps">face sa te simti</span>
si <span class="hps">mai</span> <span class="hps">vinovata</span> <span class="hps">şi
să te manipuleze</span>.</span></div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Nu</span> trebuie sa cazi in <span class="hps">schimbări bruşte</span> <span class="hps">de comportament</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">promisiuni</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">căsătorie</span>, <span class="hps">excursii</span>, <span class="hps">cadouri</span>, <span class="hps">etc. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">In tot acest</span> <span class="hps">timp,</span> <span class="hps">aţi văzut deja</span> <span class="hps">"Ratatul</span>"
este <span class="hps">în mod normal</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> in mod <span class="hps">natural</span>. <span class="hps">În timp ce</span> <span class="hps">oricine
poate</span> <span class="hps">schimba</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">o perioadă scurtă</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">timp</span>,
ei <span class="hps">se întorc</span> <span class="hps">întotdeauna la</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">lor anormal imediat</span> <span class="hps">după</span> ce <span class="hps">criza</span> a trecut.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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</span></span></span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Cauta</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">consiliere</span> <span class="hps">profesională</span> <span class="hps">pentru tine</span> <span class="hps">si</span> <span class="hps">sprijinul</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>
<span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">acest timp</span>. <span class="hps">Vei
avea nevoie de</span> <span class="hps">încurajare şi</span> <span class="hps">de
orientare</span>. <span class="hps">Păstreaza în</span> <span class="hps">minte</span>,
<span class="hps">în cazul în care</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
<span class="hps">afla</span> <span class="hps">ce</span> <span class="hps">se</span>
petrece, el va critica dur <span class="hps">consilierea</span>, <span class="hps">terapeutii</span>,
<span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">eforturile tale</span>.</span></div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Nu folosi</span> <span class="hps">termeni</span>
<span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">"</span>intr-o zi", <span class="hps">"</span>poate" <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">"</span>în
<span class="hps">viitor</span>". <span class="hps">Atunci când</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">aude</span> <span class="hps">astfel de posibilităţi</span>, <span class="hps">el stie ca ai
slabiciuni</span> <span class="hps">şi vor</span> <span class="hps">creşte</span> <span class="hps">presiunea</span> <span class="hps">lor asupra ta</span>.</span></div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Imaginaţi-vă un</span> <span class="hps">slot-machine</span> <span class="hps">moarta</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă
esti</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">Las</span> <span class="hps">Vegas</span>, la <span class="hps">un slot-machine</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">tragi</span> de <span class="hps">maneta</span>
<span class="hps">de zece ori</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">nu
se întâmplă nimic</span> <span class="hps">–</span> <span class="hps">vei trece</span>
<span class="hps">la un alt</span> <span class="hps">aparat</span>. <span class="hps">Cu toate acestea</span>, <span class="hps">în cazul în care</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">a 10 a <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>oară</span> masina <span class="hps">te</span> <span class="hps">plăteşte</span> <span class="hps">chiar şi</span> <span class="hps">un
pic</span>, tu nu vei abandona maneta ei <span class="hps">–cu gandul ca</span> <span class="hps">Jackpot-ul este</span> <span class="hps">pe drum</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă suntem</span> <span class="hps">foarte</span> siguri <span class="hps">şi hotarati</span> <span class="hps">cu privire la</span> <span class="hps">decizia de a</span> <span class="hps">pune capăt</span> <span class="hps">relaţiei,</span> <span class="hps">apoi</span> <span class="hps">brusc</span>
ii <span class="hps">oferim</span> <span class="hps">o posibilitate sau</span> o <span class="hps">speranta</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">reconciliere</span>
<span class="hps">–</span> <span class="hps">presiunea</span> lui <span class="hps">va</span>
<span class="hps">continua</span>. <span class="hps">Nu va schimbaţi</span> <span class="hps">poziţia</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">spuneti</span>
<span class="hps">mereu</span> <span class="hps">acelaşi lucru</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" ca in cazul masinii slot, daca nu il plateste,
va trece la alt slot. </div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><o:p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"> </span></o:p></span><b><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Protectia ta dupa
despartirea de un Ratat<o:p></o:p></span></b><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><strong>"Ratatul</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><strong>" <span class="hps">nu</span> accepta <span class="hps">responsabilitatea</span> faptelor
sale si nici ca sunt singurii vinovati!</strong></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span class="hps">Dintr-un</span> <span class="hps">punct de vedere</span> <span class="hps">psihologic</span>, <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">a trăit</span> <span class="hps">şi a acţionat</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">acest
mod</span> in <span class="hps">cea mai mare</span> parte <span class="hps">a
vieţii</span> <span class="hps">lui si</span> <span class="hps">în mod clar</span> si
sigur in <span class="hps">toata</span> <span class="hps">viata</span> <span class="hps">lui de adult</span>. Astfel ei nu inteleg ca este vina lor sau ca ei
sunt indivizii cu probleme. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">tinde să</span> <span class="hps">creada</span> <span class="hps">că</span>
<span class="hps">prietena</span> (<span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">prietenul)</span>
<span class="hps">trece pur şi simplu</span> <span class="hps">printr-o</span> <span class="hps">fază</span> <span class="hps">– deci ca</span> victima sa <span class="hps">ar putea fi</span> <span class="hps">temporar</span> depresiva <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">confuza, ca poate o sfatuiesc gresit
altii, sau poate ca are o suparare peste care va trece</span> <span class="hps">în
curând</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">rareori</span>
<span class="hps">se desprinde</span> <span class="hps">complet</span> <span class="hps">şi va încerca</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> sa mentina <span class="hps">contactul</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">partenera</span>,
chiar <span class="hps">după ce</span> <span class="hps">relaţia</span> <span class="hps">se încheie</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps">o serie de orientări</span> utile ar fi:</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> <span lang="EN"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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iniţială</span>. <span class="hps">Este</span> definitiva! </span></strong><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps">Ai putea crede</span> <span class="hps">că</span> il <span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">calma</span> pe <span class="hps">"</span>Loser",
dar in sinea lui el simte ca exista <span class="hps">încă</span> <span class="hps">posibilităţi</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> ca doar putina <span class="hps">presiune</span> <span class="hps">mai</span> <span class="hps">este
necesară</span> <span class="hps">pentru a reveni in</span> <span class="hps">relatie</span>.</span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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care sa va aminteasca de vremurile trecute. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Pentru Ratat a discuta despre vremurile
trecute, este din nou o alta modalitate de a va supara, necaji, o ocazie in
care sa va dea jos garda si sa foloseasca invinuirea<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pentru a va agata iar.</span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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relatii sau noua viata. </strong>Asigurati-l ca atat viata dumneavoastra cat si viata
lui sunt acum private si ca sperati ca ei sunt fericiti.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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vinovata in timpul unui telefon, inchideti repede telefonul. Multi oameni se
reintorc in mariaje si relatii vatamatoare din sentimente de vinovatie, mai
degraba decat din altele. Daca ascultati aceste telefoane de la<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>mica distanta sau daca le inregistrati, veti
descoperi ca Ratatul isi petrece timpul in convorbire, incercand sa va faca sa
va simtiti vinovata.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">În</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">orice contact</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">ex-"Ratatul</span>"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">oferă-i</span> <span class="hps">doar
un</span> <span class="hps">raport sumar</span>, ca si cum i l-ai oferi
matusii <span class="hps">Gladys</span>. <span class="hps">De</span> <span class="hps">exemplu</span>: <span class="hps">"</span>Eu <span class="hps">încă
ma antrenez din greu</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> fac progrese la tenis. <span class="hps">Atat doar despre asta</span>. <span class="hps">"</span><br />
<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Când</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loserul"
<span class="hps">vă spune cât de</span> <span class="hps">grea a fost despartirea,</span>
schimbati cu el doar cateva vorbe despre aceasta si despre cat de greu este sa
gasesti o persoana potrivita. <span class="hps">În timp ce</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loserul" va <span class="hps">vrea</span> <span class="hps">să se concentreze</span> <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">relatia
ta</span>, trebuie sa ii poti <span class="hps">vorbi în termeni vagi si generali
ca</span> o <span class="hps">Ann</span> <span class="hps">Landers</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Ei bine, o ruptura este grea
pentru oricine. Sa iti gasesti pe altcineva potrivit pe lumea asta e dificil,
dar sa speram ca fiecare vom reusi candva sa gasim pe cineva potrivit.<span class="hps"> <strong>"Nu uitati – nimic sa nu fie Personal</strong></span><strong>!</strong></span></div>
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<span class="hps">•</span> <span class="hps">Păstraţi</span> <span class="hps">toate
contactele</span> <span class="hps">scurte şi</span> amabile <span class="hps">–</span>
cu cat mai scurte cu atat <span class="hps">mai</span> <span class="hps">bine</span>.
<span class="hps">În ceea ce il priveşte</span> pe <span class="hps">"</span>Loser"
<span class="hps">el trebuie sa stie ca esti pe drum spre ceva, ca ai ceva la
microunde, ca mama ta este in drum spre tine si mai are cativa pasi pana
ajunge, etc.</span> Urati-i Ratatului de bine si mereu cu o voce neutra, sobra,
ca si cum ati vorbi pe la o bacanie. <span class="hps">Pentru convorbirile
telefonice</span>, <span class="hps">companiile</span> <span class="hps">de
electronice</span> au<span class="hps"> un gadget</span> util, care <span class="hps">produce aproximativ</span> <span class="hps">douăzeci de</span> <span class="hps">sunete</span> <span class="hps">– o sonerie, o</span> <span class="hps">usa
trantita</span>, <span class="hps">o alarmă de</span> <span class="hps">cuptor</span>
<span class="hps">cu microunde</span>, <span class="hps">un ciocănit</span> <span class="hps">în uşă</span>, <span class="hps">etc. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Acest dispozitiv</span> <span class="hps">mic</span> <span class="hps">este la îndemână</span> <span class="hps">pentru
a il utiliza pe</span> <span class="hps">telefon</span> <span class="hps">–</span> ca
si cum ati arata – uite, ca <span class="hps">cina mea calda e gata sau uite, cineva</span>
<span class="hps">este la</span> <span class="hps">usa</span>. <span class="hps">Fă
tot ce</span> <span class="hps">trebuie</span> <span class="hps">să faci pentru a</span>
<span class="hps">întreţine o conversaţie</span> <span class="hps">scurtă</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">personală</span>.</span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">În</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">relaţiile</span>
<span class="hps">noastre de</span>-a lungul vietii, <span class="hps">noi vom
întâlni</span> <span class="hps">o varietate</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">indivizi</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">personalitati</span>
<span class="hps">diferite</span>. <span class="hps">Unii sunt</span> <span class="hps">o reala bucurie</span> <span class="hps">de a-i avea</span> <span class="hps">în preajma</span> <span class="hps">noastră şi</span> <span class="hps">ne</span>
<span class="hps">oferă</span> o<span class="hps"> viata</span> plina <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">dragoste si</span> <span class="hps">de
siguranta</span>. <span class="hps">Alţii</span> <span class="hps">prezintă</span> <span class="hps">un risc</span> foarte mare <span class="hps">pentru noi şi</span>
pentru <span class="hps">viitorul nostru</span> din cauza <span class="hps">personalităţii</span>
<span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">şi a atitudinilor lor</span>. <span class="hps">Atât</span> <span class="hps">în medicină</span> cat <span class="hps">şi
pentru sănătatea mentală</span>, <span class="hps">cheia</span> <span class="hps">pentru
sănătate este</span> <span class="hps">identificarea timpurie</span> <span class="hps">si tratarea</span> <span class="hps">problemelor aparute -</span> <span class="hps">înainte de a ajunge</span> <span class="hps">în punctul în care</span> <span class="hps">acestea devin</span> grave si trec <span class="hps">dincolo de</span> efectele
<span class="hps">tratamentelor</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">În anii</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">practică,</span> de <span class="hps">psihoterapie</span> <span class="hps">şi de consiliere</span> in <span class="hps">tratarea</span> <span class="hps">victimelor</span> <span class="hps">"Ratatilor</span>", am
identificat <span class="hps">modele de</span> <span class="hps">atitudine</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> de <span class="hps">comportament ale</span> <span class="hps">"Ratatilor</span>",
pe <span class="hps">care le pot prezenta si enumera</span> în <span class="hps">speranţa</span>
<span class="hps">de a oferi</span> posibilitati de <span class="hps">identificare</span>
<span class="hps">timpurie</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">de
avertizare</span>. <span class="hps">Atunci când</span> identificati <span class="hps">aceste semne şi </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">indicatorii</span> acestor<span class="hps"> modele</span> <span class="hps">trebuie să treceti</span> <span class="hps">repede</span> la actiune <span class="hps">pentru a scăpa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> acel „Ratat”. <span class="hps">Continuând</span> <span class="hps">o relaţie</span> <span class="hps">cu</span>
un <span class="hps">"Ratat</span>", <span class="hps">veti duce o viata care
va implica</span> <span class="hps">intimidare</span>, <span class="hps">frică</span>,
<span class="hps">izbucniri</span> <span class="hps">de furie</span>, <span class="hps">control</span> <span class="hps">paranoic</span> <span class="hps">şi o</span>
<span class="hps">pierdere totală</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">stima de sine</span> <span class="hps">şi de încredere în sine</span>.</span><b><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Dacă aţi</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">fost</span>
<span class="hps">implicata într-o</span> <span class="hps">relaţie</span> <span class="hps">pe termen lung</span> <span class="hps">cu un</span> <span class="hps">"Ratat</span>",
<span class="hps">după ce</span> <span class="hps">veţi scăpa</span> cu<span class="hps"> succes,</span> <span class="hps">este posibil să observaţi</span> <span class="hps">că aţi</span> <span class="hps">suferit</span> <span class="hps">unele
daune</span> <span class="hps">psihologice</span>, care vor necesita <span class="hps">reparaţii</span> <span class="hps">profesionale</span>. <span class="hps">În multe cazuri</span>, <span class="hps">stresul</span> <span class="hps">a fost</span> <span class="hps">atat de grav incat puteti avea o
depresie produsa pe fond de stress</span>. <span class="hps">Puteţi avea</span> <span class="hps">leziuni severe</span> asupra increderii in sine, a stimei de sine sau
privind<span class="hps"> sentimentele </span>fata de <span class="hps">sexul opus</span>
<span class="hps">sau fata de relatiile de dragoste</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Psihologii</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">, <span class="hps">psihiatrii</span>,
<span class="hps">asistenţii sociali</span>, <span class="hps">consilierii</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">sunt insa disponibili</span> <span class="hps">în comunitate</span> <span class="hps">pentru a</span> <span class="hps">ajuta</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> pentru a <span class="hps">ghida victimele in a reusi</span>
<span class="hps">să se recupereze</span> <span class="hps">dupa</span> <span class="hps">relatia dramaticata</span> si distrugatoare cu un <span class="hps">"Ratat</span>"."</span></div>
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</span><b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #244061; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;">You Dating a Loser? Identifying Losers, Controllers and Abusers in
Relationships -</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #244061; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"> by Dr Joseph M Carver, PhD<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Loser-ul"
te supune la <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">cicluri</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> <span class="hps">de la Ticalos</span> <span class="hps">la Dulce</span></b><span class="hps"> pe sistemul inainte –</span> <span class="hps">înapoi in mod repetat (acest bolnav mintal alterneaza pe victima un
tratament ciclic – cand se poarta ca un Dulce, cand se poarta ca un Ticalos –
cu tine, repetand mereu aceasta alternanta <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">„de
la Cald la Rece”</b>, care te va face sa<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>suferi ca un caine si te va scoate pur si simplu din minti,
dezechilibrandu-te, n.t.). </span>Ciclul <span class="hps">începe atunci când</span>
<span class="hps">acesta<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>vrea în mod
intenţionat</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sa iti faca rau, sa
te chinuie si sa fie ticalos cu tine. <span class="hps">Ai putea fi</span> <span class="hps">agresata verbal</span>, <span class="hps">blestemata</span> <span class="hps">şi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ameninţata chiar pentru
ceva</span> <span class="hps">minor</span>. <span class="hps">Dintr-o data</span>, <span class="hps">a doua zi</span> <span class="hps">va deveni</span> <span class="hps">Dulce</span>,
va face <span class="hps">toate</span> <span class="hps">acele lucruri</span> <span class="hps">mici</span> care <span class="hps">au făcut</span> deliciul relatiei
voastre, <span class="hps">atunci când</span> v-<span class="hps">aţi început</span>
relatia de dragoste.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Tu, victima te a<span class="hps">tarni</span> de orice, <span class="hps">sperând</span> ca <span class="hps">fiecare</span> <span class="hps">ciclu de</span> Ticalos si apoi Dulce
- <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">ultimul</span>. Alt scop al <span class="hps">ciclului lui de</span> Ticalos <span class="hps">este de a-i permite</span>
<span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ului",<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>sa spuna <span class="hps">lucruri</span> <span class="hps">foarte</span> <span class="hps">urâte</span> <span class="hps">despre tine tuturor carora le pasă</span>
de tine (sa iti ruineze reputatia intre cunoscuti, prieteni, rude, n.t.), <span class="hps">din nou,</span> reusind sa iti stirbeasca, sa iti ciobeasca stima ta<span class="hps"> de sine</span> <span class="hps">şi încrederea ta în tine</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">iti va cere scuze</span>, <span class="hps">dar</span> <span class="hps">deteriorarea</span>
<span class="hps">stimei tale de sine</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">deja</span> <span class="hps">facuta -</span> <span class="hps">exact aşa
cum</span> el a si <span class="hps">planificat</span>.</span><span class="Heading1Char"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><strong>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Loser-ul"
va <span class="hps">da vina pe tine</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">furia</span> <span class="hps">lor, precum şi</span> pentru <span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">alt comportament</span> de al lui, <span class="hps">care este</span> <span class="hps">incorect</span>. <span class="hps">Când
are</span> de gand sa te <span class="hps">înşele, va</span> <span class="hps">tipa</span>
<span class="hps">la tine</span>, te va <span class="hps">trata</span> <span class="hps">rău</span>, iti va <span class="hps">distruge</span> <span class="hps">proprietatea
personala</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">te</span> va <span class="hps">face de râs</span> <span class="hps">în public</span> <span class="hps">–</span>
si culmea, toate astea sunt mereu din <span class="hps">vina ta</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă apari cu zece</span> <span class="hps">minute in întârziere,</span>
chiar si <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">o data</span>, <span class="hps">e</span> <span class="hps">vina ta</span> <span class="hps">că, el
„Ratatul”</span> <span class="hps">masculin</span> va conduce mai apoi cu<span class="hps"> 80 de</span> <span class="hps">mile pe oră</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>va speria pietonii in trafic si iti va
distruge tot <span class="hps">restul</span> serii. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
iti va <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>spune</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca <span class="hps">furia</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> toate <span class="hps">abaterile</span>
<span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">s-ar fi</span> <span class="hps">întâmplat</span>
<span class="hps">dacă</span> tu <span class="hps">nu ar fi</span> intarziat, daca <span class="hps">l-ai fi</span> <span class="hps">iubit</span> <span class="hps">mai mult</span>,
<span class="hps">sau</span> daca nu ai fi comentat <span class="hps">comportamentul</span>
<span class="hps">lui</span>. </span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Loser-ul"
<span class="hps">niciodată</span> si repet <span class="hps">niciodată, nu</span> <span class="hps">îşi asumă responsabilitatea</span> <span class="hps">personală</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul lui</span> <span class="hps">–</span> el da intotdeauna v<span class="hps">ina</span> <span class="hps">pe altcineva</span>.</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> </span></b><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">În cazul în care</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> el <span class="hps">conduce</span>
<span class="hps">ca un</span> <span class="hps">maniac</span> <span class="hps">şi
va asalta in trafic un driver</span> <span class="hps">nevinovat</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">de fapt, dupa el, este</span> <span class="hps">vina</span> <span class="hps">acelui sofer</span> <span class="hps">(</span>niciodata
vina <span class="hps">lui</span>), <span class="hps">deoarece acesta</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">a folosit</span> <span class="hps">semnalizarea</span>
<span class="hps">atunci când</span> <span class="hps">a schimbat</span> <span class="hps">benzile de mers</span>. <span class="hps">El</span> iti <span class="hps">da</span> mereu <span class="hps">impresia</span> de vinovatie si <span class="hps">că ai</span> <span class="hps">avut</span> parte de ceea ce meriti de
fapt de: furie, <span class="hps">strigate</span>, <span class="hps">atac</span>,
manie, <span class="hps">violenţă</span>, <span class="hps">bosumflare, panica,
tacere inselatoare(n.t.)</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">afişarea</span>
fizica a agresiunii.</span><span class="Heading1Char"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><strong> </strong></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">intra in panica</span> daca
iti vine <span class="hps">ideea sa</span> <span class="hps">rupi </span>relatia
„de dragoste” <span class="hps">–</span> doar <span class="hps">dacă aceasta nu
este</span> <span class="hps">în totalitate</span> <span class="hps">ideea lui</span>
si<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>daca este ideea lui, el te arunca din
mana pur si simplu <span class="hps">ca</span> pe <span class="hps">o piatra</span>
<span class="hps">fierbinte</span>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>„Ratatii” <span class="hps">abuzivi</span> de cate ori incerci sa <span class="hps">rupi relatia cu ei,</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">încep sa se puna pe jos, sa se trantesca, sa plânga</span>, sa invoce
mii de scuze si promisiuni, <span class="hps">acestia promit să</span> se <span class="hps">schimbe</span>, iti<span class="hps"> oferă</span> iar <span class="hps">căsătoria</span>
<span class="hps">,</span> <span class="hps">excursii</span>, <span class="hps">cadouri</span>,
atunci când tu ii <span class="hps">ameninţi</span> <span class="hps">că vrei sa
pui capăt</span> acestei relatii… <span class="hps">Ambii ratati si</span> <span class="hps">de sex masculin</span> <span class="hps">şi feminin</span> te pot <span class="hps">ameninţa</span> cu <span class="hps">sinuciderea</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>vor <span class="hps">ameninţa ca</span> <span class="hps">să se întorc la</span> <span class="hps">iubitii</span> lor <span class="hps">vechi</span> <span class="hps">(</span>care insa <span class="hps">se
simt</span> <span class="hps">norocosi</span> <span class="hps">ca au scapat si ca
ratatii au plecat</span>!). <span class="hps">Sau te ameninţă</span> ca vor <span class="hps">să renunţe la</span> <span class="hps">locul lor de muncă</span> <span class="hps">şi să părăsească</span> <span class="hps">zona</span> <span class="hps">-</span>
<span class="hps">ca şi cum</span> tu vei <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">responsabil</span> <span class="hps">pentru toate aceste</span> <span class="hps">decizii ale lor</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ii"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iti <span class="hps">oferă</span> <span class="hps">o multitudine</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">"</span>oferte"
şi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de <span class="hps">jumătăţi de</span>
<span class="hps">măsura</span>, <span class="hps">cum ar fi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>"</span>Să ramanem impreuna macar inca<span class="hps"> o</span> <span class="hps">luna</span> <span class="hps">mai mult</span>!".
<span class="hps">Ei te supun la adevarate dusuri de apeluri</span> <span class="hps">telefonice</span>, <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">la fiecare</span> <span class="hps">cinci</span> <span class="hps">minute</span>,
<span class="hps">în speranţa că</span> <span class="hps">vei fi de acord,</span>
macar pentru <span class="hps">a opri</span> pur si simplu <span class="hps">hărţuirea</span>
<span class="hps">telefonica</span>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Ratatii va vor suna insistent <span class="hps">rudele</span>, prietenii,
pe <span class="hps">prietenii lor</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span> pe <span class="hps">oricine altcineva</span> <span class="hps">se pot gândi ei</span> <span class="hps">–</span> pentru a le <span class="hps">spune</span> <span class="hps">acestor</span>
<span class="hps">oameni să</span> <span class="hps">te sune</span> <span class="hps">şi să iti spuna</span> <span class="hps">cât de mult</span> <span class="hps">te iubeste el- Ratatul. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Acesti ratati creativi iti vor <span class="hps">creea</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> o <span class="hps">presiune</span>
<span class="hps">atât de mare</span> <span class="hps">sociala, incat tu, victima,</span>
vei fi de acord <span class="hps">să te reintorci in</span> <span class="hps">relaţia
rea si abuziva</span>, mai degrabă, decât<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>sa fii <span class="hps">în continuare</span> <span class="hps">sub</span> <span class="hps">presiunea</span> <span class="hps">socială</span>. <span class="hps">Imaginaţi-vă</span>
incercand sa incheati o relatie cu el si ca va treziti<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca primiti <span class="hps">apeluri telefonice
lacrimogene<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de la rudele lui (in secret
ei de fapt spera ca sa il tii tu si sa scape ei de el) </span>sau ca iti cer <span class="hps">întoarcerea<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>prin anunt în</span>
<span class="hps">ziar sau</span> <span class="hps">chiar pe un</span> <span class="hps">panou</span> de afisaj stadal, iti va aduce <span class="hps">flori la</span>
<span class="hps">locul de muncă</span> <span class="hps">în fiecare zi</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">le va trimite prin curier, iti va oferi un
inel de</span> <span class="hps">nunta</span> <span class="hps">(</span>tehnica <span class="hps">ratatului</span> <span class="hps">masculin</span>), <span class="hps">sau</span>
<span class="hps">va informa</span> <span class="hps">că ar putea</span> <span class="hps">fi gravidă</span> <span class="hps">(</span>tehnica <span class="hps">ratatului</span>
<span class="hps">feminin</span>),<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>chiar <span class="hps">în faţa</span> <span class="hps">colegilor</span> <span class="hps">tăi</span>!
<span class="hps">Reacţia</span> <span class="hps">lui este</span> <span class="hps">intens</span>
<span class="hps">emotionala</span>, dar este <span class="hps">un comportament</span>
prefacut <span class="hps">pe care il foloseste</span> doar <span class="hps">pentru
</span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">‚a</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> te <span class="hps">tine el,</span> <span class="hps">prizoniera</span> <span class="hps">emotional’</span></span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">. </span><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Dacă</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">te intorci inapoi la el</span>,
tu <span class="hps">te vei teme in viitor sa il mai ameninti cu despartirea,
temandu-te de fapt de </span>o reactie si mai rea - astfel el te va transforma
i<span class="hps">n</span> <span class="hps">prizonier</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iar, <span class="hps">mai târziu<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iti va aminti frecvent</span> <span class="hps">incidentul, ca</span> o <span class="hps">dovadă</span> <span class="hps">în continuare,</span> ca esti o persoana rea, eventual pusa pe rele. <span class="hps">Amintiţi-vă</span>, ca atunci cand <span class="hps">câinele</span> <span class="hps">dumneavoastră</span> sare prima data peste gard <span class="hps">şi
scapă</span>, <span class="hps">când il veti readuce</span> <span class="hps">înapoi,
ii veti construi un gard</span> si <span class="hps">mai inalt</span>. Dar o <span class="hps">dată reîntors</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">strânsoarea,
in lantul</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ului"
<span class="hps">–</span> orice evadare viitoare va fi de trei ori mai dificila.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>te <span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">încuraja</span>
perfid <span class="hps">să renunţi</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>la toate <span class="hps">hobby-urile tale</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la toate <span class="hps">interesele tale</span>,
precum şi implicarea ta in relatii de orice fel <span class="hps">cu alţii</span>.
<span class="hps">Dacă ai o activitate individuală</span>, <span class="hps">el iti
cere</span> <span class="hps">ca să te însoţească</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>te
va <span class="hps">face să te simţi</span> <span class="hps">mizerabil</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">întreaga ta activitate</span>. Ideea <span class="hps">din spatele</span> <span class="hps">acestei fapte imorale este sa te
împiedice să</span> <span class="hps">te distrezi</span> <span class="hps">sau sa
ai orice</span> <span class="hps">alte interese</span> <span class="hps">decât</span>
<span class="hps">cele pe care el, Ratatul le</span> poate <span class="hps">controla</span>
<span class="hps">în totalitate</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" te <span class="hps">va verifica</span> <span class="hps">şi te va urmări</span>, ce faci si cu cine esti. <span class="hps">Dacă
ai vorbit cu</span> <span class="hps">o persoana de sex</span> <span class="hps">opus</span>,
<span class="hps">vei fi bombardat cu</span> <span class="hps">douăzeci de întrebări</span>
<span class="hps">despre unde l-ai cunoscut. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Dacă</span> <span class="hps">nu</span>
ii <span class="hps">răspunzi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cand te suna
el la telefon, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>vei fi interogata
intens unde esti, ce faci si cu cine vorbesti. <span class="hps">Ei vor</span> <span class="hps">observa</span> <span class="hps">tipul</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">noroi</span> de <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">masina
ta</span>, te vor intreba de ce mergi la cumparaturi la anumite <span class="hps">magazine</span> si in <span class="hps">anumite locuri</span>, te<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>vor <span class="hps">întreaba</span> <span class="hps">de ce</span> ti-<span class="hps">ai sunat</span> <span class="hps">un
prieten</span>, <span class="hps">de ce</span> <span class="hps">te-a sunat</span> <span class="hps">prietenul</span>, <span class="hps">şi aşa mai departe</span>. Unii
Ratati te vor urmari la <span class="hps">băcănie</span>, <span class="hps">apoi</span>
<span class="hps">te vor intreba dacă</span> <span class="hps">ai</span> <span class="hps">fost acolo</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">încercarea
de a te</span> <span class="hps">prinde</span> cu vreo o minciună. <span class="hps">În cazurile severe</span>, <span class="hps">ei iti sparg email-ul</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iti rascolesc poseta si portofelul,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>te buzunaresc, apasa r<span class="hps">eapelarea</span>
<span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">telefonul tau atunci când</span> <span class="hps">sosesc</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">cauta</span>
<span class="hps">prin gunoiul tau, tot felul de dovezi. (in orice caz iti va
sugera sa ai grija ca toate telefoanele sunt ascultate si sa ai grija ce spui
si ce vorbesti, acesta aducandu-te intr-o frica interioara, in griji
permanente, in mii de frustrari interioare neelucidabile si aproape in
paranoia,n.t.).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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vor <span class="hps">încuraja</span> <span class="hps">să</span> <span class="hps">dai
telefoane "private"</span> <span class="hps">la prieteni</span> <span class="hps">de la domiciliul</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>, <span class="hps">apeluri</span>
<span class="hps">care sunt</span> in <span class="hps">secret</span> <span class="hps">inregistrate de el</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">mai târziu</span>. <span class="hps">Acestia pot</span> <span class="hps">începe</span> <span class="hps">să iţi spuna</span> <span class="hps">ce
să</span> <span class="hps">porti, ce muzica să</span> <span class="hps">asculti şi</span>
<span class="hps">cum</span> <span class="hps">să te comporti</span> <span class="hps">în public</span>. <span class="hps">În cele din urmă</span>, <span class="hps">ei</span> iti<span class="hps"> spun că</span> <span class="hps">nu mai
poţi</span> <span class="hps">vorbi</span> <span class="hps">cu prietenii</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> cu <span class="hps">anumite</span> <span class="hps">cunostinte</span>,
iti spun sa nu te duci in<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">anumite locuri</span>, <span class="hps">sau sa nu vorbesti </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">despre</span> <span class="hps">anumite
probleme</span> <span class="hps">în public</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă nu</span>
<span class="hps">este prevăzut </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in
program sa va intalniti <span class="hps">vineri seara</span>, <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
te <span class="hps">va informa</span> <span class="hps">că</span> te<span class="hps"> va</span> <span class="hps">suna</span> el seara sau <span class="hps">noaptea</span>
<span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">cândva</span>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Asta te va tine l<span class="hps">a tine</span>
<span class="hps">acasă</span>, <span class="hps">în aşteptarea</span> <span class="hps">apelului sau</span>, <span class="hps">temându-te</span> de <span class="hps">abuzul</span> <span class="hps">verbal</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
de alte <span class="hps">întrebări pe care le</span>-ai putea <span class="hps">primi</span>
<span class="hps">dacă</span> <span class="hps">nu ai fost</span> <span class="hps">acasă</span>
<span class="hps">pentru</span> a primi <span class="hps">apelul lui – asta este
ceea ce el si urmareste, sa nu te duci nicaieri si sa stai la mana lui (n.t.).</span>
<span class="hps">Aceasta tehnica</span> <span class="hps">permite</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ului" <span class="hps">de a face</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">doresc</span> ei in viata lor <span class="hps">sociala</span>, <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">acelaşi
timp,</span> <span class="hps">controlandu-te pe tine de la distanţă</span> <span class="hps">sau de</span> la <span class="hps">un bar local din apropiere</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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numele, va <span class="hps">spune lucruri</span> <span class="hps">crude sau</span>
<span class="hps">jenante</span> <span class="hps">despre</span> <span class="hps">tine
in</span> <span class="hps">privat</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> chiar <span class="hps">fata</span> altor <span class="hps">oameni</span>. (de exemplu, de zeci
de ori, „Ratatul meu”,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dupa ce ma supara
rau de tot si eram amarata sau plansa,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>imi punea brusc la telefon, deci pe neasteptate o persoana importanta,
un bun prieten, un colaborator important, etc, eu perorandu-i<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in continuare supararea mea, fara sa stiu ca
acel om, deci cineva, care ma stia si ma respecta…era la celalalt capat al
firului, ramanand socat de ce aude prin glasul meu disperat...Abia acum imi dau
seama ca scopul era sa imi distruga reputatia si sa imi strice sufletul pe inca
cateva zile. Desi i-am interzis sa mai „faca glume” proaste, le-a repetat pe
neasteptate in detrimentul meu, de multe alte ori…cand eram intr-o stare rea,
scuzandu-se ca acea persoana dorea doar sa ma salute si ca el nu putea sa il
refuze…n.t.).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Atunci
când</span> esti in <span class="hps">public</span>, dupa aceste torturi <span class="hps">înveţi</span> <span class="hps">repede</span> <span class="hps">că</span>
<span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">opinie pe care</span> o vei <span class="hps">exprima, il</span> <span class="hps">poate provoca</span> <span class="hps">să</span> te <span class="hps">atace</span> <span class="hps">verbal</span>,
<span class="hps">fie in acel moment</span> <span class="hps">sau mai târziu</span>.
<span class="hps">Dacă</span> <span class="hps">stai</span> <span class="hps">cu</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>un <span class="hps">"</span>Loser" <span class="hps">prea</span> <span class="hps">mult timp</span>, te <span class="hps">vei
gasi în curând</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">zâmbind
politicos</span>, <span class="hps">spunând</span> <span class="hps">nimic</span>, lasandu-te
in plata Domnului, apatica, retrasa, timida, de nerecunoscut (n.t.), sprijinindu-te
<span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">braţul</span> <span class="hps">lui
atunci când</span> sunteti <span class="hps">în public</span>. De asemenea, <span class="hps">tu vei incepe sa mergi</span> cu <span class="hps">capul</span> <span class="hps">în jos</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pe strada de
teama <span class="hps">de a vedea vreun</span> <span class="hps">prieten</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">ar putea să</span> se opreasca si sa <span class="hps">vorbeasca cu tine, creeand apoi o reacţie furioasă</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser". <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps">că</span> tu <span class="hps">nu esti niciodată</span> <span class="hps">destul de</span> <span class="hps">destul de buna</span>. <span class="hps">Nu ii spui</span> suficient de mult <span class="hps">"</span>te
iubesc", <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">stai</span> <span class="hps">destul de aproape de el</span>, <span class="hps">nu faci</span> <span class="hps">suficient de multe</span> <span class="hps">pentru el</span> după <span class="hps">toate</span> <span class="hps">sacrificiile lui</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">tău</span> este<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>nemultumitor <span class="hps">ca de obicei,
fata de ceea ce asteapta el de la tine (..de exemplu mie imi spunea – eu te
iubesc mult mai mult decat ma iubesti tu, fii mai putin egoista, ai putea sa
faci mai multe pentru mine, m-am sacrificat ca sa iti fac mofturile, esti prea
rasfatata, ce nu iti convine ca doar ai tot ce iti trebuie, tu esti mereu
nemultumita, pe tine nu te poate multumi nimeni si nimic, dupa toate cate am
facut pentru tine ar trebui sa fii mai buna, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sa fii mai smerita, ai incredere si rabdare,
toate la timpul lor, trebuie sa dam timp timpului, ar trebui sa ma asculti mai
mult, etc…Evident desi incercam sa fiu buna si indatoritoare cu el, ma simteam
inutila si ca nu reusesc sa fiu destul de buna…asa mi-a disparut naturaletea,
voiosia, dorinta de viata…incetul cu incetul, devenind apatica, trista,
nefericita si retrasa si nu pricepeam niciodata de ce. n.t.) Aceasta</span> <span class="hps">este insa o alta metoda</span> <span class="hps">de a distruge</span> <span class="hps">respectul de sine</span> <span class="hps">şi încrederea ta in tine</span>.
<span class="hps">Dupa</span> <span class="hps">luni de zile in care iti aplica
aceasta tehnica</span>, <span class="hps">el începe</span> s<span class="hps">a iti
spuna</span> <span class="hps">cât de norocoasa eşti</span> ca il ai pe el <span class="hps">–</span> el care te <span class="hps">tolerează</span> <span class="hps">pe
tine, o persoana atât de</span> <span class="hps">inadecvata</span> <span class="hps">şi de</span> <span class="hps">lipsita de valoare, adica tu, victima.
(de exemplu mie imi spunea des: „pai, daca nu eram eu, tu erai pierduta” sau
„habar nu ai cat de norocoasa ai fost ca m-ai intalnit tu pe mine”, n.t.).</span></span></div>
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drepturi, profit si beneficii<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">„Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">are un</span> <span class="hps">sentiment de</span> egocentrism si crede ca el are numai <span class="hps">drepturi</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de aceea <span class="hps">atitudinea</span> lui se bazeaza <span class="hps">pe ideea logica</span>
– ca poate sa faca tot ce isi doreste. (de exemplu mie imi spunea mereu ca „el
face ce vrea, cum vrea si cand vrea” – incat imi taia toate aripile si ma
ingrozeam in sinea mea de ce ma mai asteapta. n.t.). <span class="hps">În cazul
în care</span> se afla <span class="hps">în trafic</span>, <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span class="hps"> simte</span> <span class="hps">că are tot</span> <span class="hps">dreptul</span>
<span class="hps">de ‚a</span> <span class="hps">executa in tafic’</span> un <span class="hps">alt conducător auto, sa il atace pe</span> <span class="hps">drum şi</span>
sa <span class="hps">puna în pericol</span> <span class="hps">viaţa</span> <span class="hps">altor</span> <span class="hps">şoferi</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">accesele lui de furie</span> si cu temperamentul lui agitat de la
volan. <span class="hps">Păstreaza te rog în</span> <span class="hps">minte, ca acelasi
sens</span> al </span><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">‚<span class="hps">dreptului</span> de a avea doar drepturi’</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">va fi</span> <span class="hps">folosit
si împotriva ta, candva</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă nu vei</span> <span class="hps">asculta</span> <span class="hps">dorinţele</span> <span class="hps">lui
sau</span> <span class="hps">cererile</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> daca <span class="hps">incalci</span> <span class="hps">una dintre regulile</span> <span class="hps">lui</span>, Ratatul <span class="hps">se simte perfect</span> indreptatit
sa<span class="hps"> te</span> <span class="hps">pedepseasca</span>, în <span class="hps">orice mod</span> <span class="hps">consideră el de cuviinţă</span>.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Daca</span> <span class="hps">relaţia</span>
<span class="hps">continuă</span>, <span class="hps">prietenii</span> <span class="hps">si</span> <span class="hps">familia</span> ta <span class="hps">vor</span>
<span class="hps">vedea</span> <span class="hps">ce</span> face <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>din tine. <span class="hps">Ei vor</span> <span class="hps">observa</span> <span class="hps">o schimbare</span> <span class="hps">in
personalitatea ta</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> o<span class="hps"> retragere</span>.
<span class="hps">Ei vor</span> <span class="hps">protesta</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iti<span class="hps"> va</span> <span class="hps">spune ca sunt</span> <span class="hps">gelosi pe</span> <span class="hps">"</span>iubirea voastra specială", <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>va <span class="hps">folosi</span> <span class="hps">apoi</span> <span class="hps">protestul</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>
<span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">o dovadă în plus</span> <span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">ei toti sunt împotriva ta</span>. Menţiunile,
numultumirile <span class="hps">membrilor</span> <span class="hps">familiei sau ale
prietenilor tai, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">vor
declanşa</span> <span class="hps">un răspuns</span> <span class="hps">furios</span>
<span class="hps">de la Ratat</span> <span class="hps">–</span> si <span class="hps">în
cele din urmă</span> el <span class="hps">te va pune</span> <span class="hps">în</span>
<span class="hps">situaţia în care</span> <span class="hps">încetezi să mai</span> <span class="hps">vorbesti</span> cu cei carora le pasa de tine, chiar si cu <span class="hps">membrii</span> <span class="hps">familiei</span> <span class="hps">proprii</span>.
<span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" va <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">gelos</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> se va simti <span class="hps">ameninţat</span>
<span class="hps">de oricine</span> iti este <span class="hps">aproape</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">chiar şi de copiii</span> <span class="hps">tăi</span>.
<span class="hps">În unele cazuri</span>, <span class="hps">părinţii</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">fraţii</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si <span class="hps">surorile</span>, nu <span class="hps">vor mai avea permisiunea</span> <span class="hps">de a-ti vizita</span>
<span class="hps">casa ta</span>.</span><span class="Heading1Char"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><strong> <o:p></o:p></strong></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Oamenii</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> te
lasa sa le descoperi <span class="hps">personalitatea</span> <span class="hps">lor,</span>
pe baza <span class="hps">povestilor pe care ti le spun</span> <span class="hps">despre
ei înşişi</span>. <span class="hps">Este</span> <span class="hps">vechea poveste</span>
de <span class="hps">a da</span> <span class="hps">o frânghie</span> <span class="hps">suficient de</span> lunga unei <span class="hps">persoane pentru a se
spanzura.</span> <span class="hps">Poveştile</span> care ni se spun, vorbesc
despre acea persoana d<span class="hps">espre modul în care</span> <span class="hps">se vede</span>, <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">ea</span>
<span class="hps">crede ca este</span> <span class="hps">interesant</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">ea</span> <span class="hps">crede că</span> <span class="hps">vă va</span> <span class="hps">impresiona</span>.
<span class="hps">Un individ</span> <span class="hps">plin de umor</span> <span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">spune</span> <span class="hps">povesti</span>
<span class="hps">amuzante</span> <span class="hps">despre el însuşi</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>va
<span class="hps">spune</span> <span class="hps">poveşti</span> <span class="hps">de
violenţă</span>, de <span class="hps">agresiune</span>, in care tradeaza ca este
insensibil la altii, vorbeste despre <span class="hps">respingerea</span> <span class="hps">altora</span>, <span class="hps">etc. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Acestia pot</span> <span class="hps">să iti povesteasca despre</span> <span class="hps">relatiile lui din
trecut</span> <span class="hps">şi în</span> <span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">caz</span>, te<span class="hps"> va asigura că</span> a <span class="hps">tratat</span> <span class="hps">oribil</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>chiar daca el s-a comportat minunat. <span class="hps">Ei</span> <span class="hps">se lauda</span> <span class="hps">cu privire
la</span> <span class="hps">temperamentul lor</span> <span class="hps">şi al
izbucnirilor lor</span>, deoarece <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">nu
văd</span> <span class="hps">nimic</span> <span class="hps">în neregulă cu</span> <span class="hps">violenţa</span> <span class="hps">şi efectiv</span> se mandresc spunand:
"Eu <span class="hps">nu iau</span> <span class="hps">nimic</span> <span class="hps">de la</span> <span class="hps">nimeni</span>". <span class="hps">Oamenii</span>
<span class="hps">se</span> <span class="hps">definesc</span> <span class="hps">cu</span>
<span class="hps">povestile lor</span> la fel cum cultura <span class="hps">este</span>
<span class="hps">descrisa de</span> <span class="hps">folclor</span> <span class="hps">si</span> de <span class="hps">legende</span>. <span class="hps">Asculta-le</span>
<span class="hps">aceste povesti</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">ei</span>
<span class="hps">vă spun de fapt cum</span> <span class="hps">veti fi</span> <span class="hps">în cele din urmă</span> <span class="hps">tratati</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> vor aduce chiar ei <span class="hps">in calea voastra</span>.</span><span class="Heading1Char"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><strong> <o:p></o:p></strong></span></span></div>
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</span></span></span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Testul<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chelnaritei<span class="hps"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Se spune</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">că, atunci când</span> este
la o intalnire de dragoste, <span class="hps">modul în care un</span> <span class="hps">individ</span> <span class="hps">tratează</span> <span class="hps">o
chelneriţă</span> <span class="hps">sau o altă persoană</span> <span class="hps">neutră</span>
<span class="hps">de sex</span> <span class="hps">opus</span> <span class="hps">este</span>
<span class="hps">modul în care</span> te <span class="hps">va</span> pe
tine,iubita <span class="hps">trata</span> <span class="hps">în urmatoarele şase</span>
<span class="hps">luni.</span> <span class="hps">În timpul</span> <span class="hps">"</span>fazei
de <span class="hps">luna de miere</span>" ale <span class="hps">relatiei te
va trata ca</span> pe <span class="hps">un rege</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
ca pe o <span class="hps">regina</span>. <span class="hps">Cu toate acestea,</span>
<span class="hps">în tot acest timp</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
<span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">a uitat cum simte el despre</span> <span class="hps">sexul</span> <span class="hps">opus</span>. <span class="hps">Chelnerii</span>,
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>functionarii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">sau alte persoane</span> <span class="hps">neutre</span> <span class="hps">vor fi tratate</span> <span class="hps">prost</span>.
<span class="hps">În cazul în care</span> <span class="hps">acestia sunt</span> ieftini<span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">nu vei</span> <span class="hps">primi</span> <span class="hps">nimic</span> <span class="hps">odată ce</span> <span class="hps">luna de
miere</span> se termina. <span class="hps">În cazul în care</span> <span class="hps">se văita</span>, <span class="hps">plang</span>, <span class="hps">critica</span>,
barfesc si <span class="hps">chinuie</span> <span class="hps">-</span> acesta <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">modul în care</span> <span class="hps">te</span>
va <span class="hps">trata</span> pe tine <span class="hps">în urmatoarele şase</span>
<span class="hps">luni.</span> <span class="hps">O persoana</span> <span class="hps">sanatoasa</span>
<span class="hps">psihic</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>tratează</span> pe <span class="hps">aproape</span>
<span class="hps">toţi oamenii</span> <span class="hps">la fel,</span> <span class="hps">tot timpul</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă te afli intr-o relatie de
iubire cu</span> <span class="hps">un om</span> <span class="hps">care te</span> <span class="hps">tratează ca pe o</span> <span class="hps">regină</span> <span class="hps">şi pe alte femeie</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> pe o <span class="hps">mizerie</span>, fugi cat poti de repede din <span class="hps">drumul
lui</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Aşa cum am menţionat</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">, <span class="hps">indivizii</span>
<span class="hps">sănătoşi</span> <span class="hps">mental</span> <span class="hps">sunt
consecventi cu</span> <span class="hps">personalitatea</span> <span class="hps">şi comportamentul</span>
<span class="hps">lor</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>va <span class="hps">avea</span> <span class="hps">două</span> <span class="hps">reputaţii</span> <span class="hps">distincte</span>
<span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">un grup</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">persoane</span> <span class="hps">vă vor oferi</span> <span class="hps">rapoarte</span> <span class="hps">stralucitoare</span> <span class="hps">si</span>
<span class="hps">un alt grup</span> <span class="hps">vă va</span> <span class="hps">avertiza</span> <span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">acesta are</span>
<span class="hps">probleme</span> <span class="hps">serioase</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă</span> <span class="hps">întrebaţi</span> <span class="hps">zece</span>
<span class="hps">persoane</span> <span class="hps">despre un</span> <span class="hps">nou restaurant</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">cinci</span>
<span class="hps">spun ca</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">minunat</span>
<span class="hps">si cinci</span> <span class="hps">spun că</span> <span class="hps">este</span>
<span class="hps">o groapă mizera</span> <span class="hps">–</span> astfel <span class="hps">aţi înţeles</span> <span class="hps">clar</span> <span class="hps">că
există</span> <span class="hps">un anumit risc</span> <span class="hps">implicit</span>
<span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">mananca</span> <span class="hps">acolo</span>.
<span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" se poate <span class="hps">lăuda</span>
<span class="hps">cu privire la</span> <span class="hps">reputaţia</span> <span class="hps">lor <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca fiind un</span> <span class="hps">"tip care le da la altii cu piciorul in fund</span>", <span class="hps">"</span>afemeiat", <span class="hps">"</span>iute la
mânie" <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">"nebun</span>".
<span class="hps">Ei pot</span> <span class="hps">să vă spuna</span> <span class="hps">poveşti</span> in <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">alţii i-au
numit</span> <span class="hps">nebuni</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">au sugerat</span> <span class="hps">că acestia beneficiază de</span> un
<span class="hps">ajutor</span> <span class="hps">profesionist</span>. <span class="hps">Acordaţi atenţie</span> <span class="hps">la</span> <span class="hps">reputaţia
lui</span>. <span class="hps">Reputatia</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">percepţia publică</span> <span class="hps">a</span> <span class="hps">comportamentului</span>
<span class="hps">unui individ</span>. </span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Dacă</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">reputaţia</span> <span class="hps">are două</span> <span class="hps">laturi
– si bune şi rele </span>- <span class="hps">riscul</span> <span class="hps">este
mare</span>.</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">Vi se servi cu</span> <span class="hps">partea de</span>
<span class="hps">rele</span> <span class="hps">după</span> ce <span class="hps">luna
de miere s-a terminat.</span> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Avand <span class="hps">probleme de
comportament</span> <span class="hps">grave</span>, <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>nu are prieteni ci doar <span class="hps">cunoştinţe</span>.</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">Persoanele</span> <span class="hps">sanatoase</span> <span class="hps">emotional</span>
<span class="hps">si moral</span> <span class="hps">nu vor</span> <span class="hps">tolera</span>
<span class="hps">prietenii</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> Ratatii, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>care ii <span class="hps">trateaza pe ceilalţi</span>
<span class="hps">atat de rău</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă veti simti ca nu va
plac prietenii</span> <span class="hps">"Ratatului</span>", <span class="hps">este pentru că</span> <span class="hps">acestia</span> <span class="hps">funcţionează</span>
<span class="hps">în acelaşi mod</span> cu <span class="hps">el si ii puteti regasi
in el. (de exemplu dupa mult timp am observat ca parca devenise un „aspirator
de lichele, vicleni si de jigodii”, desi se invarteau toti intr-un anturaj
elevat, de la distanta iti sarea in ochi ca nu sunt in regula, ca sunt
barfitori, interesati, ingamfati si pusi pe capatuiala cu orice pret. Ma
razvrateam si ii spuneam ca eu nu mai merg la acele intalniri cu ei, ca par
tepari, ca nu imi place privirea lor vicleana si ca nu sunt nici in ruptul
capului de acord sa fiu prin preajma acestor indivizi, care nu au ce cauta in
lumea si in preajma nostra. Plecand de la invatatura celor 7 ani de acasa care
spune: ‚sa nu stai cu neamurile proaste nici de vorba nici la masa si sa nu ai
de a face cu ei’, eu m-am retras suparata, dar el a continuat relatiile cu
aceia, desi chiar erau neseriosi si ciudati in comportament, evident in
detrimentul lui si al relatiei noastre, a carei incredere a avut mult de
suferit. n.t.) <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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relaţie</span> <span class="hps">cu "</span>Loser-ul" <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>va <span class="hps">continua</span>, <span class="hps">vei fi</span> <span class="hps">treptat,</span> <span class="hps">expusa
la</span> <span class="hps">intimidarea</span> <span class="hps">verbală</span>, la
<span class="hps">istericale</span> de <span class="hps">temperament</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la <span class="hps">interogatoriilor</span> <span class="hps">lungi</span> <span class="hps">cu privire la</span> diverse <span class="hps">chestiuni obisnuite</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la
<span class="hps">violenţă</span>, la <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">ameninţări</span> <span class="hps">îndreptate</span> spre <span class="hps">alţii</span>, dar in prezenta ta, la o <span class="hps">preocupare</span>
<span class="hps">paranoica </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>fata de<span class="hps"> activităţile</span> tale <span class="hps">şi</span> la <span class="hps">o varietate</span> <span class="hps">de</span> ingenunchieri ale <span class="hps">caracterului tău</span>. <span class="hps">Vei ajunge repede sa
utilizezi</span> <span class="hps">"mersul</span> <span class="hps">pe coji de
oua</span>", <span class="hps">în prezenţa</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>
<span class="hps">–</span> cu <span class="hps">teama</span> <span class="hps">de a
aduce</span> vorba despre ceva, cu <span class="hps">frica de a mentiona că</span>
<span class="hps">ai vorbit cu</span> <span class="hps">un prieten</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> cal-ai<span class="hps"> văzut</span>, cu teama de a-l critica
sau de a-i pune la indoiala <span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser". <span class="hps">În
loc</span> sa experimentezi <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">căldura</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">confortul</span>
din <span class="hps">dragoste</span>, <span class="hps">vei fi</span> <span class="hps">în mod constant parca pe</span> <span class="hps">marginea prapastiei</span>,
<span class="hps">tensionată</span> <span class="hps">atunci când</span> <span class="hps">vorbesti cu</span> <span class="hps">altii</span> <span class="hps">(aceia
</span>ar putea <span class="hps">spune</span> <span class="hps">ceva, despre care</span>
poate <span class="hps">va trebui</span> <span class="hps">să dai explicatii</span>
<span class="hps">mai târziu</span>) <span class="hps">şi cu</span> <span class="hps">teamă</span> <span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">vei vedea</span>
<span class="hps">pe cineva</span> pe care va t<span class="hps">rebui</span> <span class="hps">să</span> il <span class="hps">saluti</span> <span class="hps">în public</span>.
Intalnirile <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">orele</span> petrecute <span class="hps">împreună, vor</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">mult
mai confortabile</span> <span class="hps">şi mai puţin</span> expuse <span class="hps">pericolului</span> <span class="hps">atunci când</span> esti cu <span class="hps">totul</span> <span class="hps">singura</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">exact ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Ratatul" chiar
<span class="hps">vrea</span>, <span class="hps">nici o interferenţă</span> <span class="hps">cu controlul</span> <span class="hps">lor,</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
cu <span class="hps">dominarea lor fata de tine</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Loser-ul" <span class="hps">este atât de</span> <span class="hps">auto-</span> implicat <span class="hps">şi auto-suficient (plin de sine pana la auto-venerare) incat</span> <span class="hps">sentimentele</span> <span class="hps">şi opiniile</span> <span class="hps">altora</span> <span class="hps">sunt considerate</span> <span class="hps">fără nici o valoare pentru el</span>. Cu cat relatia continua si se
adanceste, tu vei incepe sa iti pui intrebari si sa te indoiesti de ceea ce
vezi <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iar desigur el iti
va spune <span class="hps">ca sentimentele</span> <span class="hps">tale</span> si
atitudinile tale<span class="hps"> nu</span> au nici un <span class="hps">sens</span>,
<span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">stupide</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sunt aiureli <span class="hps">şi că</span> este
<span class="hps">emotional</span> <span class="hps">deranjat</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pana si sa se <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>se gândească</span> la <span class="hps">astfel
de</span> <span class="hps">lucruri</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(de exemplu: mie imi spunea ca am numai
inchipuiri, ca totul e doar in mintea mea, ca joc teatru, ca vreau sa il
santajez, ca mai bine mi-as folosi mintea la altceva, ca spun tampenii, ca nu
am de ce sa imi fac atatea griji degeaba, ca inventez, ca nu mi pot de bine, ca
ar fi trebuit sa fiu mai proasta, ca inteligenta nu imi serveste la nimic bun
si ca imi joaca feste, ca ma fac de ras cu ce spun, ca pacat ca imi pierd
timpul incercand sa descopar<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ceva ce nu
exista, ca am halucinatii, ca fabulez…ca ar fi mai bine sa merg la un
psihiatru, sugerand acesta timid ce e drept si celor foarte apropiati de mine
care erau uimiti de ceea ce eu sustineam cu tarie ca mi se intampla – aproape
nimeni nu ma credea suta la suta…n.t.). <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
<span class="hps">nu are nici un</span> <span class="hps">interes sau mila pentru</span>
opiniile tale <span class="hps">sau</span> pentru <span class="hps">sentimentele</span>
tale <span class="hps">-</span> si <span class="hps">acesta va</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>foarte <span class="hps">deranjat</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">supărat că</span>
<span class="hps">îndrăzneşti să</span> ai <span class="hps">îndoieli privind</span>
<span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">lui</span>. Retineti ca <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul" este <span class="hps">extrem de</span> <span class="hps">ostil</span> <span class="hps">faţă de</span> <span class="hps">critică</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">reacţionează</span>
<span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">furie</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
cu manie <span class="hps">atunci când</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul</span>
<span class="hps">lui</span> <span class="hps">este pus la îndoială. (de exemplu:
in cazul meu ii sticleau ochii foarte taios dar se abtinea; mai ales tacea
indelung si nefiresc neraspunzand la aproape nici o intrebare, la nici o
replica, la nici o acuzatie decat<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>difuz,
confuz, diversionist si monosilabic,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>incercand sa schimbe vorba, sa directioneze discutia impotriva mea, sa
ma faca sa ma simt vinovata si inchipuita. Apoi atitudinea lui intra nerabdarea
telefoanelor si in nerabdarea de a pleca…pentru ca are o intalnire foarte urgenta
si foarte importanta…Discutia noastra serioasa ramanea suspendata in aer,
fara<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>raspunsuri, fara concluzii, fara
decizii de imbunatatire, fara solutii, fara explicatii din partea lui…numai
bine cat sa innebunesc deabinelea incercand sa le descalcesc tot eu singura in
mine…speriata, traumatizata sufleteste, amarata in suflet si profund ingandurata.
Concluzia este ca Ratatul efectiv se teme ca „dracul de tamaie” sa fie
demascat, sa dea piept cu adevarul relelor sale si sa fie pus intr-o lumina
proasta, defavorabila lui. n.t.)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Loser-ul" <span class="hps">funcţionează</span> <span class="hps">într-</span>un mod <span class="hps">dăunător in care te aduce in stare sa faci</span> <span class="hps">lucruri
nebunesti ("Crazy")</span> în <span class="hps">auto-</span>apărare. <span class="hps">În cazul în care</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">programat
să sosească</span> la tine <span class="hps">la ora 8:00 pm</span> <span class="hps">–</span> <span class="hps">tu verifici<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>casa, verifici orice gunoi</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">tot ca</span> <span class="hps">ar putea</span> creea <span class="hps">probleme</span>,
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>iti <span class="hps">suni</span> <span class="hps">familia</span> <span class="hps">şi prietenii ca sa le spui să nu te</span>
deranjeze in <span class="hps">acea noapte</span>. Iti avertizezi familia si
prietenii sa nu aduca in discutie diverse subiecte, vei evita locatiile din
comunitate unde te-ar putea vedea prietenii sau colegii de munca si nu vei
vorbi cu altii de frica celor 20 de intrebari. Deja devii <span class="hps">paranoica</span>
<span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">fiind</span> <span class="hps">atenta la
ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">porti</span> <span class="hps">si ce la ceea ce spui</span>.
<span class="hps">Masculii</span> <span class="hps">non-violenti pot fi pusi in
situatii de</span> <span class="hps">lupte</span> <span class="hps">fizice</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> Ratatii <span class="hps">de sex feminin</span>. <span class="hps">Femeile</span> <span class="hps">non-violente</span> <span class="hps">se
găsesc</span> <span class="hps">strigând</span> <span class="hps">şi ţipând</span> nebuneste
<span class="hps">atunci când acestea</span> <span class="hps">nu mai pot</span> suporta
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">abuzul verbal</span> <span class="hps">sau de</span> <span class="hps">intimidare (emotionala, psihologica,
sociala, uneori chiar fizica, n.t.)</span>. <span class="hps">În</span> situatii <span class="hps">emotionale si fizice</span> <span class="hps">de auto-</span>apărare
toti <span class="hps">ne comportăm</span> <span class="hps">diferit</span> <span class="hps">si</span> foarte <span class="hps">ciudat</span>. </span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">În timp ce noi</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">credem că</span>
am <span class="hps">"</span>înnebunit", <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">important să ne amintim</span> <span class="hps">că nu există</span> nicicand
un <span class="hps">"</span>comportament normal" <span class="hps">într-o
situaţie</span> <span class="hps">de luptă</span>. </span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Te<span class="hps"> asigur că</span> atitudinea
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ta <span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">reveni</span> <span class="hps">la normal</span> <span class="hps">dacă</span>
te vei <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>desprindeti de
acest</span> <span class="hps">"Ratat/</span>Loser", <span class="hps">înainte
ca deteriorarea ta permanentă</span> <span class="hps">psihologica sa aiba loc</span>."</span></div>
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</span></div>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-62654802392846967122012-02-20T01:04:00.001-08:002012-02-20T01:04:29.287-08:00Iubesti un Ratat?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Controlorilor si Abuzatorilor in relatiile de dragoste…<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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Relationships -</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #254061; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #254061; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: accent1; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"> by Dr Joseph M Carver, PhD<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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recunoaste in partenerul tau cateva dintre aceste caracteristici descrise de
Dr. Joseph M. Carver, psiholog de consultanta clinica. </span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Acest</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">articol</span>
<span class="hps">continuă cu</span> <span class="hps">o notă privind versiunile</span>
<span class="hps">periculoase</span> <span class="hps">ale</span> unui <span class="hps">"</span>ratat" <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">oferă</span>
<span class="hps">linii directoare pentru</span> momentul de <span class="hps">detaşare
de acesta</span>. <span class="hps">A se citi </span>de asemenea, <span class="hps">noul</span> articol „Dragoste adevarata sau Ratat adevarat?<span class="hps">" care</span> <span class="hps">vă poate ajuta</span> <span class="hps">să identificati şi să</span> <span class="hps">evidenţiati</span> <span class="hps">experienţele</span> care privesc <span class="hps">relaţia voastră
comuna</span>.</span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Dr. Joseph M. Carver <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Acest</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">articol</span>
<span class="hps">a fost</span> <span class="hps">publicat</span> <span class="hps">pe
Internet</span> <span class="hps">acum mai mulţi ani</span> <span class="hps">în
urmă şi</span> <span class="hps">a fost scris iniţial</span> <span class="hps">pentru
a ajuta la</span> <span class="hps">identificarea</span> <span class="hps">"Ratatilor</span>"
<span class="hps">din relaţiile de dragoste</span>. Feedback-ul pe<span class="hps"> e-mail</span> pe care l-<span class="hps">am</span> <span class="hps">primit</span>
<span class="hps">pe marginea acestui articol</span> <span class="hps">a fost</span>
<span class="hps">extraordinar</span>. <span class="hps">Este</span> <span class="hps">clar</span> ca acest articol nu <span class="hps">este numai o
modalitate</span> <span class="hps">de a identifica</span> <span class="hps">"ratatii</span>",
dar si de a identifica <span class="hps">controlorii</span>, <span class="hps">abuzivii</span>,
<span class="hps">manipulatorii</span> (acesti bolnavi psihic cu tulburari de
personalitate, care au insa o aparenta de om normal, n.t.).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Este</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> de asemenea, <span class="hps">evident</span> ca toate <span class="hps">aceste semne</span> <span class="hps">de avertizare</span>, pot fi <span class="hps">găsite nu doar în</span>
<span class="hps">relaţiile</span> de <span class="hps">dating (de iubire)</span> <span class="hps">-</span> dar si <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">partenerul
nostru</span>, in <span class="hps">părinţii noştri</span>, in <span class="hps">prietenii
noştri</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span> uneori intre <span class="hps">rudele</span>
<span class="hps">noastre</span>. <span class="hps">Există</span> mult <span class="hps">mai multe victime</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">mediul</span>
dimprejurul unui Ratat <span class="hps">decât in mediul partenerului sau, care
este normal psihic (n.t.).</span> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Am</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">fost</span>
<span class="hps">contactat</span> <span class="hps">pentru sprijin si ajutor</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">prietenii</span> <span class="hps">si
de cei dragi</span> <span class="hps">ai unor</span> <span class="hps">persoane implicate</span>
<span class="hps">în relaţii</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> Ratatii <span class="hps">(</span>controlori <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">abuzivi</span>).
Toti c<span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">dragi sunt ingrijorati</span> si
<span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">să înţeleagă</span> <span class="hps">situaţia,
astfel</span> imi <span class="hps">cer</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><span class="hps">recomandări şi</span> <span class="hps">orientare</span>. <span class="hps">Pentru acest grup</span>, am <span class="hps">publicat</span>, de
asemenea, <span class="hps">recent,</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Sindromul
<span class="hps">Stockholm</span>: <span class="hps">Misterul</span> <span class="hps">psihologic</span> <span class="hps">de a iubi</span> <span class="hps">un</span>
<span class="hps">agresor</span>" <span class="hps">..<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Evident</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">, <span class="hps">acest</span>
<span class="hps">articol</span> <span class="hps">a creat</span> <span class="hps">nevoia
de a-mi</span> <span class="hps">continua cercetarile</span>. <span class="hps">Sper</span>
<span class="hps">să public</span> <span class="hps">un ghid</span> <span class="hps">pentru a ajuta</span> Ratatii, <span class="hps">care doresc sprijin ca
să</span> <span class="hps">îşi schimbe viaţa</span> <span class="hps">şi
comportamentul</span>. <span class="hps">Un</span> <span class="hps">articol</span>
nou, care sa vina in sprijininul recuperarii <span class="hps">fiilor</span> <span class="hps">şi fiicelor</span> <span class="hps">care au fost</span> crescuti<span class="hps"> de</span> un Ratat, care <span class="hps">este</span>, de asemenea, <span class="hps">in curs de planificare</span>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><span class="hps">În cazul în care</span> un <span class="hps">părinte</span>
<span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">părinţii unor oameni</span> <span class="hps">au</span> <span class="hps">caracteristicile enumerate</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">acest</span> <span class="hps">articol</span>,
<span class="hps">capacitatea</span> copiilor<span class="hps"> de a</span> <span class="hps">funcţiona</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">un adult</span>
<span class="hps">sanatos poate</span> <span class="hps">fi împiedicată</span> <span class="hps">din cauza</span> acestei <span class="hps">familii</span> <span class="hps">disfunctionale, in care au trait</span>. <span class="hps">Scopul meu</span>
<span class="hps">este de a urmări</span> <span class="hps">această problemă</span>
<span class="hps">şi să ofer</span> <span class="hps">ajutor</span> <span class="hps">şi îndrumare</span> <span class="hps">pentru toţi cei implicaţi</span>
in relatii cu indivizi bolnavi controlori sau abuzatori <span class="hps">-</span>
<span class="hps">de la</span> <span class="hps">parteneri</span> <span class="hps">la</span>
<span class="hps">victime</span>.</span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Foarte</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">puţine</span> relatii <span class="hps">încep</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">alţi termeni</span>
<span class="hps">decât</span> cu multa <span class="hps">dulceaţa</span> <span class="hps">şi cu</span> multa <span class="hps">politeţe</span>. <span class="hps">La
început</span>, in <span class="hps">"</span>luna de miere" <span class="hps">a</span> <span class="hps">relatiei,</span> <span class="hps">este</span>
<span class="hps">dificil</span> <span class="hps">de a intelege</span> cu <span class="hps">ce tip</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">individ</span>
iti dai de fapt <span class="hps">intalniri</span>. <span class="hps">Atât dumneavoastră
cât şi</span> individul va studiati reciproc, <span class="hps">încercati să</span>
<span class="hps">obţineti informaţii</span> unul despre <span class="hps">despre</span>
celalalt,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>fara a parea <span class="hps">ca
sunteti ca un</span> <span class="hps">detectiv</span> <span class="hps">de poliţie</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Relatiile</span> <span class="hps">romantice</span> <span class="hps">pot</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">minunate</span>
dar <span class="hps">cu</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">persoana potrivita</span>. <span class="hps">O relaţie</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> o <span class="hps">persoana</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>bolnava mintal, te va pune in pericol si iti
va a<span class="hps">duce</span> <span class="hps">ani de</span> <span class="hps">durere</span>,
<span class="hps">daune</span> <span class="hps">emotionale, daune sociale</span>, <span class="hps">chiar</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">daune</span> <span class="hps">fizice</span>. <span class="hps">Un partener</span> <span class="hps">adult</span>
<span class="hps">daunator, bolnav</span> <span class="hps">ne poate</span> <span class="hps">deteriora viata</span>, ii poate <span class="hps">distruge</span> <span class="hps">cei</span> <span class="hps">dragi</span>, <span class="hps">şi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>mai grav este ca iti va afecta</span> <span class="hps">chiar</span> si <span class="hps">modul în care vei mai<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>putea vreodata simti</span> <span class="hps">despre
dragoste</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">romantism</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">viitor</span>. <span class="hps">Ei pot</span>
<span class="hps">transforma</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">se presupune a fi</span> <span class="hps">o relaţie de dragoste</span>,
de <span class="hps">sprijin,</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de
incredere, de <span class="hps">înţelegere</span> <span class="hps">într-o "</span>atracţie
fatală", <span class="hps">adesea</span> <span class="hps">descrisa doar în</span>
<span class="hps">filme</span>. <span class="hps">Varietati</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">"</span>alegeri <span class="hps">proaste</span>" <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">fi facute</span> de<span class="hps">
fiecare dintre cei sanatosi psihic care sunt implicati intr-o relatie cu un
individ bolnav, in fiecare săptămână</span> <span class="hps">–</span> <span class="hps">dintre care cele mai multe</span>,<span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>uşor</span> <span class="hps">de a<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>fi identificate</span> <span class="hps">şi
usor de</span> <span class="hps">a fi evitate</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Ştim cu toţii</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> c<span class="hps">a este crucial sa evitam</span>
<span class="hps">oameni</span> <span class="hps">nebuni</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
<span class="hps">abuzivi</span> şi sa nu ne implicam<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>vreodata cu ei in relatii de dragoste. <span class="hps">Cu toate acestea,</span> <span class="hps">indivizii<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>bolnavi cu tulburari de personalitate</span> <span class="hps">sunt foarte eficienti in a-si</span> <span class="hps">ascunde</span> <span class="hps">personalitatea</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> reala, imorala (n.t.)
si <span class="hps">anomaliile lor</span> <span class="hps">de comportament</span>.
<span class="hps">În</span> <span class="hps">efortul de a</span> va <span class="hps">oferi o</span> <span class="hps">avertizare</span> <span class="hps">cu
privire la</span> <span class="hps">acesti indivizi</span> <span class="hps">extrem
de</span> <span class="hps">daunatori</span>, <span class="hps">acest articol</span>
va <span class="hps">prezenta</span> <span class="hps">un tip</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">individ</span> <span class="hps">de obicei</span>
<span class="hps">găsit pe </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">scena vietii</span> in dragoste<span class="hps">,</span> <span class="hps">un bărbat</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">femeie</span>
<span class="hps">etichetati</span> aici a fi <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">"Ratati’’
(</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Losers) – acestia sunt de fapt oameni bolnavi cu
tulburari de personalitate (n.t.)</span></b><span style="color: #c00000;">.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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</span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"Ratatul</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"
este <span class="hps">un tip</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">partener</span>,
care <span class="hps">creează</span> <span class="hps">pagube</span> foarte mari <span class="hps">sociale</span>, <span class="hps">emoţionale şi</span> <span class="hps">psihologice</span>
<span class="hps">în orice relaţie</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"Ratatul</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">" are <span class="hps">caracteristici/trasaturi
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">permanente</span>
<span class="hps">de personalitate</span> <span class="hps">care ne creează</span> <span class="hps">aceste</span> mari <span class="hps">prejudicii</span>. <span class="hps">Acestea</span> <span class="hps">sunt caracteristici</span> <span class="hps">pe care ei le</span> <span class="hps">acceptă</span> <span class="hps">pur
şi simplu, ca</span> pe felul lor de a fi pe lumea asta <span class="hps">şi</span>
nicidecum nu le considera ca fiind <span class="hps">o problemă</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> tulburare <span class="hps">psihologică (patologica, n.t.)</span>.
E<span class="hps">i au</span> <span class="hps">trăit întotdeauna</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">această</span> <span class="hps">personalitate</span>
bolnava <span class="hps">şi cu acest</span> <span class="hps">comportament bolnav</span>
<span class="hps">şi este</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">ceva, ce</span> ei <span class="hps">au învăţat</span> <span class="hps">de
la</span> <span class="hps">rudele lor</span> <span class="hps">si/sau </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">de la familia lor</span>. <span class="hps">Psihologii</span> <span class="hps">trateaza</span>, de obicei, <span class="hps">victimele</span> distruse de <span class="hps">"</span>ratati",
<span class="hps">femei</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">bărbaţi,</span>
<span class="hps">care ajung</span> <span class="hps">la</span> psihologi cu <span class="hps">o depresie severa</span>, cu <span class="hps">încrederea în sine</span>
<span class="hps">şi respectul de sine</span> <span class="hps">complet</span> <span class="hps">distruse</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Următoarea
listă <span class="hps">este o încercare</span> <span class="hps">de a</span> <span class="hps">evidenţia</span> <span class="hps">caracteristicile</span> <span class="hps">"Ratatilor</span>", o lista <span class="hps">care va ofera
modalitati de a identifica relatiile</span> <span class="hps">potential</span> <span class="hps">daunatoare, inainte ca sa deveniti victima lor si sa fiti</span> <span class="hps">grav</span> <span class="hps">deteriorata</span> <span class="hps">emotional</span>
<span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">chiar</span> <span class="hps">fizic</span>.
<span class="hps">Daca partenerul tau</span> <span class="hps">are</span> <span class="hps">nici una din</span> <span class="hps">aceste caracteristici</span>, <span class="hps">nu există</span> <span class="hps">un risc</span> <span class="hps">în</span>
<span class="hps">relaţia voastra</span>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: red; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Dar atentie, la m<span class="hps">ai mult de</span> TREI<span class="hps"> dintre</span> aceste trasaturi/ caracteristici sau indicatori<span class="hps"> (din 20), identificati de tine in partenerul tau, inseamna ca ai de a
face cu un</span> <span class="hps">"Ratat</span>" si ca esti <span class="hps">într-o relaţie</span> <span class="hps">de iubire cu un risc</span> <span class="hps">foarte</span> <span class="hps">ridicat</span>, care <span class="hps">va
creea</span> <span class="hps">în cele din urmă</span> mari <span class="hps">daune</span>
<span class="hps">pentru viata ta</span>. <span class="hps">Atunci când</span> <span class="hps">un număr mare</span> <span class="hps">dintre aceste caracteristici</span>
<span class="hps">sunt prezente</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">nu
mai avem de a face cu</span> <span class="hps">un "</span>probabil" <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">un "</span>posibil", avem de a
face SIGUR cu un individ cu o grava boala mentala…Si v<span class="hps">eti</span>
<span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">răniti</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">distrusi de</span> acest <span class="hps">"Ratat</span>"
daca inca mai <span class="hps">stati</span> <span class="hps">in</span> <span class="hps">relatia de „dragoste’’ cu acesta.</span></span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="color: red; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Tratamentul</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">dur</span></span></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">"Ratatul</span>" <span class="hps">te va răni</span> acesta fiind un <span class="hps">scop si obiectivul
lui.</span> <span class="hps">Daca el</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">ea</span> <span class="hps">te loveşte</span>, iti <span class="hps">răsuceşte</span>
<span class="hps">braţul</span> <span class="hps">tău</span>, <span class="hps">te
trage de</span> <span class="hps">par</span>, <span class="hps">te</span> <span class="hps">loveste</span>, te <span class="hps">împinge</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span>
<span class="hps">incalca</span> <span class="hps">proprietatea ta personala</span>
<span class="hps">măcar o dată</span>, paraseste-l<span class="hps">.</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Multi Ratati masculini <span class="hps">de
multe ori</span> <span class="hps">incep</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">comportamente</span> prin care te impresioneaza negativ emotional <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">lovesc un perete</span>. Ratatii feminini
palmuiesc sau chiar imping <span class="hps">partenerii lor</span> <span class="hps">de sex masculin</span> <span class="hps">atunci când</span> sunt <span class="hps">supărati</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Ataşamentul rapid</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">şi exprimarea rapida<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>a „sentimentelor”</span></span></b><span class="hps"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"Ratatul</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">" jongleaza cu <span class="hps">emotii</span> <span class="hps">foarte</span> superficiale <span class="hps">şi cu legaturi foarte superficiale</span> <span class="hps">cu</span>
oricare dintre <span class="hps">persoane</span>. <span class="hps">Unul dintre</span>
<span class="hps">lucrurile care</span> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">te-ar putea</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">atrage</span>
<span class="hps">la</span> un <span class="hps">"</span>Ratat" este <span class="hps">cat de repede</span> <span class="hps">el</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
<span class="hps">ea spun</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Te iubesc", <span class="hps">vrea să se căsătorească</span> cu tine rapid <span class="hps">sau</span>
vrea <span class="hps">să te</span> <span class="hps">angajeze</span>. <span class="hps">De obicei</span>, <span class="hps">în mai</span> <span class="hps">mult
de câteva săptămâni</span> <span class="hps">de intalniri de dragoste,</span> <span class="hps">vei</span> <span class="hps">auzi</span> <span class="hps">ca esti</span>
<span class="hps">dragostea vietii</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>, ca esti
iubirea vietii lor, ca esti tot ce si-au dorit vreodata, ca tu insemni totul
pentru ei (n.t), ca <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">vor sa fie</span>
<span class="hps">cu tine</span> <span class="hps">pentru totdeauna</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> ca isi <span class="hps">doresc să</span> se <span class="hps">căsătoreasca
cu tine</span>. <span class="hps">Vei</span> <span class="hps">primi</span> multe <span class="hps">cadouri</span>, <span class="hps">o varietate</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">promisiuni minunate</span>, vei <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">copleşit</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> multa <span class="hps">atenţie</span>
<span class="hps">şi cu multe gesturi</span> <span class="hps">frumoase</span>. <span class="hps">Aceasta este</span> <span class="hps">"</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">faza de <span class="hps">luna de miere</span></b>" – in c<span class="hps">are</span> ei <span class="hps">te prind, te incanta</span> <span class="hps">si te conving ca</span> este <span class="hps">cel mai bun</span> <span class="hps">lucru care</span> <span class="hps">ţi s-a întâmplat vreodată in toata
viata ta</span>. Dar, a<span class="hps">mintiţi-vă</span> <span class="hps">de
lumea afaceri</span>lor in care exista vorba<span class="hps">: "</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Dacă e <span class="hps">prea</span> <span class="hps">bun</span> <span class="hps">ca sa fie adevarat</span>, probabil, ca
asa si este <span class="hps">(is too good to be true</span>)</b>!". <span class="hps">Aţi putea fi</span> <span class="hps">atât de copleşit</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">aceasta perdea groasa sau ecran</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">atractie</span> si de dragoste <span class="hps">instantanee</span>, de <span class="hps">angajamentele sale</span> <span class="hps">instant</span>, de <span class="hps">planificarile rapide</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">viitor,</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>incat veti pierde din vedere ceva extrem de
important <span class="hps">–</span> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">ca
acestea <span class="hps">nu au</span> <span class="hps">sens</span>!</b> <span class="hps">Persoanele</span> <span class="hps">normale si</span> <span class="hps">sanatoase</span>
<span class="hps">necesita un proces</span> <span class="hps">lung</span> <span class="hps">de a dezvolta o</span> <span class="hps">relaţie</span>, deoarece <span class="hps">există</span> <span class="hps">atât de multe</span> <span class="hps">în
joc</span>. <span class="hps">Persoanele sanatoase</span> <span class="hps">vor</span>
<span class="hps">aştepta pentru o</span> <span class="hps">lungă perioadă de timp</span>
<span class="hps">o mulţime</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">informaţii</span>
<span class="hps">înainte de a va oferi</span> <span class="hps">un angajament</span>
<span class="hps">–</span> si <span class="hps">nicidecum </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in<span class="hps"> trei</span> <span class="hps">săptămâni de relatie.</span> <span class="hps">Este</span> <span class="hps">adevărat că</span> ne <span class="hps">putem îndrăgostiti nebuneşte</span>
de<span class="hps"> alţii</span> <span class="hps">repede</span> <span class="hps">-</span>
dar nimeni <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">face</span> aceste <span class="hps">promisiuni</span> <span class="hps">nerealiste</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
nu isi face planuri de viitor <span class="hps">după</span> <span class="hps">trei</span>
intalniri amoroase. „Incalzirea rapida” este intotdeauna un semn <span class="hps">de emotii</span> <span class="hps">superficiale</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de emotivitate falsa, care il va folosi exact
in sens invers mai<span class="hps"> târziu, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">"Ratatul</span>", <span class="hps">pentru a</span> se <span class="hps">desprinde</span> <span class="hps">de
tine, pe</span> <span class="hps">cât de repede</span> <span class="hps">s-a si
angajat in relatia voastra de iubire</span>. <span class="hps">"Ratatul</span>",
<span class="hps">de obicei,</span> <span class="hps">vrea</span> <span class="hps">să
se mute</span> <span class="hps">cu tine</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> va <span class="hps">căsătoriti</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">mai puţin
de patru</span> <span class="hps">săptămâni sau oricum</span> <span class="hps">foarte</span>
<span class="hps">devreme</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">relaţie</span>.<span class="hps">..<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"> </span></o:p></span></span><span class="hps"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;">Temperamentul</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt;"> <span class="hps">înfricoşător</span></span></b><span class="hps"><span lang="EN" style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 16pt; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">"Ratatul</span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">" <span class="hps">are un</span> <span class="hps">temperament</span> <span class="hps">înfricoşător</span>.
<span class="hps">Dacă prietenul</span> <span class="hps">sau prietena ta se
angajeaza in lovituri, tipa, blestema sau</span> <span class="hps">face lucruri</span>
<span class="hps">periculoase</span>, <span class="hps">cum ar fi</span> <span class="hps">condusul masinii aiurea si prea</span> <span class="hps">repede</span>-
deoarece este ‚nervos’, daca <span class="hps">rupe, daca arunca </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">lucruri</span>, daca <span class="hps">intra in</span> <span class="hps">lupte</span> <span class="hps">sau daca
ameninţa pe</span> <span class="hps">alţii (barfeste, arunca cu noroi in altii pe
la spate, arunca cu epitete, batjocoreste, carcoteste, poarta vorba, raspandeste
rumori si neadevaruri, n.t.) </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">–</span> retine ca exact acelasi tem<span class="hps">perament</span> <span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">fi în curând folosit de acesta si</span> <span class="hps">în direcţia ta</span>. <span class="hps">La începutul</span> <span class="hps">relaţiei</span>, <span class="hps">vei</span> <span class="hps">fi asista
fara sa vrei, la</span> scene de <span class="hps">"</span>violenţă ca <span class="hps">martor</span>" - <span class="hps">lupte</span> <span class="hps">cu
alţii</span>, <span class="hps">ameninţări</span> <span class="hps">faţă de
ceilalţi</span>, <span class="hps">izbucniri</span> <span class="hps">de furie</span>
pe <span class="hps">altii</span>, acuze de santaj, barfe, <span class="hps">etc.
si vei</span> <span class="hps">auzi</span>, poate de unele <span class="hps">violenţe</span>
<span class="hps">din viaţa</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>. <span class="hps">Vei
vedea</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">asista la</span> <span class="hps">acest</span> <span class="hps">temperament</span> <span class="hps">–</span>
<span class="hps">Ratatul arunca cu</span> <span class="hps">lucruri</span>, <span class="hps">tipa</span>, <span class="hps">injura</span>, <span class="hps">conduce
nebuneste</span>, incalca reguli de circulatie, <span class="hps">loveste</span> <span class="hps">peretii</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">loveste in
lucruri</span>. Ratatul le foloseste toate acestea special <span class="hps">pentru
a</span> <span class="hps">te</span> <span class="hps">intimida</span> subliminal <span class="hps">şi asa el iti va <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">„transmite
indirect”</b>…</span> <span class="hps">ca e mai bine sa iti fie teamă de</span> <span class="hps">potenţialul lor</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">violenţă</span>,
<span class="hps">deşi "Ratatul</span>" te va <span class="hps">asigura
si linisti rapid,</span> <span class="hps">că</span> toate <span class="hps">acestea
sunt</span> doar pentru el ca este <span class="hps">supărat pe</span> <span class="hps">alţii</span> <span class="hps">sau pe unele</span> <span class="hps">situaţii</span>,
nicidecum pe tine. <span class="hps">La început</span>, <span class="hps">vei</span>
<span class="hps">fi sigur relatia voastra, chiar te veti simti in siguranta fara
sa iti treacă</span> macar prin cap ca el pregateste…<span class="hps">ostilitate
şi violenţă</span> si <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pentru tine</span>. <span class="hps">Dar ei</span>
<span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">în mod clar</span> astfel, ei <span class="hps">ştiu că au</span> <span class="hps">această capacitate</span> <span class="hps">şi apetenta</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">că</span> vine si randul<span class="hps"> tau</span>. Trebuie sa
<span class="hps">vă temeţi</span> de orice <span class="hps">provocare</span> <span class="hps">cu care se confruntă</span> <span class="hps">ei –</span> pentru ca
exact <span class="hps">acelaşi</span> <span class="hps">temperament</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">violenţa va fi</span> <span class="hps">transferat
si</span> <span class="hps">în direcţia ta</span>.</span><span class="Heading1Char"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><strong>
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în mod repetat <span class="hps">te</span> <span class="hps">pune</span> <span class="hps">jos, la pamant</span>. <span class="hps">El are</span> <span class="hps">în
mod constant</span> grija sa iti corecteze <span class="hps">greşelile</span> <span class="hps">tale</span> <span class="hps">mici</span>, te <span class="hps">face să
te simţi</span> <span class="hps">"</span>în gardă", <span class="hps">neinteligent</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> te lasa mereu <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">sentimentul că</span> <span class="hps">faci</span> <span class="hps">ceva</span>
<span class="hps">greşit, neimportant, incepi sa te simti vinovat din senin si
pentru orice (n.t.)</span>. <span class="hps">El</span> iti spune („in gluma”,n.t.)
ca<span class="hps"> esti</span> <span class="hps">prea grasa</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">neatractiva</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> ca inca nu arati prea bine, ca ar trebui sa il iubesti mai
mult, sa faci mai multe pentru el (n.t.). <span class="hps">Aceast</span>a este o
intentionata,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>planificata<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si <span class="hps">treptată</span> <span class="hps">ciobire</span> (cioplire cu „picatura chinezeasca” a stimei tale de
sine, n.t.),<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>te in<span class="hps">departeaza
incet de</span> <span class="hps">la</span> <span class="hps">încrederea şi</span>
de la <span class="hps">respectul tau de tine si ii va permite</span> <span class="hps">să te trateze si mai</span> <span class="hps">rău</span> <span class="hps">mai târziu</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">ca şi cum</span>
<span class="hps">ai</span> <span class="hps">merita</span>… <span class="hps">În
public</span>,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">vei
ajunge sa</span> <span class="hps">"</span>mergi <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">coji de oua</span>" <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">temându-te</span>
<span class="hps">mereu</span> sa <span class="hps">faci</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
sa <span class="hps">spui</span> <span class="hps">ceva,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>care</span> ar putea <span class="hps">crea</span>
<span class="hps">mai târziu, din partea Ratatului,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>o</span> <span class="hps">izbucnire</span> <span class="hps">temperament</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> de <span class="hps">argumente</span>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;">În</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">scopul de a controla</span> <span class="hps">pe cineva</span> <span class="hps">complet</span>, <span class="hps">trebuie să</span> ii <span class="hps">tai</span>
legaturile cu <span class="hps">prietenii,</span> sa ii tai <span class="hps">sprijininul
acestora</span> <span class="hps">-</span> <span class="hps">uneori</span> <span class="hps">chiar al familiei</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
<span class="hps">simte</span> ca <span class="hps">prietenii</span> <span class="hps">si</span> <span class="hps">familia</span> <span class="hps">te-ar putea</span>
<span class="hps">influenţa</span> <span class="hps">sau<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ti-ar putea oferi</span> <span class="hps">opinii</span>
<span class="hps">negative despre</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul lui</span>.
<span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><span class="hps">începe</span> <span class="hps">prin a vă spune</span> ca <span class="hps">aceşti prieteni</span> te <span class="hps">trateaza</span> <span class="hps">rău</span>, ca incearca <span class="hps">să profite</span> <span class="hps">de tine</span> <span class="hps">şi ca ei nu înţeleg</span> <span class="hps">natura specială</span> <span class="hps">a</span> <span class="hps">iubirii</span>
voastre. <span class="hps">În unele cazuri</span>, <span class="hps">în cazul în
care,</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">poat</span>e strica
legatura cu <span class="hps">cel mai bun</span> <span class="hps">prieten</span> <span class="hps">de acelaşi sex cu tine</span>, <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
va <span class="hps">pretinde ca s-a dat la el si ca i-a facut avansuri. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Dacă vorbeşti</span> des <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">prietenii sau cu familia</span>, <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>te
<span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">pedepsi</span> <span class="hps">cu</span>
<span class="hps">mai multe</span> <span class="hps">întrebări</span> <span class="hps">sau va face</span> <span class="hps">acuzaţii</span> <span class="hps">urâte</span>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">În cele din urmă</span>, <span class="hps">mai degrabă</span> <span class="hps">decât</span> sa ai <span class="hps">pedeapsa</span> <span class="hps">verbala</span>, <span class="hps">interogatorii</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">abuzuri verbale</span>, <span class="hps">vei</span> <span class="hps">dezvolta</span> <span class="hps">sentimentul</span>
<span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">e</span> <span class="hps">mai bine să
nu</span> mai <span class="hps">vorbesti cu</span> <span class="hps">familia ta şi
cu prietenii tai</span>. Te vei <span class="hps">retrage</span> <span class="hps">din
fata prieteni</span>lor <span class="hps">şi<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>a familiei,</span><span class="atn"> determinându-i</span> <span class="hps">să se</span> <span class="hps">supare pe tine</span>. <span class="hps">"</span>Loser-ul"
atunci <span class="hps">va profita si va spune</span> <span class="hps">că</span>
ei <span class="hps">te</span> <span class="hps">tratează</span> <span class="hps">prost</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> ca <span class="hps">ar fi</span> <span class="hps">mai
bine să păstrezi si tu distanţa</span> fata de ei. <span class="hps">Odată ce ai</span>
ramas <span class="hps">izolata</span> <span class="hps">şi singura</span>, fără
sprijin, <span class="hps">controlul</span> Ratatului asupra ta
va<span class="hps"> creşte</span> mult si te va decima." </span></div>
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<span style="color: purple; font-size: x-large;"><em><strong>In memoriam Whitney Houston...</strong></em></span><br />
<span style="color: purple; font-size: x-large;"><em><strong>..."I will always love you"...</strong></em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Oare ce festa tulburatoare i-a jucat Viata, acestei femei superbe, rafinata, incredibila, luminoasa...parea o pofta de viata, parea un zambet increzator plin de sperante...si era un munte de talent rarisim...apoi, Ea a fugit ca un castel de nisip luat in larg...ruinata in haos, in abis....</em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Se spune ca, Ea a intalnit prin ghinion un...maestru al haosului, al cruzimii...insa, acum, e prea tarziu pentru Adevar, in cazul frumoasei Whitney Houston!</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Statistic peste 70% din victimele psihopatilor ajung ...foarte rau...iremediabil rau....</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Dumnezeu sa te odihneasca in pace, draga Whitney Houston!</strong></em></span>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-92111712902082941922012-02-14T17:35:00.000-08:002012-02-14T17:35:23.572-08:00Recapitulare...cand esti victima unui PSIHOPAT si ajungi sa Intelegi ...in sfarsit dezastrul...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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truth that does not kill me, makes me stronger "Octavian Paler, Romanian
writer* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">"The
most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of
all true art and all science. ' Albert Einstein* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">'
Things should be as simple as possible, but not simpler. ' Albert Einstein* '
When the solution is simple, God is answering. ' Albert Einstein*<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">'L’idealisme
est une forme convenue de l’ Esperance’ Georges Braque* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">'All
happiness or unhappiness solely depends upon the quality of the object to which
we are attached by love' Spinoza* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">'A
hero is born among a hundred, a wise man is found among a thousand, but an
accomplished one might not be found even among a hundred thousand men' Plato* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">'And
what, Socrates, is the food of the soul? Surely, I said, knowledge is the food
of the soul' Plato* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">"We
all live under the same sky, but we don't all have the same horizon”, Konrad
Adenauer*<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">"We
must have rules, so that we can live free." Cicero* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">"All
happiness or unhappiness solely depends upon the quality of the object to which
we are attached by love" Spinoza* <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #002060; font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Wingdings; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">ü<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">"If
you want the present to be different from the past, study the
past"Spinoza*</span></i></div>
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: x-large;"><strong><em>Psihopatii din lumea Afacerilor...sunt puternici si feroce!!!</em></strong></span><br />
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<span style="color: #20124d;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt;">Rechinii cu Gulere Albe, Serpii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in
Costume Negre…</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 18pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> Trasaturi de caracter ale unui
Tepar in Afaceri (Psihopatul Corporatist…)<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: lime;"><em><strong><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="background-color: #cccccc;"><span style="color: #741b47;">Lumea
Afacerilor este populata de rechini feroce!<o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></em></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>„Subiectul privind</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;"> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">corporativi – <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Rechinii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Afacerilor, Rechinii cu
Gulere Albe</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b><span class="hps">sau <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Serpii </b></span><span class="atn"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">-in- </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Costume Negre </b>(n.t.), se afla din ce in
ce mai mult in atentia publicului larg din intreaga lume. <span class="hps">Am</span>
<span class="hps">participat la un</span> <span class="hps">seminar de o zi</span> <span class="hps">anul trecut</span>, la care <span class="hps">au fost</span> <span class="hps">in jur de</span> <span class="hps">100 de participanti</span> <span class="hps">dintre</span> <span class="hps">care <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cel</span> <span class="hps">puţin 80</span>% erau
in cautare de<span class="hps"> răzbunare</span> pentru diverse situatii de
afaceri sau de viata, oameni normali care au<span class="hps"> fost agresati major
si tepuiti</span> <span class="hps">de un</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span> <span class="hps">corporatist</span> <span class="hps">la locul de muncă</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">în</span> chiar viata lor, in casnicie, in
dragoste. <span class="hps">Am</span> <span class="hps">discutat</span> <span class="hps">unele dintre caracteristicile</span> <span class="hps">lor,</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">blog-ul meu</span> <span class="hps">precedent</span>
<span class="hps">şi anume</span> despre <span class="hps">farmecul lor</span> frapant
excesiv, despre <span class="hps">capacitatea de a</span> <span class="hps">înşela</span>
<span class="hps">şi despre</span> <span class="hps">punctul lor de vedere</span> <span class="hps">că viaţa</span> <span class="hps">este un joc</span> <span class="hps">cu</span>
<span class="hps">învingători şi învinşi</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">ei sunt</span> mereu <span class="hps">câştigătorii, niciodata invinsii</span>.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Alte
caracteristici</span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">
<span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">de manipulare</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
de <span class="hps">parazitism</span>, <span class="hps">lipsa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">etica</span>, <span class="hps">dorinta de</span>
<span class="hps">putere</span>, setea de putere (n.t.) <span class="hps">şi</span>
de <span class="hps">jucători foarte</span> <span class="hps">activi</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">politica</span> <span class="hps">corporatista
si organizationala</span>. <span class="hps">În special, acestia sunt foarte</span>
abili in <span class="hps">revendicarea </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">ideilor si creativitatii altor
oameni</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">dau vina mereu pe</span>
<span class="hps">altii</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">propriile
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>lor greseli</span>. Problema este că noua
ne <span class="hps">ia</span> mult timp <span class="hps">pentru a</span> putea in
sfarsit sa ii <span class="hps">recunoaştem, sa ii izolam şi</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">este mult prea</span> <span class="hps">târziu – raul a fost facut si dezastrul s-a petrecut (n.t.)</span>.<br />
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<span class="hps">Dar cum</span> putem sa <span class="hps">recunoastem</span> <span class="hps">un psihopat in afaceri, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>în</span>
doar <span class="hps">cinci minute</span>? <span class="hps">Putem utiliza</span> <span class="hps">sistemul de</span> <span class="hps">Topdog, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">am subliniat</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">bloguri</span> <span class="hps">anterioare
şi</span> <span class="hps">amintindu-va că</span> <span class="hps">un psihopat</span>
<span class="hps">corporatist </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">este definit</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">cineva
cu</span> <span class="hps">o mulţime</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">componente</span> <span class="hps">Hustler si cu multe aparente false de
om Normal</span>.”<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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(Hustler= om de afaceri oneros!)<o:p></o:p></em></span></span></span></b></div>
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Hustler-ul) – afaceristul oneros si ilicit:<o:p></o:p></em></span></span></span></b></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">–Are o incredere
deplina in sine – <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">„nimeni nu e mai presus de mine</i></b> – <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">eu fac ce vreau, cand vreau, cum
vreau</i></b>”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">–Dedicarea morbida-
el este dedicat morbid doar atingerii doar a scopurilor sale ilicite, oneroase<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">- Autoconservarea
– nu ii place sa isi iroseasca eforturile si gloantele, alege varfurile<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">-Cele mai
valoroase resurse ale afaceristului ilicit: timpul, energia si banii – ataca la
fel<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">-Lipsa de
cinste, lipsa de etica, lipsa de remuscari, ticalosia, viclenia, santajul,
teatrul.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">-Este plin
doar de sange rece<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(Fishead man) – calca
pe cadavre…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Santajist la
maximum<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Parazit –
paraziteaza victimele si relatiile de afaceri, profita sarguincios si pe ascuns
de orice nume, relatie, de orice…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="definition"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">9.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">-Este un rechin in costum de business, plin de un farmec inselator,
ametitor si…cuceritor, doar pana isi obtine scopul. Apoi musca mortal si aduce
dezastre inimaginabile fara pic de remuscare, el se bucura ca triumfa cu cat
dezastrul creeat este mai mare, cu atat creste satisfactia sa!</span><span class="definition"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">„</span></b></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #990000;">Vorba si Portul –
psihopatilor in lumea afacerilor<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></b></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Psihopatii
corporatisti din afaceri sunt fermecători</span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">, sunt captivanti, te atrag, iti
promit, se jura (n.t.) dar <span class="hps">două</span> <span class="hps">lucruri</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ii <span class="hps">dau de gol</span>. <span class="hps">După ce te-a intrebat ce faci</span> <span class="hps">pentru a trai si
afla unde lucrezi</span>, <span class="hps">acestia vor</span> arunca diverse
nume si te vor intreba daca cunosti persoane importante, aratand ca ei doresc
sa se asociaze doar cu castigatorii. <span class="hps">De asemenea,</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">din afaceri</span> <span class="hps">sunt
condusi de</span> <span class="hps">dorinţa de</span> <span class="hps">succese
materiale</span>, astfel <span class="hps">ei vor</span> <span class="hps">vorbi</span>
<span class="hps">despre</span> <span class="hps">victorii</span> la<span class="hps"> jocuri de noroc</span> <span class="hps">recente sau</span> de <span class="hps">succesele lor</span> <span class="hps">de pe</span> <span class="hps">piaţa
bursieră</span>. <span class="hps">În</span> <span class="hps">adunări</span> <span class="hps">sociale pe care le</span> <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">petrece</span>
<span class="hps">primele conversatii te vor cumpani atent, dar dacă</span> <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">decid că</span> <span class="hps">ar trebui
să treaca la altcineva mai important</span>, <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">începe să caute febrili</span> <span class="hps">în jurul lor, ca sa
gaseasca o astfel de</span> <span class="hps">persoana</span> mai importanta. <span class="hps">Interesele lor</span> <span class="hps">in afara</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">locului lor de muncă</span>, fie includ <span class="hps">interes pentru jocuri de noroc</span>, sau pentru pariuri in <span class="hps">cursele de cai</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> pentru sporturi
exclusiviste cum ar fi <span class="hps">sporturi</span>le acvatice <span class="hps">sau legate de ski</span>.</span><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Organizarea</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"> <span class="hps">şi poziţia psihopatilor in lumea
afacerilor<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">Psihopatii
<span class="hps">Corporatisti </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">se gasesc</span> <span class="hps">peste tot</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">un indiciu</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> extrem de <span class="hps">important</span></b><span class="hps"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">este</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> ca fac <span class="hps">schimbări</span> <span class="hps">frecvente</span> <span class="hps">de carieră, de domenii de afaceri, dupa
oportunitati – ei nu au consecventa intr-un domeniu de afaceri</span></b><span class="hps"> (n.t.)</span>. <span class="hps">Totuşi, acestia</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">mai fericiti</span> <span class="hps">în
vânzări</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> in <span class="hps">rolurile</span> de <span class="hps">intermediari, de brokeri, cei </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">care acţionează</span> <span class="hps">între</span> <span class="hps">cumpărători şi</span> <span class="hps">vânzători</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">rezultatul</span> <span class="hps">muncii
lor</span> se regaseste in <span class="hps">comisioane mari</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">bonusuri mari (sunt actori jucatori
periculosi,n.t.)</span>. <span class="hps">Mulţi dintre ei</span> <span class="hps">sunt agenţi</span>. <span class="hps">Într-adevăr</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>modelul renumit <span class="hps">Ari</span> Gold
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Entourage(<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ari_Gold_(Entourage))"><span style="color: windowtext; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ari_Gold_(Entourage))</span></a>,
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">un portret</span> <span class="hps">minunat</span> pentru un <span class="hps">psihopat</span> <span class="hps">corporatist din domeniul afacerilor.</span>
<span class="hps">Desigur,</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">corporativi sunt</span> intalniti <span class="hps">foarte frecvent</span>
<span class="hps">în lumea afacerilor</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Compania <span class="hps">Enron a fost</span> <span class="hps">plin de ele</span>. <span class="hps">Un</span> <span class="hps">efect
secundar al</span> <span class="hps">decesului</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">industriei bancare</span> <span class="hps">de investitii</span> <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">fi</span>
chiar <span class="hps">psihopatii a caror prezenta este mult prea mare în</span>
<span class="hps">domeniile de activitate care o alcatuiesc</span>. <span class="hps">Ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">diferentiaza</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span>
<span class="hps">de oamenii</span> <span class="hps">de afaceri</span> <span class="hps">de succes</span> <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">este</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> <span class="hps">Lipsa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> ORICARUI<span class="hps"> Sentiment</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">Etica</span>.</b> <span class="hps">Ei joaca de asemenea golf</span>;
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dar <span class="hps">psihopatul</span> <span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">trişa, va insela, va tepui</span> <span class="hps">în timp ce</span> <span class="hps">jucătorul de golf</span> <span class="hps">adevarat</span> <span class="hps">va cere o</span> <span class="hps">pedeapsa</span>
<span class="hps">împotriva lui însuşi</span>.</span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">”</span></div>
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<span><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">Rechinii cu Gulere Albe, Serpii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in Costume Negre… Trasaturi de caracter ale unui Tepar in Afaceri (Psihopatul Corporatist…)<o:p></o:p></span></strong></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">By Chris Golis, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><a href="http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505125_162-31141007/how-do-you-recognise-the-corporate-psychopath-before-it-is-too-late/"><span style="color: windowtext; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505125_162-31141007/how-do-you-recognise-the-corporate-psychopath-before-it-is-too-late/</span></a><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>„Subiectul privind</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span><span class="hps">corporativi – <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Rechinii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Afacerilor, Rechinii cu Gulere Albe</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b><span class="hps">sau <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Serpii </b></span><span class="atn"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">-in- </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Costume Negre </b>(n.t.), se afla din ce in ce mai mult in atentia publicului larg din intreaga lume. <span class="hps">Am</span> <span class="hps">participat la un</span> <span class="hps">seminar de o zi</span> <span class="hps">anul trecut</span>, la care <span class="hps">au fost</span> <span class="hps">in jur de</span> <span class="hps">100 de participanti</span> <span class="hps">dintre</span> <span class="hps">care <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cel</span> <span class="hps">puţin 80</span>% erau in cautare de<span class="hps"> răzbunare</span> pentru diverse situatii de afaceri sau de viata, oameni normali care au<span class="hps"> fost agresati major si tepuiti</span> <span class="hps">de un</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span> <span class="hps">corporatist</span> <span class="hps">la locul de muncă</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">în</span> chiar viata lor, in casnicie, in dragoste. <span class="hps">Am</span> <span class="hps">discutat</span><span class="hps">unele dintre caracteristicile</span> <span class="hps">lor,</span><span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">blog-ul meu</span> <span class="hps">precedent</span><span class="hps">şi anume</span> despre <span class="hps">farmecul lor</span> frapant excesiv, despre <span class="hps">capacitatea de a</span> <span class="hps">înşela</span><span class="hps">şi despre</span> <span class="hps">punctul lor de vedere</span> <span class="hps">că viaţa</span> <span class="hps">este un joc</span> <span class="hps">cu</span><span class="hps">învingători şi învinşi</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">ei sunt</span> mereu <span class="hps">câştigătorii, niciodata invinsii</span>.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Alte caracteristici</span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">de manipulare</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>de <span class="hps">parazitism</span>, <span class="hps">lipsa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">etica</span>, <span class="hps">dorinta de</span><span class="hps">putere</span>, setea de putere (n.t.) <span class="hps">şi</span>de <span class="hps">jucători foarte</span> <span class="hps">activi</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">politica</span> <span class="hps">corporatista si organizationala</span>. <span class="hps">În special, acestia sunt foarte</span>abili in <span class="hps">revendicarea </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">ideilor si creativitatii altor oameni</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">dau vina mereu pe</span><span class="hps">altii</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">propriile<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>lor greseli</span>. Problema este că noua ne <span class="hps">ia</span> mult timp <span class="hps">pentru a</span> putea in sfarsit sa ii <span class="hps">recunoaştem, sa ii izolam şi</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">este mult prea</span> <span class="hps">târziu – raul a fost facut si dezastrul s-a petrecut (n.t.)</span>.<br /><br /><span class="hps">Dar cum</span> putem sa <span class="hps">recunoastem</span> <span class="hps">un psihopat in afaceri, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>în</span>doar <span class="hps">cinci minute</span>? ?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span class="hps">Putem utiliza</span> <span class="hps">sistemul de</span> <span class="hps">Topdog, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">am subliniat</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">bloguri</span> <span class="hps">anterioareşi</span> <span class="hps">amintindu-va că</span> <span class="hps">un psihopat</span><span class="hps">corporatist </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">este definit</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">cineva cu</span> <span class="hps">o mulţime</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">componente</span> <span class="hps">Hustler si cu multe aparente false de om Normal</span>.”<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" /></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Hustler</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> –ul este o persoana care face afaceri ilicite. (Hustler= un om de afaceri oneros!)<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="definition"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">9.<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Este un rechin in costum de business, plin de un farmec inselator, ametitor si…cuceritor, doar pana isi obtine scopul. Apoi musca mortal si aduce dezastre inimaginabile fara pic de remuscare, el se bucura ca triumfa cu cat dezastrul creeat este mai mare, cu atat creste satisfactia sa!</span><span class="definition"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 9pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">„</span></b></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #990000;">Vorba si Portul –psihopatilor tepari din lumea afacerilor</span></span></b></span><br />
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;"></span></b></span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Psihopatii corporatisti din afaceri sunt fermecători</span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">, sunt captivanti, te atrag, iti promit, se jura (n.t.) dar <span class="hps">două</span> <span class="hps">lucruri</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ii <span class="hps">dau de gol</span>. <span class="hps">După ce te-a intrebat ce faci</span> <span class="hps">pentru a trai si afla unde lucrezi</span>, <span class="hps">acestia vor</span> arunca diverse nume si te vor intreba daca cunosti persoane importante, aratand ca ei doresc sa se asociaze doar cu castigatorii. <span class="hps">De asemenea,</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">din afaceri</span> <span class="hps">sunt condusi de</span> <span class="hps">dorinţa de</span> <span class="hps">succese materiale</span>, astfel <span class="hps">ei vor</span> <span class="hps">vorbi</span><span class="hps">despre</span> <span class="hps">victorii</span> la<span class="hps"> jocuri de noroc</span> <span class="hps">recente sau</span> de <span class="hps">succesele lor</span> <span class="hps">de pe</span> <span class="hps">piaţa bursieră</span>. <span class="hps">În</span> <span class="hps">adunări</span> <span class="hps">sociale pe care le</span> <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">petrece</span><span class="hps">primele conversatii te vor cumpani atent, dar dacă</span> <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">decid că</span> <span class="hps">ar trebui să treaca la altcineva mai important</span>, <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">începe să caute febrili</span> <span class="hps">în jurul lor, ca sa gaseasca o astfel de</span> <span class="hps">persoana</span> mai importanta. <span class="hps">Interesele lor</span> <span class="hps">in afara</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">locului lor de muncă</span>, fie includ <span class="hps">interes pentru jocuri de noroc</span>, sau pentru pariuri in <span class="hps">cursele de cai</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> pentru sporturi exclusiviste cum ar fi <span class="hps">sporturi</span>le acvatice <span class="hps">sau legate de ski</span>.</span><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span class="hps"></span></span> </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt;">P</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">sihopatii <span class="hps">Corporatisti</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">se gasesc</span> <span class="hps">peste tot</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">un indiciu</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> extrem de <span class="hps">important</span></b><span class="hps"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">este</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> ca fac <span class="hps">schimbări</span> <span class="hps">frecvente</span><span class="hps">de carieră, de domenii de afaceri, fug dupa oportunitati – ei nu au consecventa in nici un domeniu de afaceri</span></b><span class="hps"> (n.t.)</span>.<span class="hps">Totuşi, acestia</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">mai de succes</span> <span class="hps">în vânzări</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> in <span class="hps">rolurile</span> de <span class="hps">intermediari, de brokeri, acei </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">care acţionează</span> <span class="hps">între</span> <span class="hps">cumpărători şi</span><span class="hps">vânzători</span> iar <span class="hps">rezultatul</span><span class="hps">muncii lor</span> se regaseste in <span class="hps">comisioane mari</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">bonusuri mari (sunt actorii jucatori periculosi, n.t.)</span>. <span class="hps">Mulţi dintre ei</span><span class="hps">sunt agenţi</span>. <span class="hps">Într-adevăr, exista</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>modelul renumit <span class="hps">Ari</span> Gold<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Entourage(<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ari_Gold_(Entourage))"><span style="color: windowtext; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ari_Gold_(Entourage))</span></a>,</span> <span class="hps">un portret</span> interesant pentru un <span class="hps">psihopat</span> <span class="hps">corporatist din domeniul afacerilor.</span>Atentie, P<span class="hps">sihopatii</span> <span class="hps">corporativi sunt</span> intalniti <span class="hps">foarte frecvent</span><span class="hps">în lumea afacerilor</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Compania <span class="hps">Enron a fost</span> intesata <span class="hps">de ele</span>. <span class="hps">Un</span> <span class="hps">efect secundar al</span> <span class="hps">decesului</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">industriei bancare</span> si <span class="hps">de investitii</span> este <span class="hps">fi</span>chiar legat de <span class="hps">psihopatii a caror prezenta este mult prea mare în</span><span class="hps">domeniile de activitate, care o alcatuiesc</span>. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span class="hps">Ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">diferentiaza</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span><span class="hps">de oamenii</span> <span class="hps">de afaceri</span> <span class="hps">de succes</span> <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">este</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> <span class="hps">Lipsa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> ORICARUI<span class="hps"> Sentiment</span> <span class="hps">de</span><span class="hps">Etica</span>.</b> </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span class="hps">Ei joaca de asemenea golf</span>;<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dar nu uitati, spre deosebire de voi, <span class="hps">psihopatul</span> <span class="hps">va</span> <span class="hps">trişa, va insela, va tepui</span> <span class="hps">în timp ce</span> tu, <span class="hps">jucătorul de golf</span> <span class="hps">adevarat</span> <span class="hps">vei cere, chir tu, o</span> <span class="hps">pedeapsa</span><span class="hps">împotriva ta, arbitrilor(n.t.)</span>.</span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><o:p> </o:p></span></div>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-87867626868463655842012-02-12T17:57:00.000-08:002012-02-12T17:57:31.829-08:00URGENT: Psihopatii sunt NISTE Pradatori Supravietuitori<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: Algerian; font-size: 20pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="background-color: #cccccc;">URGENT trebuie sa stiti: Psihopatii<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>sunt NISTE<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Pradatori <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Supravietuitori<o:p></o:p></span></span></b><br />
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Urbane. Cum sa te aperi de psihopati – o scurta introducere privind pradatorii
umani <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></i></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">The Art of Urban Survival by Stefan H. Verstappen, traducere sui generis<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: #cccccc;"><strong><em>sau <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> "</span>Psihopatii care impusca
mai multi iepuri deodata!"</em></strong></span></span></span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">„Viata nu este altceva decat o competitie de a fi mai
degraba criminalul decat victima” </span></i><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Bertrand
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Aharoni;">Mare Atentie Tuturor: </span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Aharoni;">FRICA CEA MAI MARE A UNUI PSIHOPAT
ESTE SA NU FIE DESCOPERIT, DECOPERTAT , DEMASCAT<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> si</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Niciodata sa nu fie DAT IN VILEAG IN PUBLIC,
IN FATA SOCIETATII!!!Totul<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>este
planificat cu o grija demna de un nebun, cu grija lui a psihopatului…oricine vorbeste<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de fapt, doar <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la pereti, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cu el!!!</span></i></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">In
mediul urban psihopatii indeplinesc rolul natural de <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Pradator
uman</span></i></b>. In timp ce strategiile criminalilor<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>utilizate variaza mult, exista o distinctie
importanta intre doua tipuri de criminali, cei psihopati si cei care nu sunt
psihopati. Indivizii care nu sunt psihopati sunt categoria cea mai familiara
publicului. Pentru acesti criminali, crima este un mecanism de supravietuire,
pe care antropologistii il numesc <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Strategia de Inselaciune
(Strategia de a da Tepe, de a Trisa)</span></i></b>. Aceasta strategie se
refera la toate avantajele<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pe care le
furnizeaza ‚verbul a trisa’ pentru supravietuire. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">De
exemplu, o persoana poate utiliza opt ore pe zi muncind pentru a castiga o suma
de bani,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in timp ce un hot poate folosi
doar cateva minute ca sa castige ce altuia ii iau opt ore de munca. Strategia
de a Trisa (de a da tepe) a<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>hotului,
este rentabila si eficace din punct de vedere a cheltuielilor – castigurile
obtinute de el depasesc cu mult cheltuielile efectuate. Dealtfel, omul este un
animal social iar trisorii, teparii sunt rareori tolerati intr-o societate a reciprocitatii
in care, fiecare lucreaza impreuna pentru beneficii comune si o egala impartire
a rezultatelor. <span class="hps">Societatea</span> <span class="hps">a dezvoltat
institutia</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">răzbunare</span> <span class="hps">şi de pedepsire ca</span> <span class="hps">un contor pentru Strategia
de</span> <span class="hps">Inselaciune</span>. <span class="hps">In timp ce exista
unele semne de intrebare</span> privind <span class="hps">eficienta</span> <span class="hps">pedepsei</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">factor de
descurajare</span>, la <span class="hps">nivelul supravietuirii</span> <span class="hps">factorii de</span> <span class="hps">pedeapsa</span> exista <span class="hps">in</span> <span class="hps">analiza</span> <span class="hps">cost /
beneficiu a celor</span> care au in vedee o strategie de inselaciune. Un hot
care fura salariul unui om, se poate comporta cost-eficient, dar daca hotul e
prins si este fortat sa stea cinci ani in inchisoare, el va descoperi ca ceea
ce il costa acum, ii depaseste cu mult beneficiile obtinute. </span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">De
altfel preventia criminalitatii creste costurile utilizarii unei strategii a
inselaciunii pentru ca fortam criminalii sa munceasca din greu, crescand astfel
sansa ca ei sa fie prinsi.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Strategia
de <span class="hps">înselaciune</span> <span class="hps">este adesea</span> <span class="hps">utilizata atunci cand</span> <span class="hps">oamenii se afla in
dezavantaj</span>. <span class="hps">Saracia,</span> <span class="hps">inteligenta
scazuta</span> s<span class="hps">i</span> <span class="hps">nivelul scăzut de
educaţie sunt cauzele</span> <span class="hps">profunde ale</span> unui <span class="hps">comportament</span> <span class="hps">criminal mai ridicat</span>. <span class="hps">Cele mai multe</span> <span class="hps">infractiuni de siguranta</span>
<span class="hps">si</span> <span class="hps">de auto</span><span class="atn">-</span>aparare
din <span class="hps">literatura de specialitate,</span> <span class="hps">se
concentrează</span> <span class="hps">pe acest tip</span> <span class="hps">de
activitate infractionala</span>, <span class="hps">de aparare</span> <span class="hps">impotriva unui</span> tepar, <span class="hps">prevenirea furturilor,
protectia</span> <span class="hps">casei, etc.</span> <span class="hps">Acest tip</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">infracţiuni</span> <span class="hps">este</span>
<span class="hps">logic</span>. O <span class="hps">persoana care</span> <span class="hps">are ceva ce alta</span> <span class="hps">nu are, aşa cel din urma va
insela ca sa dobandeasca si el. In timp ce</span> <span class="hps">nu se pot</span>
<span class="hps">scuza</span> <span class="hps">metodele folosite</span>, se poate
insa i<span class="hps">ntelege</span> <span class="hps">motivatia</span> <span class="hps">pentru actiunile lor</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Un alt</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">tip de comportamente</span> <span class="hps">penale comise de</span> <span class="hps">nonpsihopati, sunt</span> <span class="hps">crimele</span> <span class="hps">din</span> <span class="hps">pasiune</span>. <span class="hps">Aceste
acte</span> <span class="hps">de violenta</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>au la baza <span class="hps">criza</span> <span class="hps">emotionala si</span>
<span class="hps">instinctele</span> <span class="hps">noastre</span> <span class="hps">primitive</span>. <span class="hps">Multe persoane obisnuite</span> <span class="hps">sunt capabile</span> <span class="hps">de a comite</span> <span class="hps">agresiuni</span>, <span class="hps">viol,</span> <span class="hps">crima</span>,
in special in cazurile in care,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">focul pasiunii</span> este atatat si a<span class="hps">limentat de
droguri</span> <span class="hps">si de alcool. In timp ce actele pe care le comit
sunt patologice, ei nu sunt neeaparat psihopati. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Cu toate acestea,</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">atunci cand</span> <span class="hps">vine vorba de</span> <span class="hps">al doilea tip de</span> infractor, psihopatul, <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>motivatiile</span> <span class="hps">care stau
la baza</span> <span class="hps">devin</span> absolut <span class="hps">ireale, de
necrezut</span>. <span class="hps">Psihopatul va folosi cu siguranta</span> s<span class="hps">trategia de</span> inselaciune, dar aceasta in realitate <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">rareori</span> <span class="hps">necesara
pentru supravieţuirea lor</span>. <span class="hps">Un</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span>
<span class="hps">milionar</span> nu ar avea nici o remuscare sa fure de la un
copil infometat. <span class="hps">Evident</span>, <span class="hps">supravietuirea</span>
<span class="hps">milionarului</span> <span class="hps">nu este</span> <span class="hps">miza</span>. <span class="hps">Nu exista</span> <span class="hps">nici o</span>
<span class="hps">logica</span> <span class="hps">evidenta a posibilelor motive
care</span> <span class="hps">ar putea</span> <span class="hps">sta la baza unui
astfel de</span> <span class="hps">comportament</span>. <span class="hps">Psihopatii</span>
<span class="hps">scapa<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de</span> <span class="hps">multe ori</span> <span class="hps">de justitie</span> din aceste
motive. In pr<span class="hps">ocesele penale</span>, <span class="hps">urmarirea
penala</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">necesară</span> <span class="hps">pentru a</span> <span class="hps">atribui un motiv</span> <span class="hps">inculpatului</span>. <span class="hps">Cu toate acestea,</span> i<span class="hps">n</span> <span class="hps">cazul</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><span class="hps">psihopatilor</span>, <span class="hps">motivele</span> <span class="hps">lor sunt</span> <span class="hps">atat de</span> <span class="hps">bizare</span>
si de neinteles,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>incat chiar daca <span class="hps">un procuror</span> <span class="hps">ar putea</span> <span class="hps">explica</span>,
<span class="hps">majoritatea</span> <span class="hps">juratilor</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">l-ar</span> <span class="hps">crede</span>.
Psihopatul <span class="hps">poate</span> <span class="hps">ataca</span>, <span class="hps">viola</span>, ucide <span class="hps">dar este</span> <span class="hps">rareori</span>
<span class="hps">o crima</span> <span class="hps">din</span> <span class="hps">pasiune</span>.
<span class="hps">Este</span> <span class="hps">in schimb un plan rece</span> s<span class="hps">i calculat pentru a obţine</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">vrea</span> acel <span class="hps">psihopat</span>. <span class="hps">Dintre
toate</span> <span class="hps">tipurile de</span> <span class="hps">penali care</span>
<span class="hps">traiesc</span> in societatea <span class="hps">noastra,
psihopatul este de departe</span> <span class="hps">cel mai</span> <span class="hps">distructiv</span>, <span class="hps">cel mai</span> <span class="hps">de
succes</span> s<span class="hps">i</span> <span class="hps">cel mai putin inteles</span>.
<span class="hps">Pentru aceste</span> <span class="hps">motive</span>, <span class="hps">orice</span> program de <span class="hps">auto-</span>aparare <span class="hps">trebuie sa inceapa cu</span> <span class="hps">un studiu</span> al
celui mai periculos pra<span class="hps">dator<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>de pe</span> <span class="hps">planeta. </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">„Grija de a salva umanitatea este aproape intotdeauna o
fateta falsa pentru grija de a o conduce.” </span></i><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">H.L.
Mencken<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Psihopatia infesteaza intreg spectrul umanitatii indiferent de
rasa, cultura, geografie, clasa economica sau tip de personalitate.</span></i></b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Acesta este</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">raspandit</span> i<span class="hps">n</span> populatie <span class="hps">intr-un
mod</span> <span class="hps">similar, cu cei care</span> sunt stangaci. Nu poti
sa iti dai seama ca un om este stangaci pana cand nu il vedeti <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca scrie sau prinde o minge. I<span class="hps">n
mod similar</span>, <span class="hps">nu sa iti dai seama ca ai de a face cu un psihopat,
pana cand nu</span> il vezi ca face <span class="hps">ceva in care li se cere
imperios, sa aiba constiinta. Majoritatea oamenilor</span> <span class="hps">crede
ca psihopatul este</span> <span class="hps">o creatura</span> rarisima care e de <span class="hps">gasit numai</span> <span class="hps">in</span> <span class="hps">cele mai
scazute niveluri</span> <span class="hps">ale</span> <span class="hps">societatii</span>.
<span class="hps">Cu toate acestea,</span> reversul este adevarat. <span class="hps">Ei nu</span> <span class="hps">sunt rari</span>, ci<span class="hps"> de
fapt</span> <span class="hps">destul de comuni</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si <span class="hps">sunt mai multe sanse de</span>
<span class="hps">a gasi</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span> <span class="hps">in</span>
<span class="hps">sala de consiliu</span> de conducere <span class="hps">decat pe
partea</span> <span class="hps">gresita</span> <span class="hps">a drumului.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Adevarul
este ca atunci cand mediul respectiv este cat mai competitiv, cu atat mai multa
cruzime va fi folosita <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Strategia sa de
Inselaciune</span></i></b>. <span class="hps">In cele mai inalte cercuri</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">putere</span> s<span class="hps">i de</span> <span class="hps">bogatie</span>, <span class="hps">o lipsa</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">mila</span> <span class="hps">si</span> de <span class="hps">remuscari</span>
<span class="hps">este practic</span> <span class="hps">o conditie esentiala</span>
<span class="hps">a succesului si numai</span> mentalitatea <span class="hps">psihopatilor</span>
<span class="hps">poate</span> <span class="hps">prospera</span>. <span class="hps">Datorita
uriaselor distrugeri pe care le aduc in societate</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span>,
<span class="hps">este vital</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">toti sa</span> <span class="hps">fim constienti de</span> <span class="hps">existenta</span> psihopatilor si sa recunoastem trasaturile lor <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">comportament. Intelegerea acestora este
primul pas pentru a ne apara din calea lor.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Empatia</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">abilitatea de a</span> <span class="hps">experimenta</span>
<span class="hps">in interiorul tau sentimentele si </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">emotiile</span> <span class="hps">exprimate</span> <span class="hps">de catre altii</span>. Este <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">ne permite</span> <span class="hps">sa
simtim</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">simt</span> <span class="hps">altii</span>. <span class="hps">Acesta este</span> <span class="hps">motivul
pentru care suntem inspirati de</span> <span class="hps">opere de</span> <span class="hps">arta</span>, de <span class="hps">muzica si</span> <span class="hps">poezie</span>.
<span class="hps">Empatia</span> <span class="hps">ne permite sa experimentam</span>
<span class="hps">grandoarea vietii</span>, <span class="hps">sa traim cu adevarat
viata, din plin si este una dintre caracteristicile</span> <span class="hps">definitorii
a</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">ne face sa ne numim
oameni</span>. <span class="hps">Psihopatii au</span> <span class="hps">nici o</span>
<span class="hps">empatie</span> s<span class="hps">i</span> ca urmare, <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">nu sunt nici cu adevarat</span> <span class="hps">umani</span>, <span class="hps">nici</span> nu traiesc <span class="hps">cu
adevarat</span>. <span class="hps">Cand</span> ei vad oameni <span class="hps">Normali
admirand</span> <span class="hps">o piesa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">arta</span>, <span class="hps">sau ca se joaca</span> <span class="hps">cu</span>
<span class="hps">copiii</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>, <span class="hps">sau
ingrijesc un animal de companie</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">orice alte interactiuni</span> <span class="hps">umane</span> <span class="hps">emotionale</span>, <span class="hps">ei nu pot intelege</span> <span class="hps">ce</span> e <span class="hps">tot</span> <span class="hps">tam-tam-ul
asta. Psihopatii</span> isi dau <span class="hps">seama de la</span> <span class="hps">o varsta frageda</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">sunt
diferiti de ceilalti</span> <span class="hps">si ca</span> <span class="hps">ar
trebui sa actioneze si sa se comporte ca</span> <span class="hps">toata lumea, ca
sa fie acceptat</span> de <span class="hps">societate</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Ei invata</span> <span class="hps">sa imite</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce vad</span> la <span class="hps">altii</span>, <span class="hps">dar</span>
<span class="hps">ei Nu</span> pot <span class="hps">intelege</span> niciodata <span class="hps">de ce</span> <span class="hps">ar trebui sa actioneze</span> <span class="hps">in acest fel</span>. <span class="hps">Desi <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">sunt</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">actori</span> <span class="hps">desavarsiti</span></span></i></b>,
<span class="hps">observarea lor</span> <span class="hps">atenta</span> <span class="hps">va evidentia</span> <span class="hps">fisuri</span> <span class="hps">indicative
din</span> <span class="hps">fatada</span> <span class="hps">lor. Ei ştiu</span> <span class="hps">suficient de bine sa se prefaca atunci cand</span> <span class="hps">cineva
este</span> <span class="hps">bolnav</span>, sa se prefaca si sa <span class="hps">pretinda</span>
ca sunt incantati si fericiti cand il loveste norocul pe un prieten, <span class="hps">dar</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">situatiile in
care nu a facut repetitii (ca actorii care repeta mult timp rolul, n.t.), pot
dezvalui o lipsa de empatie incredibila, socanta. De</span> <span class="hps">exemplu</span>,
<span class="hps">în cazul în care participa la o</span> <span class="hps">înmormântare</span>,
<span class="hps">un psihopat</span> <span class="hps">va imita</span> <span class="hps">corect<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>aceleaşi</span> <span class="hps">expresii</span> <span class="hps">de tristete</span> <span class="hps">ca</span>
si <span class="hps">cei care plang dupa mort, dar</span> <span class="hps">apoi va
face</span> <span class="hps">avansuri</span> <span class="hps">sexuale</span>
vaduvei in <span class="hps">doliu, fara nici o remuscare privind aceasta
atitudine </span>inadecvata si obraznica. <span class="hps">Persoanele cu empatie</span>
<span class="hps">ar</span> <span class="hps">intelege</span> <span class="hps">instinctiv,</span>
<span class="hps">comportamentul ca si</span> cum este <span class="hps">necorespunzător.
Dar Psihopatul nu poate intelege.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Lipsa</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">de remuşcări</span></span></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt;"> <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Remuscarea</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">este o expresie</span> <span class="hps">emoţională</span> <span class="hps">a regretul</span> <span class="hps">personal</span> <span class="hps">simţit</span>
<span class="hps">de către o persoană</span> <span class="hps">după ce</span> <span class="hps">el sau ea</span> <span class="hps">a comis un act</span>, <span class="hps">pe care</span> <span class="hps">le consideră</span> <span class="hps">a
fi</span> <span class="hps">rusinos</span>, <span class="hps">dureros</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">violent. Dupa această definiţie</span> se
presupune <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca un</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span> nu se <span class="hps">confruntă cu un astfel de
sentiment</span>. Daca lipseste empatia atunci lipseste si exprimarea
emotionala. <span class="hps">Nici un psihopat</span> nu poate <span class="hps">simţi</span>
<span class="hps">ruşine</span> <span class="hps">şi nici nu</span> poate <span class="hps">înţelege ca</span> <span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">fac
ei</span> <span class="hps">poate</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">dureros</span> <span class="hps">pentru alţii</span>. <br />
<span class="hps">Psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">înţeleg</span> <span class="hps">atunci când oamenii</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">supăraţi</span> pe<span class="hps"> ei</span> <span class="hps">pentru comportamentul</span>
<span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">şi în</span> <span class="hps">ultimă
instanţă</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca ultima arma <span class="hps">ei pot</span> <span class="hps">pretinde</span> <span class="hps">ca le
pare rau, dar</span> <span class="hps">spre deosebire de</span> <span class="hps">majoritatea
oamenilor</span>, <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">deloc deranjati</span> <span class="hps">de
sentimente de</span> <span class="hps">vinovăţie</span>. <span class="hps">Remuşcarea</span>
<span class="hps">este o emotie puternic</span> <span class="hps">negativa,</span> <span class="hps">care produce</span> <span class="hps">tulburări</span> <span class="hps">în</span>
<span class="hps">cel care o simte</span>, <span class="hps">turbulenţe care duc de
multe ori</span> la <span class="hps">comportamente</span> <span class="hps">auto</span>-distructive
<span class="hps">sau</span> de <span class="hps">auto-invinuire</span>. Psihopatul
<span class="hps">poate</span> <span class="hps">pretinde</span> ca are <span class="hps">remuşcări</span>, dar <span class="hps">comportamentul</span> <span class="hps">lor real nu s-a schimbat</span>, <span class="hps">ei merg</span> <span class="hps">în <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>continuare</span> <span class="hps">cumpărături</span>, <span class="hps">merg</span> <span class="hps">în
continuare</span> <span class="hps">la petreceri</span>, <span class="hps">ei</span>
<span class="hps">nu au</span> <span class="hps">probleme de somn,</span> <span class="hps">noaptea.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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face <span class="hps">pe cineva</span> <span class="hps">să meargă mai departe</span>
<span class="hps">decât necesar pentru a</span> <span class="hps">explora </span>si
a <span class="hps">invata sa stapaneasca</span> <span class="hps">un subiect</span>.
M<span class="hps">ajoritatea oamenilor se bucura sa asculte</span> <span class="hps">muzică</span>, <span class="hps">dar daca cineva</span> este <span class="hps">pasionat de muzica, va</span> <span class="hps">merge</span> mai
departe <span class="hps">pentru a</span> <span class="hps">învăţa cum să</span> <span class="hps">cânte la un instrument</span>. <span class="hps">În mod similar</span>,
<span class="hps">mulţi oameni</span> <span class="hps">sunt interesaţi</span> <span class="hps">în tehnologie nouă</span>, dar <span class="hps">numai</span> <span class="hps">o persoana</span> <span class="hps">pasionata</span> va <span class="hps">deveni</span> <span class="hps">inginer. </span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Lipsiti de</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">pasiune</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> orice <span class="hps">altceva decât</span> doar pentru <span class="hps">ei înşişi</span>, <span class="hps">psihopati</span> <span class="hps">nu
pot</span> <span class="hps">pătrunde</span> niciodata <span class="hps">dincolo de</span>
<span class="hps">suprafaţa lucrurilor si a stiintelor</span>.</span></i></b><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">Ca urmare</span>, <span class="hps">ei</span>
<span class="hps">prezintă</span> o intelegere <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>"</span>superficiala" a unor sau mai
multor subiecte sau discipline, in timp ce expertii adevarati<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ii considera ca fiind superficiali. <span class="hps">Această</span> <span class="hps">superficialitate</span> <span class="hps">se extinde la încercările</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">de a se comporta normal</span> <span class="hps">prin afisarea unor emoţii</span>
<span class="hps">false printr-un</span> <span class="hps">afect</span> <span class="hps">exagerat.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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sunt <span class="hps">superficiali</span>, frivoli, gaunosi, <span class="hps">psihopatii</span>
<span class="hps">nu au nici</span> un fel de <span class="hps">probleme de</span> <span class="hps">stima de sine</span>. <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Psihopatii</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">trăiesc într-o falsa</span> <span class="hps">viziune asupra lumii</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">acestia se considera la propriu şi la
figurat</span> - <span class="hps">Dumnezeu.</span></span></i></b> <span class="hps">Adesea văzuti ca</span> fiind <span class="hps">megalomani</span>,
grandomani<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ei au in mod egal un <span class="hps">sentiment</span> <span class="hps">la fel de</span> <span class="hps">exagerat
de ‚a avea drepturi si beneficii’. </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Psihopatii sunt</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">iresponsabili</span>, deoarece Niciodata Nu e vina lor. <span class="hps">Altcineva</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">lumea</span>
in general, <span class="hps">este întotdeauna</span> <span class="hps">de vină</span>
<span class="hps">pentru toate</span> <span class="hps">problemele lor</span>. <span class="hps">Acest lucru</span> <span class="hps">are sens</span> <span class="hps">în
cazul în care doriti sa pricepeti că</span> <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">psihopati</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">cred</span> despre ei ca sunt <span class="hps">perfecti</span></span></i></b>.
<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Logica</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">dictează</span> ca <span class="hps">tot ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">este întotdeauna</span> <span class="hps">rău este numai si numai din vina altcuiva</span>.<o:p></o:p></i></b></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Comportamentul</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">impulsiv al Psihopatului are
sens</span> <span class="hps">în lumina</span> <span class="hps">megalomaniei</span>
<span class="hps">lui</span>.<span style="color: black;"> I</span></span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="color: black;">n</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">lumea
lor</span>, <span class="hps">tot ce</span> isi <span class="hps">doresc</span> <span class="hps">acum</span>, <span class="hps">este bun</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">tot ceea ce</span> ei <span class="hps">nu doresc</span> <span class="hps">este rău</span>. <span class="hps">Dacă un</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span>
<span class="hps">vrea</span> <span class="hps">sex si</span> nu il obtine, <span class="hps">atunci</span> <span class="hps">violul</span> <span class="hps">este bun
si</span> partenera este rea. <span class="hps">Dacă cineva are bani</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">buzunar</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span>ul
ii <span class="hps">vrea</span>, <span class="hps">atunci</span> <span class="hps">jaful</span>
<span class="hps">este bun</span>, <span class="hps">iar</span> <span class="hps">victima</span>
<span class="hps">este rea pentru ca detine ceva</span> ce <span class="hps">psihopatul</span>
<span class="hps">a vrut sa aiba. Daca toate acestea<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>lovesc in moalele capului cititorul – ca are
de a face cu un nebun – acesta are dreptate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Unele dintre primele lucrari asupra acestui subiect al Psihopatiei apartine
lui </span>J. C. Prichard care a lansat, acum un termen deja defunct, <i>Moral
Insanity – Nebunia Morala, </i><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">ca un
mod de a descrie Psihopatia in anul 1835</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Această caracteristică</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">poate</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">înşelătoare la
psihopaţi</span>, deoarece majoritatea psihopatilor <span class="hps">prezintă</span>
<span class="hps">un</span> <span class="hps">auto-control</span> <span class="hps">excelent
pentru ca ei se zbat sa se comporte </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si se pretind „A fi Normali”, in cea mai mare
parte a timpului. L<span class="hps">ipsa</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">auto</span>-control <span class="hps">intră în</span> <span class="hps">joc
atunci când</span> <span class="hps">megalomania lor ii face sa se comporte si sa
actioneze exact asa cum le place face ca acestea</span> <span class="hps">să facă</span>
<span class="hps">şi se comportă</span> <span class="hps">exact</span> <span class="hps">aşa cum</span> <span class="hps">vă rog</span>, în orice moment ei au o
dorinta. Aceasta ne duce la urmatoarea caracteristica.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Lipsa Obiectivelor<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">O altă</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">caracteristică</span> <span class="hps">atribuită personalitatii</span>
<span class="hps">psihopatice</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">lipsa</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> obiective, <span class="hps">dar acest lucru induce în
eroare</span>. Multi <span class="hps">Psihopatii</span> au <span class="hps">obiective</span>,
<span class="hps">cum ar fi</span> sa termine, sa distruga <span class="hps">doua
victime deodata (sa impuste mai multi iepuri deodata n.t.), sa saboteze un
partener, un coleg sau sa devina Preşedinte</span>. <span class="hps">Cu toate
acestea,</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">obiectivele
pe termen lung</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">subminate</span>
<span class="hps">pe termen scurt chiar de Psihopat, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">aşa cum</span> <span class="hps">este descris</span> mai sus, pentru ca <span class="hps">psihopatul</span>
<span class="hps">vrea</span> sa<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>faca doar
ceea ce ii place lui, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in acel<span class="hps"> moment particular. (vezi „<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">EU fac ce vreau,
cand vreau si cum vreau</span></i></b>” din amintirile relatate de Sui Generis,
n.t.)</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Necontrolat. </span></b><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Sa traiesti în detrimentul</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">restului</span> oamenilor <span class="hps">ar</span>
<span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">o situaţie</span> <span class="hps">imposibilă</span>
<span class="hps">într-o</span> societate <span class="hps">raţionala. Sunt in realitate niste Paraziti!!!(n.t.)</span><br />
<span class="hps">Psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">au rezolvat</span> <span class="hps">aceasta dilema</span> <span class="hps">prin intermediul <strong>Armei lor
numarul unu - Minciunile</strong></span>. Minciunile tin la un loc, unesc viziunea lor
despre ei, universul lor privat, interior<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>si le hranesc nevoia de a trai <span class="hps">parazitar</span> <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">spinarea</span> <span class="hps">societăţii.
Fără</span> <span class="hps">empatie</span>, fara <span class="hps">ruşine</span> <span class="hps">şi fara remuşcare</span> <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">sunt
liberi</span> <span class="hps">să mintă</span> oricat de des <span class="hps">şi
în</span> <span class="hps">mod scandalos</span> de cate ori le convine. <span class="hps">Oamenii normali ar rosi, ar transpira</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
ar tremura <span class="hps">dacă</span> <span class="hps">ar îndrăzni sa traga de
adevar intr-un mod similar. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Dar pentru
Psihopat a minti e la fel de natural ca si respiratia</span></i></b>. Acesta
este</span> <span class="hps">motivul pentru care</span> ei <span class="hps">trec</span>
<span class="hps">de multe ori</span> testele la poligraf. La e<span class="hps">i
nu</span> <span class="hps">se înregistrează</span> <span class="hps">reacţii</span>
<span class="hps">fiziologice</span> -in timp ce la nonpsihopati se inregistreaza
<span class="hps">atunci când</span> <span class="hps">mint</span>. <span class="hps">Ei sunt</span> <span class="hps">atat de buni la</span> <span class="hps">minciuni</span> <span class="hps">incat pot pacali</span> <span class="hps">psihiatri</span> <span class="hps">instruiţi</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">chiar</span> <span class="hps">alti</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span>.
<span class="hps">Ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">este important</span> <span class="hps">să ştiţi</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">că, in
aceste condiţii, ei pot pacali pe oricine.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Mână în mână</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">capacitatea</span> <span class="hps">extraordinară</span>
<span class="hps">de a</span> <span class="hps">minţi</span> merge <span class="hps">vine</span>
<span class="hps">abilitatea de a</span> <span class="hps">manipula pe alţii pentru</span>
<span class="hps">propriul lor beneficiu.</span> <span class="hps">După ce si-au</span>
<span class="hps">petrecut</span> toata <span class="hps">viata</span> <span class="hps">lor pentru a ne studia pe noi,</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii devin
maeştri</span> in<span class="hps"> manipulare</span> <span class="hps">şi experţi
în</span> <span class="hps">a şti cum să</span> apese pe <span class="hps">butoanele
</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">noastre si sa
foloseasca emotiile noastre chiar impotriva noastra. Ei folosesc</span> <span class="hps">această capacitate</span> pentru <span class="hps">a-i</span> <span class="hps">păstra</span> <span class="hps">pe cei din jurul lor intr-o stare de
confuzie, incapabil</span> <span class="hps">de a gândi clar</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> dezechilibrati.<span class="hps"> Psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">afla</span>, de asemenea, <span class="hps">foarte</span> <span class="hps">devreme</span> <span class="hps">cum</span> <span class="hps">personalitatea</span>
<span class="hps">lor poate avea efecte traumatizante asupra</span> <span class="hps">personalitatilor nonpsihopate şi</span> <span class="hps">cum</span> <span class="hps">să profite</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">acest
lucru</span> <span class="hps">pentru a-si obtine scopurile.</span> <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">Ca un</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">ţipar</span> <span class="hps">electric
care</span> isi electrocuteaza <span class="hps">prada cu un electrosoc,
personalitatea inumana a Psihopatului are capacitatea stranie de a manipula
pana la a ameti complet victimele alese.</span><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Comportamentul Anti-social<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Esenţa tare a <span class="hps">psihopatului</span> <span class="hps">este anti</span><span class="atn">-</span>sociala.</span></i></b><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">Lipsa</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">empatie</span> <span class="hps">pentru alte
persoane</span> se distribuie <span class="hps">pe</span> <span class="hps">societate</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> pe <span class="hps">mediul înconjurător</span>. <span class="hps">Vandalism</span>, <span class="hps">poluare</span>, <span class="hps">graffiti</span>,
<span class="hps">abuz</span> <span class="hps">de animale</span>, <span class="hps">distrugerea
mediului</span>, <span class="hps">încălcări</span> <span class="hps">de coduri</span>,
<span class="hps">conducere</span> <span class="hps">nechibzuita</span> <span class="hps">şi o serie</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">puncte de
vedere morale</span> <span class="hps">şi unele activităţi sociale</span> sunt <span class="hps">inacceptabile</span> si de<span class="hps"> nici un</span> <span class="hps">interes pentru un psihopat. Acestea</span> <span class="hps">sunt
caracteristicile</span> <span class="hps">de bază</span> pe <span class="hps">care
toti</span> <span class="hps">psihopati le prezintă</span>. <span class="hps">Ţineţi</span>
<span class="hps">cont de faptul că</span> putini <span class="hps">psihopati</span>
<span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">exprima</span> <span class="hps">toate
toate caracteristicile si ca non-</span>psihopaţii pot avea multe dintre
acestea, de asemenea.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;">Tipuri Comune de Psihopati<o:p></o:p></span></strong></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Sunt la fel de</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">multe variaţii</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">personalităţile
psihopatilor, asa cum intalnim si printre oamenii normali</span>, <span class="hps">mai jos, sunt listate unele</span> <span class="hps">stereotipuri</span>
<span class="hps">generale</span>.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" /><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
<span style="color: #cc0000;"><strong>N</strong></span></span><span style="color: #cc0000;"><span><strong><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">arcisistii</span><o:p></o:p></strong></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">F<span class="hps">orma cea mai</span> <span class="hps">benignă</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">psihopatologie</span> <span class="hps">este narcisismul</span> <span class="hps">patologic</span>. <span class="hps">Narcisistii ca in mitologia greaca
personajul numit Narcissus, sunt atât de</span> posedati de <span class="hps">iubirea
de sine</span>, incat nimic pe lumea asta nu e mai important decat ei.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Ei au</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">nevoie
de un sursă constantă</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">hrana
Narcisista</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">este atenţia</span>,
<span class="hps">adorare</span>, premierea, r<span class="hps">ecunoaşterea</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">lauda</span>. <span class="hps">Există</span>
<span class="hps">două</span> <span class="hps">tipuri de bază</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">Narcisist</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Somatic</span> <span class="hps">şi</span><br />
<span class="hps">Cerebral.</span> <span class="hps">Narcisistii somatici sunt</span>
<span class="hps">mândri</span> <span class="hps">de cum sunt si de</span> <span class="hps">aspectul</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>. <span class="hps">Ei vor</span>
<span class="hps">face paradă de</span> <span class="hps">faptele lor</span> <span class="hps">sexuale</span>, se vor <span class="hps">lauda</span> cu <span class="hps">realizările lor</span>, isi arata muschii <span class="hps">şi isi
zornaie jucariile lor.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Ele sunt</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">nuci</span> <span class="hps">de
sănătate</span>, ipohondri si dependenti de sex. <span class="hps">O mare parte</span>
din hrana lor <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">narcisist</span> <span class="hps">vine din a avea numerosi</span> <span class="hps">parteneri sexuali</span>,
dar actul <span class="hps">în sine</span>, <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">flamboiant şi</span> <span class="hps">exagerat</span>, <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">doar un</span> <span class="hps">spectacol
gol</span> <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pus</span> in
scena <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">narcissist</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">amuzamentul</span> <span class="hps">propriu</span>.
D<span class="hps">in cauza vietei lor stearpă</span> in <span class="hps">interior</span>,
ei <span class="hps">au nevoie</span> <span class="hps">în permanenţă</span> <span class="hps">de noi</span> <span class="hps">senzaţii tari</span> <span class="hps">pur
şi simplu pentru</span> plusuri de <span class="hps">adrenalina</span>. <span class="hps">Acestea variază de</span> la <span class="hps">senzaţii tari</span> <span class="hps">criminale si abuzul de</span> <span class="hps">substante, pana la
bizare acte</span> <span class="hps">sexuale.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Narcisistii</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">cerebrali isi</span> <span class="hps">iubesc</span> <span class="hps">propriile
lor minţi</span>. <span class="hps">Ei sunt</span> <span class="hps">aroganti</span>,
<span class="hps">condescendenti</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">"le stiu pe toate</span>", <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">se mândresc</span> <span class="hps">ca sunt mai inteligenti</span> <span class="hps">decât oricine
altcineva</span> poate fi. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Contrar celor</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">somatici,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>narcisistii</span> <span class="hps">de tip</span> <span class="hps">cerebral</span>, <span class="hps">consideră</span>
<span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">corpul</span> <span class="hps">lor</span> <span class="hps">si</span> <span class="hps">întreţinere</span>a
acestuia <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">o pacoste</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> o <span class="hps">povară, iar fizic</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span>
<span class="hps">leneşi</span>, <span class="hps">improprii</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">celibatar</span>.
Hrana lor de narcisisti cerebrali <span class="hps">provine</span> <span class="hps">de la faima</span>, <span class="hps">notorietate</span>, <span class="hps">premii</span>, <span class="hps">si etalarea bogăţiei</span> <span class="hps">pentru a crea</span> <span class="hps">invidie celorlalti.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Pericolul
pentru <span class="hps">public care vine de la narcisisti</span> <span class="hps">este epuizarea victimelor, scurgerea de energie</span>, de <span class="hps">timp</span>, de <span class="hps">resurse</span> si reducerea <span class="hps">bunăstarii</span> <span class="hps">emoţionale</span>. <span class="hps">Un</span>
<span class="hps">narcisist este</span> <span class="hps">interesat de</span> <span class="hps">o</span> <span class="hps">persoană</span> <span class="hps">numai</span>
<span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> aceasta <span class="hps">persoană</span> ii <span class="hps">poate oferi</span>. <span class="hps">Ei vor</span> <span class="hps">accepta</span> <span class="hps">cu
bucurie</span> <span class="hps">dragoste</span>, <span class="hps">atenţie</span>,
<span class="hps">afecţiune</span>, <span class="hps">adorare</span>, <span class="hps">laudă</span>, <span class="hps">sprijin emoţional şi</span> <span class="hps">financiar</span>, <span class="hps">dar fiind</span> <span class="hps">fără</span>
<span class="hps">empatie</span>, <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">nu
pot</span> lega <span class="hps">nici</span> <span class="hps">o</span> <span class="hps">bază de reciprocitate.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Orice parteneriat</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> in <span class="hps">care acestia intră va fi unilateral.O data ce o persoană</span> <span class="hps">încetează să mai fie</span> <span class="hps">o sursă</span> <span class="hps">de</span> hrana <span class="hps">narcisista</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span>
apare la orizont o sursa mai buna, prima este <span class="hps">aruncata</span>
fără <span class="hps">ezitare</span> <span class="hps">sau vreo umbra de
considerare</span>. <span class="hps">Astfel</span>, <span class="hps">narcisistul</span>
<span class="hps">lăsa</span> <span class="hps">în urma lor</span> <span class="hps">o
dâră</span> <span class="hps">de inimi</span> <span class="hps">frânte</span>, <span class="hps">vise</span> <span class="hps">sparte</span>, <span class="hps">portofele</span>
<span class="hps">goale</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> copii <span class="hps">abandonati.</span>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Victima de Profesie<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Frecvent utilizate</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">de sex
feminin</span> <span class="hps">(</span>dar <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">înseamnă</span> ca e <span class="hps">nemaiauzit</span> si <span class="hps">în rândul bărbaţilor</span>), <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">stereotipul victimei de profesie</span>. Bazandu-se pe ceea ce
psihopatii vad ca pe o slabiciune in altii, pe compatimire, <span class="hps">psihopatul</span>
<span class="hps">feminin</span> <span class="hps">pare</span> <span class="hps">neajutorat</span>,
<span class="hps">jalnic</span>, fragil <span class="hps">emoţional</span>, <span class="hps">persecutat</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span> vulnerabil <span class="hps">sexual.</span> <span class="hps">Ea</span> <span class="hps">pretinde o</span>
<span class="hps">recunoştinţa</span> <span class="hps">sinceră</span> <span class="hps">pentru</span> <span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">fleac, </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">dar în spatele</span> acestei <span class="hps">masti</span> <span class="hps">este vicleana</span>, <span class="hps">nemiloasa
si un pradator de iubire</span>. <span class="hps">Folosind de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">sexul ca si cârlig</span>, <span class="hps">ei</span> <span class="hps">pot
face jonglerii cu</span> <span class="hps">mai multe victime deodata</span>, scalpandu-i
de viata si de bani, <span class="hps">până când</span> <span class="hps">nu mai este</span>
<span class="hps">nimic de luat</span>, dupa care va fugi din oras pentru a evita
repercursiunile.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p> </o:p></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Escrocii - Teparii – Trisorii<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Nu toti</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">escrocii</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">psihopaţi</span>,
<span class="hps">dar psihopatii</span> sunt escroci c<span class="hps">onvingători</span>.
<span class="hps">Fiind</span> <span class="hps">mincinoşi</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>perfecti isi pun intregul talent de mincinosi
la treaba pentru a insela.<span class="hps"> Fara pic de conştiinţă</span> <span class="hps">sau de</span> <span class="hps">remuşcări</span> <span class="hps">ei</span>
<span class="hps">sunt liberi să escrocheze batrane de</span> <span class="hps">economiile</span>
<span class="hps">lor de o viaţă</span>, ei vor <span class="hps">vinde</span> <span class="hps">cure</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">vraci
bolnavilor in stare terminala</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> sa escrocheze
un orb. Acesti psihopati <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sunt de obicei</span> <span class="hps">fermecători</span>,
<span class="hps">convingători</span> <span class="hps">şi sunt vanzatori</span> <span class="hps">de succes. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Spre deosebire de</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">narcisist,</span> escrocul nu este <span class="hps">la fel de</span> <span class="hps">preocupat de</span> <span class="hps">dragoste</span> <span class="hps">sau
de</span> <span class="hps">atentie</span>, <span class="hps">cat</span> <span class="hps">de bani</span>. <span class="hps">Există două</span> <span class="hps">tipuri</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span> Micul Escroc- Micul
borfas si<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Marele Escroc-Marele Borfas
(Borfasul de magazin universal). Micul Escroc<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>probabil <span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">cele mai multe ori</span>
<span class="hps">vine în minte</span> <span class="hps">atunci când ne gândim in
general la</span> <span class="hps">Escroci</span>. </span><span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Acestia fac</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">trucuri ieftine</span> care <span class="hps">nu necesită</span> o <span class="hps">inteligenţă</span> prea <span class="hps">mare. Psihopati</span> <span class="hps">care au un</span> <span class="hps">nivel de</span> <span class="hps">inteligenta</span>
<span class="hps">mai mare şi</span> <span class="hps">/</span> <span class="hps">sau</span>
<span class="hps">vin dintr-un mediu mai</span> <span class="hps">respectabil</span>
<span class="hps">sunt mai</span> <span class="hps">susceptibili de a fi Marii
Escroci.</span> <span class="hps">Acestia sunt</span> cei care fac fraude <span class="hps">de mari dimensiuni</span>, care toate au o strategie de baza. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">A lua ceva</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">mică</span> valoare, a <span class="hps">creşte
în mod artificial</span> <span class="hps">valoarea perceputa</span>, <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>a</span> <span class="hps">vinde</span>
unui investitor <span class="hps">credul si apoi sa iei banii si sa fugi.</span>
Marii Escroci traditionali folosesc imobiliarele, actiunile de bursa si
obligatiunile ca si nada. <span class="hps">Chiar şi</span> <span class="hps">"</span>reputabilele"<br />
<span class="hps">corporaţii</span> <span class="hps">multinaţionale</span>, <span class="hps">firme de contabilitate,</span> <span class="hps">bănci</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">toate poate nimic</span> <span class="hps">mai
mult</span> <span class="hps">decât un</span> escroc la scara larga.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In<span class="hps"> timp ce micul escroc poate
priva</span> <span class="hps">victima</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">cativa pana la cateva mii de dolari, Marii Escroci </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">sunt deosebit de</span> <span class="hps">distructivi</span> si <span class="hps">capabili</span> <span class="hps">de distrugerea</span> <span class="hps">economiei</span> unei natiuni. <span class="hps">Efectele</span> <span class="hps">acestor</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span>
<span class="hps">sunt</span>, de obicei vandalizarea si devastarea <span class="hps">financiara </span>împreună cu <span class="hps">toate</span> <span class="hps">repercusiunile</span> de <span class="hps">rupere de casatorii,
sinucideri, alcoolism, violenta domestica, droguri si vieti ruinate.</span><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Mai popular</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">cunoscuti<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sub numele de
Tulburarea</span> <span class="hps">de personalitate antisociala</span>, <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">sociopati</span>, <span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;">psihopatul răuvoitor</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000;"> <span class="hps">este</span> in <span class="hps">viaţa
reală monstrul</span> <span class="hps">coşmarurilor</span> <span class="hps">noastre</span>.</span></i></b>
<span class="hps">Acestia sunt cei care isi bat sotia sunt criminali</span>, <span class="hps">criminali în serie</span>, <span class="hps">violatori</span>, <span class="hps">pedofili,</span> <span class="hps">sadici</span>, <span class="hps">gangsteri</span>,
<span class="hps">anchetatorii</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">terorişti</span>.
<span class="hps">Ei sunt de obicei</span> criminali de cariera <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">pot acumula</span> <span class="hps">un cazier judiciar extins în
timp, furand inca din adolescenta timpurie. Isi arată</span> <span class="hps">dispreţul</span>
<span class="hps">de multe ori</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">un
surâs dispreţuitor</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">zambet</span>
fortat <span class="hps">si cu o privire cu</span> <span class="hps">ochi</span> <span class="hps">reci</span>, <span class="hps">de pradă</span>, <span class="hps">acestia</span>
<span class="hps">sunt periculosi</span>, <span class="hps">imprevizibili</span> <span class="hps">şi pot declansa uşor acte de violenţă</span>. <span class="hps">Laşi si
sadici</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">au tendinţa</span> <span class="hps">să vizeze</span> si sa aleaga <span class="hps">cele mai vulnerabile</span>
persoane <span class="hps">din</span> <span class="hps">societate</span>, <span class="hps">femei</span>, <span class="hps">copii</span>, persoane <span class="hps">în
vârstă şi</span> <span class="hps">cu handicap</span>. De <span class="hps">multe
ori impulsivi</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">oportunişti</span>,
<span class="hps">sociopatii</span> <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">vor
ezita</span> <span class="hps">să comita</span> <span class="hps">orice</span> <span class="hps">tip</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">infracţiune</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">se vor</span> <span class="hps">folosi</span>
<span class="hps">de manipulare</span>, de <span class="hps">intimidare</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> de <span class="hps">violenţă</span> <span class="hps">pentru a
obţine</span> Tot <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> <span class="hps">doresc.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Psihopatul
<span class="hps">răuvoitor</span> <span class="hps">poate arata</span> <span class="hps">semne din</span> <span class="hps">boala</span> <span class="hps">lor
inca devreme</span> de la <span class="hps">varsta de trei ani</span>. <span class="hps">Semnele</span> <span class="hps">de avertizare timpurie</span> <span class="hps">includ</span> <span class="hps">compulsiv minciuna,</span> <span class="hps">lupta</span>, <span class="hps">furtul</span>, <span class="hps">agresiunea</span>,
decizia sa faca rau, distrugerea, <span class="hps">înşelăciunea</span>, <span class="hps">cruzime fata de animale</span>, <span class="hps">acte de vandalism</span>,
<span class="hps">absenteism</span>, <span class="hps">activitatea sexuala</span>,
piromanie, <span class="hps">abuzul de substanţe</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">fuga</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">acasă</span>.
Psihopatul rauvoitor <span class="hps">este un killer</span> natural din nastere.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Psihopatii Profesionisti<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Psihopatul <span class="hps">răuvoitor</span> <span class="hps">este</span>
<span class="hps">cel mai periculos, el <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>este Psihopatul Profesionist</span>, <span class="hps">cel mai</span> <span class="hps">distructiv</span>.</span></i></b><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>În
timp ce</span> <span class="hps">victimele</span> <span class="hps">celui mentionat
mai sus</span> <span class="hps">pot varia în</span> <span class="hps">zeci</span>,
<span class="hps">victimele</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ps<span class="hps">ihopatului</span> <span class="hps">profesional</span> <span class="hps">pot
fi în</span> <span class="hps">zeci</span> <span class="hps">de milioane</span>. <span class="hps">Acesti psihopati</span> au murdarit istoria lumii cu <span class="hps">genociduri</span>
<span class="hps">cu distrugerea</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">naţiuni întregi</span> <span class="hps">şi a imperiilor</span>. <span class="hps">Exemplele istoriei</span> <span class="hps">includ</span> <span class="hps">monştri</span> cum ar fi <span class="hps">Stalin</span>, <span class="hps">Pol</span> <span class="hps">Pot</span>, <span class="hps">Ivan</span> <span class="hps">cel Groaznic</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">Caligula.
Deşi</span> <span class="hps">există multi in</span> <span class="hps">vârful</span>
<span class="hps"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>scenei politice</span>,
există, de asemenea, <span class="hps">astfel de</span> <span class="hps">figuri</span>
<span class="hps">istorice</span> <span class="hps">precum</span> <span class="hps">JP</span>
<span class="hps">Morgan</span>, <span class="hps">Randolph</span> <span class="hps">Hearst</span>,
<span class="hps">şi Mayer</span> <span class="hps">Rothschild</span>, <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">profesionali,</span> <span class="hps">care ating Apogeul</span> <span class="hps">financiar</span> <span class="hps">în <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>timp ce provoaca nu mai
putina mizerie şi distrugere</span> <span class="hps">ca omologii</span> <span class="hps">lor politici</span>. Psihopatii <span class="hps">Profesionisti sunt la
fel de</span> <span class="hps">malefici</span>, <span class="hps">narcisisti</span>,
<span class="hps">fara scrupule</span>, <span class="hps">ca</span> celelalte <span class="hps">stereotipuri</span>, doar ca ei <span class="hps">sunt cu mult mai
inteligenti</span>. <span class="hps">Ei pot</span> <span class="hps">fi găsiti în</span>
<span class="hps">orice profesie</span>, dar, de obicei in <span class="hps">guverne</span>,
in <span class="hps">corporaţii</span>, in <span class="hps">religii, din plin.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Într-o</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="hps">corporaţie</span>, <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">profesionali</span>
<span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">în mod ideal cei mai potriviti
pentru o</span> <span class="hps">avansare</span>. <span class="hps">Ei pot</span> cu
<span class="hps">măiestrie</span> <span class="hps">falsifica abilităţile</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">acreditările lor</span>, sa isi foloseasca <span class="hps">intelectul</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">farmecul
lor pentru a manipula</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> e<span class="hps">xploata
pe</span> <span class="hps">alţii</span>,<span class="hps"> în general</span> sa
practice <span class="hps">înjunghierea<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pe
la spate pentru a ajunge la poziţia</span> cea<span class="hps"> mare</span>. <span class="hps">Odata</span> ajunsi <span class="hps">la putere</span>, <span class="hps">măştile</span> <span class="hps">le</span> vor cade <span class="hps">şi ei
vor incepe sa abuzeze de puterea</span> <span class="hps">lor, de manipulare, de</span>
<span class="hps">sabotarea</span> <span class="hps">colegii</span> <span class="hps">lor şi a</span> <span class="hps">subordonaţilor</span>. <span class="hps">În politică,</span> <span class="hps">psihopatul</span> <span class="hps">profesional</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>este plin
de <span class="hps">cruzime</span> <span class="hps">şi de viclenie si astfel are
un avantaj distinct</span> <span class="hps">faţă de orice</span> rival
nonpsihopat<span class="hps">.</span> <span class="hps">Ei sunt liderii</span> <span class="hps">carismatici</span> care <span class="hps">manipuleaza, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>spala creierele naivilor, a celor</span> <span class="hps">vulnerabili</span>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>a celor <span class="hps">needucati</span>, a celor cu un mental mai slab. Fiind maestri ai
minciunilor aceasta le permite sa p<span class="hps">romita</span> orice in mod <span class="hps">scandalos, desigur fara nici o intenţie de</span> <span class="hps">a
menţine</span> <span class="hps">nici una dintre ele</span>. <span class="hps">O</span>
<span class="hps">viata petrecuta prin ‚a se preface</span> <span class="hps">a fi</span>
<span class="hps">uman’ le da</span> <span class="hps">posibilitatea de</span> <span class="hps">a-şi asuma</span> <span class="hps">roluri de</span> <span class="hps">funcţionar
public</span> <span class="hps">virtuos</span>, <span class="hps">tatal</span> <span class="hps">perfect,</span> <span class="hps">sotul perfect</span>, <span class="hps">consilier</span>, <span class="hps">mentor</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span>
Om bun la toate. <span class="hps">În</span> <span class="hps">plus, atunci cand</span>
<span class="hps">lucrurile devin</span> <span class="hps">dure</span> <span class="hps">ei nu au</span> <span class="hps">inhibitii</span> <span class="hps">in a</span>
<span class="hps">juca</span> <span class="hps">murdar</span> <span class="hps">şi de</span>
<span class="hps">a recurge <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>usor la crima</span>,
<span class="hps">asasinat</span>, pe<span class="hps">rsecuţie</span>, <span class="hps">război şi</span> <span class="hps">genocid</span>. A treia sfera de <span class="hps">putere care</span> <span class="hps">a atras</span> <span class="hps">în
mod tradiţional</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span> <span class="hps">este
religia</span>. <span class="hps">O</span> <span class="hps">privire</span> <span class="hps">rapidă</span> <span class="hps">la </span>istoria <span class="hps">religiei</span>
<span class="hps">din</span> <span class="hps">jertfele</span> <span class="hps">sângeroase</span>
<span class="hps">ale</span> preotilor <span class="hps">Aztecilor,</span> <span class="hps">la</span> <span class="hps">torturile</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Inchizitiei</span> <span class="hps">spaniole</span>,<span class="hps"> aparente</span> <span class="hps">interminabile</span>
<span class="hps">războaie</span> <span class="hps">religioase,</span> <span class="hps">purtate</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">numele</span>
<span class="hps">păcii şi iubirii aproapelui</span>, <span class="hps">face ca</span>
<span class="hps">influenţa lor</span> sa fie <span class="hps">vizibila pentru
toţi</span> cei care <span class="hps">doresc să o vada, cu adevarat</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Deoarece</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">cele mai multe</span> dintre curentele <span class="hps">religioase
recente</span> <span class="hps">"mari"</span> (sectele, n.t.) <span class="hps">sunt</span> <span class="hps">construite</span> <span class="hps">pe
minciuni</span>, <span class="hps">mincinosi</span> de profesie fac multi
prozeliti. De vazut sectele <span class="hps">recent</span> <span class="hps">create</span>,
cum ar fi <span class="hps">Mormonii şi Scientologia</span> <span class="hps">arată</span>
ca <span class="hps">fondatorii</span> <span class="hps">lor</span>, <span class="hps">Joseph Smith</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">L.</span>
<span class="hps">Ron</span><br />
<span class="hps">Hubbard</span>, respectiv, <span class="hps">au fost cel puţin</span>
<span class="hps">mincinosi</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">mult
mai probabil</span> <span class="hps">psihopati in plina floare</span>. <span class="hps">Liderii</span> <span class="hps">carismatici</span> <span class="hps">de
cult</span>, cum ar fi <span class="hps">Jim</span> <span class="hps">Jones</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">Sung</span> <span class="hps">Moon</span> <span class="hps">Yung</span> <span class="hps">au fost</span> <span class="hps">într-adevăr</span>
<span class="hps">psihopatii</span>, <span class="hps">în timp ce</span> <span class="hps">televangelistii</span> <span class="hps">predicatori</span> <span class="hps">care</span> inoata <span class="hps">în milioanele de la prozelitii
pacaliti de ei sunt escroci</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">cel
mai înalt nivel.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps">se presupune</span> motivul de a fi in <span class="hps">educaţia
morală şi valul</span> sau <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">"</span>bunătate"care
il <span class="hps">conferă</span> <span class="hps">atrage</span> ca un magnet <span class="hps">psihopati</span> <span class="hps">care se folosesc de membria lor ca
de un colac de salvare si de protectie si</span> au isi pun pe ei un <span class="hps">strat</span> <span class="hps">suplimentar</span> <span class="hps">de
zahăr, ca nu cumva</span> <span class="hps">cineva</span> sa le <span class="hps">suspecteze</span>
<span class="hps">adevărata lor natură</span>. <span class="hps">Când</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span> <span class="hps">domina</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">controleaza instituţii importante de cultură</span> <span class="hps">care influenţează</span> <span class="hps">o societate</span> intreaga,
un tip final de<span class="hps"> psihopat</span> <span class="hps">este creat</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">În
timp ce</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">psihopatia</span> <span class="hps">clasica</span>
<span class="hps">genetica este una</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">se naşte</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">orice</span>
<span class="hps">trasatura</span> <span class="hps">genetica</span> <span class="hps">care cauzeaza acest lucru patologic</span>, <span class="hps">există</span>
<span class="hps">un alt</span> <span class="hps">grup</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">oameni care</span> <span class="hps">se comportă</span> <span class="hps">la fel</span><br />
<span class="hps">ca</span> un <span class="hps">psihopat</span> <span class="hps">clasic</span>,
care <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">s-au născut</span> <span class="hps">aşa</span>, dar <span class="hps">au fost creati</span>. </span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Psihopatii</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">secundari</span> <span class="hps">sunt creati</span> <span class="hps">în două moduri</span>, <span class="hps">prin</span> <span class="hps">traume</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">prin intermediul grupurilor</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Psihopatii secundari creati prin trauma<br />
</span></b><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Trauma</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">de la un</span> <span class="hps">accident</span>, <span class="hps">dependenta</span> <span class="hps">de droguri</span>,<span class="hps">
handicapul fizic sever şi</span> <span class="hps">abuzul</span> <span class="hps">psihologic</span>
<span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">poate distruge</span> <span class="hps">o parte</span> <span class="hps">din</span> zona <span class="hps">frontală
a cortexul</span> <span class="hps">creierului, chiar în locul în care</span> <span class="hps">empatia</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">conştiinţa</span>
<span class="hps">sunt procesate de creier.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">În
timp ce</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">astfel de indivizi</span> <span class="hps">sunt o</span> <span class="hps">realitate tragică</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">societatea noastra</span>, <span class="hps">acestia
sunt</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">cele mai multe</span> <span class="hps">cazuri,</span> <span class="hps">la fel de</span> <span class="hps">incurabili</span>
<span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">genetica psihopatilor nascuti.</span>
O excepţie <span class="hps">este</span> in psihopatia indusa de consumul de
droguri. <span class="hps">Cei mai mulţi</span> <span class="hps">dependenţi</span>
<span class="hps">de droguri</span> <span class="hps">se vor comporta ca</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii deoarece</span> <span class="hps">criminalitatea</span> data
de d<span class="hps">ependenta lor</span> ii<span class="hps"> forţează</span> <span class="hps">să adopte</span><br />
<span class="hps">psihopatia</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">un
mecanism de</span> <span class="hps">supravieţuire</span> <span class="hps">psihologică</span>.
La dezintoxicare si <span class="hps">reabilitarea</span> <span class="hps">de
droguri</span>, <span class="hps">acestia isi pot</span> <span class="hps">recâştiga</span>
parte din <span class="hps">conştiinţa lor</span>, doar in <span class="hps">condiţia
in care, consumul de droguri nu le-a</span> <span class="hps">deteriorat grav</span>
<span class="hps">creierul</span> in sine.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Psihopatii secundari creati de grupuri<br />
</span></b><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Al doilea mod</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span>
<span class="hps">sunt creati</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">prin
Grupuri</span>. <span class="hps">Există</span> <span class="hps">anumite grupuri</span>,
care <span class="hps">vor atrage</span> <span class="hps">psihopati din cauza</span>
<span class="hps">posibilităţilor</span> <span class="hps">de putere</span> <span class="hps">şi de</span> <span class="hps">influenţă pe care le ofera statutul de
membru</span>. <span class="hps">De obicei,</span> <span class="hps">aceste grupuri
fi</span> <span class="hps">devin</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>rapid <span class="hps">conduse</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">dominate de</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span>. Alti membri
nonpsihopati <span class="hps">ai</span> <span class="hps">acestor grupuri</span> <span class="hps">ar trebui să</span> <span class="hps">devină si ei psihopaţi</span>, pentru
a putea <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">supravieţui
printre ceilalti. De</span> <span class="hps">exemplu</span>, <span class="hps">intr-o</span>
<span class="hps">banda de strada</span>, <span class="hps">sociopatii</span> sunt <span class="hps">cei mai buni lideri şi</span> prin urmare, <span class="hps">cele mai
multe</span> <span class="hps">bande</span> <span class="hps">au</span> <span class="hps">un sociopat</span> la comanda. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Alti
psihopatii</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">sunt</span>, de asemenea, <span class="hps">atraşi de</span> <span class="hps">violenţă şi</span> de <span class="hps">puterea unei bande de strada si </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>astfel împreună creeaza un sistem de valori
psihopatice. Banda <span class="hps">devine o</span> <span class="hps">entitate</span>
<span class="hps">psihopatica</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Tinerii</span> nonsociopati <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">trebuie să trăiască</span> <span class="hps">pe teritoriul</span> <span class="hps">unei astfel de gasti, au doar doua opţiuni</span>, <span class="hps">să
devină</span> <span class="hps">o victime sau de li se alăture</span>. <span class="hps">Prin aderarea la</span> <span class="hps">banda</span>, <span class="hps">noul recrut</span> <span class="hps">trebuie să adopte</span>, de
asemenea, <span class="hps">sistemul incurcat de</span> <span class="hps">valori <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>şi</span> <span class="hps">se va comporta în
consecinţă</span>, astfel, <span class="hps">devenind un</span> <span class="hps">psihopat</span>
<span class="hps">secundar.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">În
schimb</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">, <span class="hps">la</span> <span class="hps">celălalt capăt
al</span> <span class="hps">scalei</span>, putem <span class="hps">vedea</span> <span class="hps">acelaşi principiu,</span> <span class="hps">la locul de muncă</span> <span class="hps">în corporaţii</span>. Banii <span class="hps">şi</span> setea <span class="hps">de putere</span> <span class="hps">a unei Corporatii</span> <span class="hps">atrage</span> <span class="hps">psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">cerebrali</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">narcisisti</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Într-un mediu</span> <span class="hps">corporatist</span> <span class="hps">au</span> <span class="hps">multe avantaje faţă de concurenţii</span>
lor non-psihopati <span class="hps">pentru</span> o <span class="hps">promovare</span>.
Nu este surprinzator ca multe corporatii <span class="hps">sfârşesc prin a fi</span>
conduse de <span class="hps">psihopati</span>. <span class="hps">Ca</span> <span class="hps">o</span> banda<span class="hps"> criminală</span>, <span class="hps">cultura</span>
unei corporatii adopta valorile incurcate ale liderilor sai. <span class="hps">Cei</span>
<span class="hps">care isi cauta de munca trebuie in final sa adopte sau cel
putin sa se prefaca ca adopta esentele mentalitatii psihopatice corporatiste.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Ceea
ce</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">este important</span> este <span class="hps">să se înţeleagă</span> <span class="hps">că </span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">un</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> psihopat <span class="hps">nu are nici
o conştiinţă</span></span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">. <span class="hps">Membrii individuali</span>
<span class="hps">pot</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">nu</span>
<span class="hps">pot avea conştiinţă</span>, dar <span class="hps">atunci când
acestia sunt</span> <span class="hps">parte dintr-o</span> <span class="hps">gasca</span>,
<span class="hps">ei</span> nu <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">avea
nici una</span>. <span class="hps">Cele mai multe</span> <span class="hps">organizaţii
de la</span> <span class="hps">bandele de stradă</span> <span class="hps">la</span>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>c<span class="hps">orporatii<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sunt <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>gasti</span>. A<span class="hps">r</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">o greşeală</span> <span class="hps">sa aveti încredere</span>
<span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">ei</span>, deoarece imediat <span class="hps">se pot transforma</span> in pradatori si iti vor ruina timpul, banii,
sanatatea mentala si stilul de a trai.</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">O
slabiciune pe care o au psihopatii este ca o data </span></span><span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ce un om ii studiaza atent si incepe sa ii inteleaga,
psihopatii devin predictibili. In timp ce tacticile variaza de la unul la
altul, majoritatea psihopatilor urmeaza o strategie similara cand inseala fie
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p> </o:p></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Interviul <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps">sunt experţi</span> <span class="hps">in </span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">‚Lectura la Rece’</span></i></b></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">. <span class="hps">Prima
data expresia a fost folosita de</span> <span class="hps">psihologi</span> <span class="hps">pentru a descrie</span> <span class="hps">ceea ce</span> fac
prezicatorii, clarvazatorii la telefon, adica abilitatea de a ghici o persoana
„la rece’’, de a ghici personalitatea unui individ prin comunicare verbala si
nonverbala. Tehnica este <span class="hps">simpla</span>, se <span class="hps">pun
întrebări</span> <span class="hps">şi se urmăresc atent</span> <span class="hps">răspunsurile</span>.
</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Psihopatii te vor „Citi la Rece” din moment ce te studiaza in
etapa asa numita „de Interviu”. </span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Scopul
„Interviului” este ca psihopatul sa te evalueze daca poti fi sau nu o viitoare
potentiala victima. <span class="hps">Ei isi fac</span> <span class="hps">note mentale</span>
privind <span class="hps">tactici si metode</span> <span class="hps">diferite,</span>
pe care le-ar putea folosi ca sa te<span class="hps"> manipuleze</span>. <br />
</span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Invatand sa vorbesti putin si sa
observi cat mai mult, atunci cand intalnesti pentru prima data oameni, este cea
mai usoara cale sa te aperi de un psihopat.</span></i></b></span><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> In</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br />
<span class="hps">situaţii</span> <span class="hps">sociale</span>, <span class="hps">poti fi</span> deschis fără <span class="hps">a fi nevoie să dezvălui
informaţii</span> <span class="hps">cu caracter personal,</span> <span class="hps">care
ar putea</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">folosite împotriva ta
mai târziu</span>. <span class="hps">Amintiţi-vă că</span> -<span class="hps">a te
cunoaste- este un privilegiu care trebuie sa fie castigat in timp, de un
interlocutor. </span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Seductia<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Daca
tu sau organizatia ta sunt vazute ca potentiale victime, următoarea etapă</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">seductia</span>. <span class="hps">Bazat
pe </span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Rezultatele</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">Interviului</span></span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">psihopatul</span> <span class="hps">va croi si va adapta flexibil seductia potrivita tipului tau de
personalitate. Dacă</span> esti preocupat de prezenta ta, ei te<span class="hps">
vor lingusi</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>privind aparitia si
aspectul tau, <span class="hps">în cazul în care</span> esti <span class="hps">nesigur
cu privire la educatia ta</span>, ei <span class="hps">te vor</span> <span class="hps">flata</span> <span class="hps">despre</span> <span class="hps">inteligenta</span>
<span class="hps">ta</span>. Daca esti lacom, ei iti vor flutura pe la nas
informatii confidentiale despre o schema de imbogatire rapida si daca esti las atunci
doar el psihopatul te poate feri de fricile tale.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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poveste de dragoste de tip’’val <span class="hps">vârtej de vânt’’</span>. <span class="hps">Ei te asigura ca a fi in preajma lor este placut si incitant<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>asa ca devii dependent de adrenalina spumoasa
din preajma lor. La</span> <span class="hps">nivel organizaţional</span>, ei<span class="hps"> pretind a fi</span> <span class="hps">angajatul perfect</span>, <span class="hps">adeptul</span> religios <span class="hps">cel mai</span> <span class="hps">devotat</span>, funcţionarul<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>public cel mai devotat. <span class="hps">Ei lucrează</span> atent la a
deschide <span class="hps">gratiile prin portari</span> <span class="hps">şi în
final</span> ajung la titularii de putere, comportandu-se sicofant, slugarnici,
plini de obedienta, lingand cu grija toate cizmele.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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această etapă a</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">jocului</span> cel <span class="hps">mai bun sfat este</span> <span class="hps">"</span>Dacă <span class="hps">suna</span> <span class="hps">prea</span> <span class="hps">bine</span> <span class="hps">ca să fie adevărat</span> <span class="hps">–</span> sa tii minte <span class="hps">că asa</span> <span class="hps">este"</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">La
fel</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">leii pradatori
ei</span> <span class="hps">vor</span> <span class="hps">căuta să separe victimele
de restul</span> <span class="hps">turmei</span>, <span class="hps">psihopatii</span>
<span class="hps">încearcă să</span> isi <span class="hps">izoleze</span> <span class="hps">victimele de</span> <span class="hps">restul</span> <span class="hps">de umanităţii</span>.
<span class="hps">Ei obtin acest lucru prin tactica divizi si conduci -„divide et
impera”</span>. <span class="hps">Într-o</span> <span class="hps">relaţie personală</span>,
<span class="hps">psihopatul</span> <span class="hps">va sabota şi</span> va <span class="hps">submina</span> <span class="hps">relatiile victimei cu toata familia şi
cu toti prietenii. Exasperati</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">drama</span>
<span class="hps">negativa</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> de <span class="hps">costurile
asociate</span> <span class="hps">cu </span>victima, <span class="hps">prietenii</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">familia</span> o vor <span class="hps">abandona,
din pacate, in final</span> <span class="hps">lăsând-o</span> fără <span class="hps">sprijinul</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">îndrumarea</span>
<span class="hps">lor sociala de grup</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Într-un</span> <span class="hps">cadru</span> <span class="hps">organizatoric</span>,
<span class="hps">psihopatii sunt</span> <span class="hps">desăvârşitii politicieni</span>
<span class="hps">de birou</span>. <span class="hps">Ei caută</span> <span class="hps">să creeze</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">fracţiuni in organizare şi</span> <span class="hps">apoi prin
diversiune atata pe unii impotriva altora pentru a creea</span> <span class="hps">cât</span> <span class="hps">mai mult posibil, HAOS</span>. <span class="hps">Psihopatii</span> <span class="hps">înoata</span> <span class="hps">în</span>
<span class="hps">haos foarte bine si cu cat e mai mult haos e cu atat mai bine
pentru ei.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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secret</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> el <span class="hps">începe</span> <span class="hps">să
atragă</span> <span class="hps">credulii</span>, pe cei slabi de inger, pe
colegii p<span class="hps">sihopati</span> de<span class="hps"> partea lor</span> <span class="hps">în timp ce isi intensifica</span> <span class="hps">eforturile de a-i</span>
exclude si inlatura pe cei <span class="hps">mai</span> <span class="hps">talentati</span>,
pe cei mai <span class="hps">cinstiti, pe cei mai incoruptibili membri, pe aceia
care ar putea avea puterea si caracterul de a li <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>se opune. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Ei</span> otravesc mediul in
mii de feluri astfel incat <span class="hps">toată lumea</span> <span class="hps">se
simte iritata, </span><br />
provocata <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">în imposibilitatea de a-si
duce munca si viata la bun sfarsit. </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Controlul organizatiei aluneca
in mana sursei disfunctionalitatilor, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>chiar in mana psihopatului, care a creeat
toate incurcaturile si haosul. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">La
această etapă</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> singura aparare este fuga de
situatie. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Tu nu poti castiga a<span class="hps">ceastă bătălie</span>, atata
timp cat cruzimea psihopatului va pacali, va ataca, <span class="hps">orice</span>
contra<span class="hps">atac tu</span> <span class="hps">ai putea</span> <span class="hps">concepe</span>. Cand tu abia <span class="hps">incepi sa mirosi fumul</span>,
<span class="hps">psihopatul a furat si a ascuns deja toate extinctoarele.</span></span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Dacă esti implicat intr-o relatie cu
un psihopat, taie, piteste momeala si fugi. </span></i></b></span><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Daca faci parte dintr-o firma, dintr-o organizaţie</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">,
cauta-ti alt loc de munca, intr-o alta tara, mai bine devii expatriat. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Frica</span></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">şi
Tirania<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Etapa <span class="hps">finală a</span> <span class="hps">strategiei</span> <span class="hps">de</span>
<span class="hps">psihopat este</span> o <span class="hps">tiranie de control</span>
<span class="hps">absoluta, aplicata din</span> plin cu sadism <span class="hps">pe</span>
<span class="hps">victima sa</span>.<br />
<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Într-o relaţie de iubire</i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">, <span class="hps">luna de miere,
e gata </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">este</span>
terminata si masca, psihopatul <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si-o
scoate. </i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Psihopatul <span class="hps">devine brusc</span> dominator, controleaza tot, e <span class="hps">abuziv</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">violent, beneficiile sunt taiate
brusc (n.t.)</span>. <span class="hps">În loc</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">linguşire</span> <span class="hps">şi atenţie excesiva</span>, <span class="hps">tacticile sale</span> <span class="hps">sunt acum</span> <span class="hps">frica</span>, <span class="hps">intimidarea</span>, <span class="hps">excrocarea</span>
si <span class="hps">şantajul</span> <span class="hps">emoţional</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">La</span> <span class="hps">nivel organizaţional</span>, va face
ca <span class="hps">beneficiile</span> <span class="hps">să fie</span> <span class="hps">tăiate</span>, <span class="hps">în timp ce cardurile de monitorizare a
timpului</span>, <span class="hps">cotele de producţie</span> si <span class="hps">supravegherea
cresc foarte puternic</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Angajaţii</span> <span class="hps">devin</span> <span class="hps">sclavi
fara energie</span>, <span class="hps">rotiţe</span> <span class="hps">neputincioase</span>
<span class="hps">şi de unică folosinţă</span> <span class="hps">într-o masinarie
infernala facuta pentru</span> <span class="hps">beneficiul unic</span> <span class="hps">al</span> <span class="hps">psihopatilor din conducere</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">La</span> <span class="hps">nivel</span> <span class="hps">naţional</span>,
ţările <span class="hps">conduse de</span> <span class="hps">psihopati</span> <span class="hps">devin state politienesti</span> <span class="hps">corupte</span> <span class="hps">şi brutale, aflate intr-un razboi surd cu</span> <span class="hps">duşmani</span>
<span class="hps">imaginari</span>. Populaţia <span class="hps">devine</span> <span class="hps">paranoica</span>, <span class="hps">nevrotica si</span> <span class="hps">în cele din urmă</span> i<span class="hps">şi</span> dezvolta
psihopatii <span class="hps">secundare</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Într-o
cultura</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">psihopatica </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">toată lumea</span> <span class="hps">trebuie să adopte</span> <span class="hps">o atitudine</span> <span class="hps">nemiloasa ca</span> <span class="hps">strategie posibila de
supravieţuire</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">În</span> <span class="hps">acest stadiu,</span> <span class="hps">există
puţine şanse</span> <span class="hps">de a</span> <span class="hps">fugi</span> <span class="hps">şi de a putea scăpa</span> <span class="hps">în condiţii de siguranţă</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">În schimb</span>, <span class="hps">este posibil să</span> <span class="hps">fi lăsat</span> <span class="hps">cu</span> <span class="hps">puţine
opţiuni, altele<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>decat sa scapi sau sa
speri<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ca psihopatii</span> vor muri.</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Fata in Fata cu Raul, cu Diavolul<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Unul
dintre</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">cele mai mari</span>
<span class="hps">avantaje pe care le au psihopati</span> <span class="hps">este că
oamenii</span> decenti nu pot crede ca acest<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>tip de monstri chiar exista!<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Această</span> <span class="hps">incapacitate de a</span> <span class="hps">înţelege o mentalitate de</span>
<span class="hps">pradator</span> <span class="hps">se datorează</span> <span class="hps">moralitatii</span> <span class="hps">populare, colective</span>. T<span class="hps">oate societăţile</span> <span class="hps">promoveaza o</span> <span class="hps">moralitate</span> <span class="hps">simplistă</span> <span class="hps">şi</span>
<span class="hps">idealista</span>, prin <span class="hps">şcoli şi</span> <span class="hps">biserici</span> <span class="hps">care predau</span> <span class="hps">platitudini</span>,
cum ar fi acelea ca <span class="hps">toţi oamenii</span> <span class="hps">sunt
creaturi egale</span>, ca <span class="hps">fiecare are</span> <span class="hps">ceva
bun</span> <span class="hps">în el</span>, ca <span class="hps">toată lumea este
speciala</span>, etc. <span class="hps">Aceste</span> <span class="hps">idealuri</span>
<span class="hps">mai degraba deservesc</span> <span class="hps">un scut în spatele
căruia o</span> <span class="hps">adevărata</span> <span class="hps">maşinaţiune a societatii</span>
<span class="hps">poate funcţiona, fara suspiciuni din partea maselor si a
grupurilor afectate.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Un
alt</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">motiv pentru care oamenii</span> <span class="hps">nu se</span> <span class="hps">pot confrunta cu</span> <span class="hps">răul
este frica</span>. Adevărata <span class="hps">natura</span> <span class="hps">a
psihopatilor</span> <span class="hps">este</span> problema cauzata de <span class="hps">cosmarurile lui din</span> <span class="hps">copilărie</span>.<br />
<span class="hps">Mulţi oameni</span> <span class="hps">pur şi simplu nu</span> pot
tine piept fricii, cu efectele ei, incat pentru a-si <span class="hps">calma</span>
<span class="hps">nervii</span> <span class="hps">lor, oamenii</span> devin <span class="hps">infantili<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si adopta de frica, o
strategie</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">negare</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> de <span class="hps">gândire magică</span>. Daca nu recunosc
si nu constientizeaza existenta monstrilor, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">atunci</span> <span class="hps">monştrii
nu le pot rani existenta.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Prima linie de <span class="hps">apărare
împotriva</span> <span class="hps">psihopatilor este pur si simplu sa le
recunosti si sa le intelegi existenta.</span></span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">Procedând astfel</span>, se <span class="hps">dezvoltă un avantaj
psihologic.</span> A fi p<span class="hps">revenit</span> <span class="hps">face
cat doi</span> <span class="hps">şi după ce</span> <span class="hps">te</span> <span class="hps">pregatesti cu</span> <span class="hps">cunoştinţe</span> solide, vei fi
<span class="hps">mai în măsură</span> <span class="hps">să actionezi dur, inainte
sa ti-o faca psihopatul. </span><br />
<span class="hps">După ce accepti</span> <span class="hps">realitatea</span> <span class="hps">că</span> pradatorii umani exista si ne <span class="hps">populeaza</span>
societatea, urmatoarea linie de aparare este sa ii descoperi, sa ii identifici.
Deoarece </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Arta lor este Camuflajul Perfect si Deceptia</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">,
psihopatii sunt foarte greu de depistat. <span class="hps">Ei pot</span> <span class="hps">păcăli</span> <span class="hps">chiar şi</span> pe expertii in<span class="hps"> sănătate mentală. </span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Este</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">important să înţelegem si sa acceptam că</span> <span class="hps">toată lumea</span> <span class="hps">poate</span><br />
<span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">păcălita de psihopati</span>.</span></i></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">Dacă</span> crezi ca esti o exceptie, devii pasibil de a fi
atacat direct, ca victima.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Un</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">psihopat</span> <span class="hps">este ca un</span> <span class="hps">jar</span> <span class="hps">fumegand</span>.<br />
</span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Cu cat mai devreme</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">se observa</span> <span class="hps">fumul cu atat mai repede se
stinge jarul</span> <span class="hps">mai bine</span>, dar cand casa iti e in
flacari este <span class="hps">prea</span> <span class="hps">târziu</span> <span class="hps">să salvezi deteriorarea</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">distrugerea</span>. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Invatati sa descoperiti, sa
localizati, sa developati psihopatul si trasaturile lui de caracter si sa le recunoasteti
acest ‚modus operandi’.<br />
</span></i></b><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Acolo unde este posibil controlati,
verificati si stati de vorba cu familia</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">şi
cu prietenii psihopatului</span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Majoritatea psihopatilor lasa o coada lunga de
distrugeri, de dureri sufletesti, de rupturi si vor incerca prin toate
mijloacele lor sa isi ascunda urmele. <span class="hps">O</span> <span class="hps">lipsa</span>
<span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">informaţii despre ei este un semnal
de alarma la fel de important, cat insasi un intreg istoric relevat - un
istoric plin de tradari. </span></span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Un alt semnal de alarma este o</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">lipsă</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">răbdare</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>o <span class="hps">incredibila energie</span> consumata de psihopati pentru<span class="hps"> a-si menţine</span> propria <span class="hps">lor </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">faţadă (adica masca lor, n.t.).
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In decursul timpului, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>lor le cad mastile. De aceea poate cel mai bun
raspuns este sa ai rabdare sa ii astepti la cotitura! Odată ce ai</span> reusit
sa identifici <span class="hps">pe cineva</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> <span class="hps">fiind un</span> <span class="hps">psihopat,</span> <span class="hps">ai doar</span>
<span class="hps">două opţiuni</span> <span class="hps">–</span> sa <span class="hps">Ataci</span> <span class="hps">sau</span> <span class="hps">sa Fugi</span>!!!<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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</span><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Ce</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
<span class="hps">este vital</span> <span class="hps">să intelegi este ca sufletul,
empatia nu poate învinge</span> un <span class="hps">psihopat</span>. <span class="hps">Tu</span> <span class="hps">nu ii poti</span> <span class="hps">schimba</span>,
<span class="hps">tu nu ii poti</span> <span class="hps">reforma</span>, tu <span class="hps">nu poti gasi</span> <span class="hps">bunătatea</span> in <span class="hps">interiorul lor</span>, tu <span class="hps">nu ai nici o posibilitate
sa le arati</span> <span class="hps">calea spre Dumnezeu</span> <span class="hps">şi
nu</span> ii poti invata iubirea si dragostea<span class="hps">.</span> <span class="hps">Toate</span> <span class="hps">aceste abordări</span> <span class="hps">sunt</span>
<span class="hps">sortite eşecului <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>la psihopaţi</span>,
deoarece acesti bolnavi <span class="hps">nu</span> <span class="hps">pot înţelege</span>
<span class="hps">şi nici nu le pasa deloc despre aceste</span> <span class="hps">concepte</span>.
<span class="hps">În timp ce ei</span> <span class="hps">te pot</span> face <span class="hps">să crezi că poti patrunde in ei, ca empatizeaza cu tine, în</span> <span class="hps">realitate</span>, empatia ta, emotiile tale si suferinta ta ii
infurie si sunt departe de a te admira pentru compasiunea ta, ba chiar incepe
sa te dispretuiasca si mai mult. </span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">În timp ce</span></i></b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">
tu te <u>‚Zbati sa Incerci sa Intelegi’ (pentru ca el iti face mereu toti creierii
o varza, n.t.)</u>, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>un psihopat calculeaza
in secret, tot ce ar putea sa mai faca, ca sa te provoace si sa iti provoace si
mai multa suferinta, cu cat mai multa, cu atat mai bine. <o:p></o:p></span></i></b><br />
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ESTE SA FIE DESCOPERIT, DECOPERTAT SI DAT IN VILEAG IN PUBLIC, IN FATA
SOCIETATII!<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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<strong><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Victima
trebuie sa dezvolte doar o mare raceala si atat, pentru a-i putea trata pe
bolnavii<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>de la distanta! Ei, psihopatii vor </span></span><span class="hps"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #002060; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">„Sa Impace si Capra si Varza”</span></i></span><span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">!</span></span></strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><strong> NOI Te invatam si te somam (n.t.), Sa <span class="hps">Nu iti fie milă</span>, sa Nu te simti prost, te rugam Nu simpatiza cu
el niciodata! E pur si simplu o mare pierdere de vreme! (n.t.)<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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</span><span class="hps"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Atacul<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></div>
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</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">regulă</span>,
<span class="hps">singurul lucru</span> <span class="hps">care il poate</span> <span class="hps">învinge</span> pe<span class="hps"> psihopat</span> <span class="hps">este
sa joci rolul unuia chiar dement, mai dement decat insusi psihopatul</span>. NU
trebuie sa ai remuscari ca il dai in vileag, ci doar sa simti confort; Frica
cea mai mare a unui Psihopat este sa Nu Fie dat in Vileag si sa nu fie <span class="hps">expus</span> in fata societatii pentru ceea ce el, de fapt este! E<span class="hps">i stiu din copilărie</span> <span class="hps">că</span> <span class="hps">sunt diferiti</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">cei
mai multi oameni</span>. Oricum doar foarte putini oameni au puterea si
inteligenta sa reuseasca asta cu success! <span class="hps">Expunând</span> <span class="hps">un psihopat le fura avantajul<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>si le expune public coruptia lor interioara!</span> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In timp ce distributia statistica intre psihopatii
idioti sau genii <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ii oglindeste public, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>chiar si un psihopat cretin <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>poate eluda si opri un acuzator<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>educat. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="hps"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Înainte
de a</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">încerca să</span> <span class="hps">scapi</span>
<span class="hps">şi</span> sa te expui in fata unui <span class="hps">psihopat</span>
<span class="hps">tu trebuie să fii</span> <span class="hps">într-o poziţie</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">putere</span>, <span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">trebuie să alegeţi</span> atent timpul si spatiul. <span class="hps">De
asemenea, trebuie</span> <span class="hps">să</span> <span class="hps">aveti oameni</span>
puternici alaturi, sa <span class="hps">vă</span> <span class="hps">informaţi(n.t.)
gata</span> <span class="hps">să vă susţină</span>. <span class="hps">Acest lucru</span>
<span class="hps">înseamnă</span> <span class="hps">crearea unui</span> frup de
sprijin format din <span class="hps">familie şi prieteni<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sau sa faceti parte dintr-un grup de sprijin.
Intr-o organizatie </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">aveţi</span> <span class="hps">nevoie de colegi</span>, <span class="hps">manageri</span>, departamentul juridic si departamentul de resurse
umane de partea Dvs. atunci cand facti mutarea! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Strateg-ul <span class="hps">chinez</span> <span class="hps">Sun</span> <span class="hps">Tzu</span> <span class="hps">a avertizat</span> <span class="hps">faţă de</span> <span class="hps">atacarea
unui inamic</span> <span class="hps">care</span> <span class="hps">nu are nici o</span>
<span class="hps">scăpare</span> <span class="hps">şi</span> atentie nu este bine
sa pui la colt un psihopat, deoarece <span class="hps">lupta va</span> <span class="hps">fi</span> <span class="hps">probabil</span> mult mai vicioasa decat o <span class="hps">majoritate a oamenilor</span> ar putea <span class="hps">poate suporta</span>.
<span class="hps">În schimb</span>, e bine sa te folosesti de <span class="hps">ameninţarea</span>
directa la <span class="hps">expunere</span>a publica a psihopatului, ca el sa
fuga mancand pamantul. Gândul că <span class="hps">ar putea fi expus</span> <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">orice moment,</span> <span class="hps">este</span>
de NESUPORTAT <span class="hps">şi majoritatea</span> <span class="hps">psihopatilor
vor renunţa la</span> <span class="hps">jocul lor curent</span>, disparand in
alte zari sa isi caute o prada mai simpla, mai vulnerabila, mai ignoranta. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span class="hps">Într-o</span> <span class="hps">organizaţie</span>,
<span class="hps">va trebui să</span> <span class="hps">oferi nu sa presezi cu
acuze, psihopatul va demisiona simplu si niciodata nu se va mai intoarce.</span></span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p> </o:p></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Evadarea<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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strategie</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <span class="hps">mai sigură</span> <span class="hps">şi mai
uşoara</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">să Evadezi.</span> <span class="hps">Odată ce</span> <span class="hps">ati identificat</span> pe <span class="hps">cineva</span> <span class="hps">ca</span> fiind <span class="hps">psihopat</span>,
<span class="hps">trebuie să-l</span> <span class="hps">taiati din viaţa complet</span>.
<span class="hps">Într-o relaţie</span>, <span class="hps">puteţi fi nevoiti sa
schimbati</span> <span class="hps">lacatele,sa schimbati numerele de telefon si
sa va blocati adresele de email, sa va inchideti conturile bancare, sa obtineti
un ordin judiciar de protectie, sau sa va mutati. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Nu</span> aratati cu gura si cu mana ca
plecati. <span class="hps">Mergeti <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>conştienţi
la</span> <span class="hps">serviciile</span> <span class="hps">de</span> <span class="hps">poliţie</span>, cele de <span class="hps">drept şi pe la adăposturi</span>.
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Luati cursuri de <span class="hps">auto-</span>apărare
<span class="hps">şi</span> <span class="hps">de pregatire</span> <span class="hps">cu
arme de foc</span>. <span class="hps">În concluzie</span>, <span class="hps">studiul</span>
P<span class="hps">sihopatilor</span> <span class="hps">este</span> <span class="hps">un important</span> si nou curs, nu <span class="hps">numai</span> <span class="hps">în prevenirea</span> <span class="hps">criminalităţii</span>, <span class="hps">dar</span> mai ales <span class="hps">în</span> <span class="hps">înţelegerea
surselor din</span> <span class="hps">spatele</span> acestor <span class="hps">boli
sociale. Cu cat esti mai informat<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si mai
constient pe acest subiect, cu atat mai protejata va fi intrega ta familie.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Ultimele cuvinte pentru a te putea apara de
Psihopati<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Autorul NU este un specialist in medicina mentala.</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> Acest articol este un sumar al punctelor cheie<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ale <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>altor experti si a intentionat sa fie utilizat
in auto-aparare si prevenirea criminalitatii.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>Sui Generis...http://www.blogger.com/profile/08372105180120750210noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403768962431771445.post-77563020442234423592012-02-12T12:13:00.000-08:002012-02-12T12:13:38.384-08:00Dormi, iubito...<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #8e7cc3;">Dormi, iubito<o:p></o:p></span></strong></span></span></i><br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Sus, pe garduri, sclipesc stropi săraţi,
albă-i sarea,<br />
Iar portiţa-i de-acum încuiată. Şi marea<br />
Fumegând şi săltând către diguri, de-a rândul,<br />
Dintr-un soare sărat s-a-nfruptat, devorându-l.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Dormi, iubito! Oh, dormi! Sufletul meu
vrea pace.<br />
Stepa, munţii... şi ei dorm acum, n-au ce face.<br />
Ciobănescul cam şchiop şi cu claia prea mare<br />
Chiar prin somn îşi mai linge lanţul lui plin de sare.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Marea-n tropot şi crengile scormonind ca
vătraiul<br />
Şi zăvodul din lanţ ce-şi trăi-n tihnă traiul,<br />
Împreună cu mine, toţi, mereu împreună,<br />
"Dormi, iubito!" îţi spunem acum. "Noapte bună!"<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Dormi, iubito! Şi uită că ne-am certat
vreodată.<br />
Ne-om trezi, împăcaţi, în lumina curată.<br />
Stând în fân, somnoroşi, vom simţi cum ne vine,<br />
Dinspre beci, un parfum de iaurturi gruzine.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Cum aş face, o, cum, să-nţelegi astea
toate?<br />
Dormi, iubito! Hai, dormi! Şi-ai să vezi că se poate.<br />
Fără lacrimi, prin somn, să zâmbeşti şi să-ţi pară<br />
Că flori multe aduni şi că-ţi iei, bunăoară,<br />
O mulţime de rochii frumoase, de vară.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Vrei să murmuri ceva? Tu îmi eşti tot
avutul.<br />
Cât ai oare de gând să frămânţi aşternutul?<br />
Înveleşte-te-n somn, înfăşoară-te-n vise,<br />
Toate căile, vezi, îţi sunt astfel deschise,<br />
Câte, trează fiind, ţi-au părut interzise.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">E absurd să nu dormi, când ai cum şi ai
unde,<br />
Tot ce-ţi urlă prin cap, în străfunduri se-ascunde.<br />
Ochii tăi, care-adună şi raiuri şi-abisuri,<br />
Sub pleoape-or simţi abur moale de visuri.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Dormi, iubito! Mă-ntreb ce te ţine-acum
trează?<br />
Al copacilor zvon? Marea ce delirează?<br />
Sumbre, vagi presimţiri? Sau jigniri anonime?<br />
Ori, chiar eu, măgării ţi-am tot spus, o mulţime?</span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Dormi, te rog! Nu-i nimic de făcut, ştii
prea bine,<br />
Dar sunt gata să jur: vina nu-mi aparţine.<br />
Iartă-mă, dacă poţi! Şi iubeşte-mă-oleacă!<br />
Poate-n somn, supărarea cea grea o să-ţi treacă.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Dormi! Pământul şi noi - suntem toţi o
fiinţă!<br />
Cu explozia lui, veşnic ne ameninţă.<br />
Vreau la piept să te ţin, într-o lume nebună,<br />
Iar de ne-om prăbuşi, să cădem împreună.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Dormi, iubito! Nu vreau să te ştiu
supărată.<br />
Dormi şi lasă-te-ncet doar de visuri purtată.<br />
Cât de greu se adoarme pe globul enorm!<br />
Dormi, iubito! E timpul! Toţi în jurul tău dorm.<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Marea-n tropot şi crengile scormonind ca
vătraiul<br />
Şi zăvodul din lanţ ce-şi trăi-n tihnă traiul,<br />
Împreună cu mine, toţi, mereu împreună,<br />
"Dormi, iubito!" îţi spunem acum. "Noapte bună!"<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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la 18 iulie 1933, la Zima in Siberia, este un renumit poet rus.</span></i></div>
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– the Corporate Psychopath <o:p></o:p></span></span></i></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="color: purple; font-size: large;">Psihopatul Corporatist</span></span></i></b><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"> este un termen
initiat de renumitii experti in psihologie </span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Dr. Robert Hare si Dr. Paul Babiak. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Zicala care il guverneaza este : <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Scopul scuza mijloacele</i></b>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><strong><span style="color: #990000;">Psihopatul Corporatist </span></strong>se refera la<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> acei indivizi vicleni numiti </span>‚pestii
cu mintea rece’ <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> care sunt</span> psihopatii morti dupa succes si putere,
cu aparente de om perfect normal, care isi fac loc din coate, siguri pe ei in lumea multinationalelor, a corporatiilor, a guvernelor. Sunt teparii cu gulere<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>albe, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>barfitorii de lux si
diversionistii in costume elegante, greu de descoperit, care creeaza haos in
relatiile de serviciu, cei care tintesc spre varful ierarhic al corporatiilor, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>cei care cu sange rece mint si promit orice fara
gand sa isi tina promisiunile vreodata, manipuleaza si distrug carierele colegilor,
a altor angajati, abuzeaza, falsifica, expluateaza, cu inteligenta si plini de
un farmec irezistibil, sunt cei care inoata ca rechinii distrugatori pentru a insela in lumea
afacerilor, finantelor, burselor, politicii, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>religiilor si cultelor religioase, in guverne,
uneori chiar in justitie, etc. Sunt scrobitii in gulere albe, care calca si pe cadavre pentru a-si obtine profiturile dorite.</span></div>
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zeci de fatade si roluri bine ticluite, Nu au constiinta, Nu au suflet, Nu au
emotii, Nu au remuscari, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>si au un singur
scop complex: <strong>Banul, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>innavutirea cu orice pret
si Puterea</strong>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Dr. Robert Hare </span></b><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">este profesor emerit in Psihologie la Universitatea
British Columbia, Canada unde preda si unde a condus cercetari in psihologie timp
de peste 35 de ani. Dr. Hare este si presedinte al Darkstone Research Group
Ltd. un grup de cercetari in criminalistica si de consultanta. Si-a devotat cea
mai mare parte a carierei sale academice pentru investigarea psihopatiei, a
naturii acesteia, evaluarea psihopatiei si implicatiile acesteia pentru
sanatatea mentala si justitie. Este autorul unor carti de referinta, dintre
care: <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">„Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us”</i></b>
(Fara Constiinta: Lumea tulbure a psihopatilor dintre noi) si peste 200 de
capitole si articole stiintifice in psihopatie. Este creatorul Listei de
diagnosticare revizuita a psihopatiei <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Psychopathy Checklist-Revised </i></b>(PCL-R).
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Este consultant in criminalistica pentru
FBI si RCMP si este membru al Research Advisory Board of the FBI Child
Abduction si al Serial Murder Investigative Resources Center (CASMIRC). <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span><a href="http://www.hare.org/" target="_new"><span style="color: windowtext; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">www.hare.org</span></a>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;">Printre cele
mai recente premii si distinctii primite de Dr. Robert Hare, se afla: Silver
Medal of the Queen Sophia Center in Spain; the Canadian Psychological
Association Award for Distinguished Applications of Psychology; the American
Academy of Forensic Psychology Award for Distinguished Applications to the
Field of Forensic Psychology; the Isaac Ray Award presented by the American
Psychiatric Association and the American Academy of Psychiatry and Law for
Outstanding Contributions to Forensic Psychiatry and Psychiatric Jurisprudence.</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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organizationala. Este consultant si trainer pentru oamenii de afaceri, pentru
executivi din diverse domenii, care sunt interesati in identificarea si
izolarea psihopatilor corporatisti. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Alaturi
de Dr. Robert Hare este co-autorul cartii de referinta: <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">„Snakes in Suits: When
Psychopaths Go to Work”</i></b> (<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Rechinii in costume: Cand<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Psihopatii merg la lucru</i></b>) si a
numeroase articole si lucrari de specialitate. In prezent el dezvolta un
instrument de evaluare psihologica <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">B-Scan</i></b>
destinat pentru uzul executivilor<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in
selectia de personal si planificarea succesiunii corporatiste. Dr. Babiak a
aparut in multe programe TV si de radio, in multe interviuri in mass media, ziare,
reviste de afaceri, jurnale stiintifice inclusiv in <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The New York Times Magazine, ii citeaza
contributia sa unica la studiul psihopatiei corporatiste, in editia speciala din
decembrie 2004 "Anul in Idei". Este Vicepresedinte al fundatiei <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><a href="http://www.aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org/" target="_new"><span style="color: windowtext; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">Aftermath:
Surviving Psychopathy Foundation</span></a></i>, </b>creeeata pentru a promova
cercetarea in psihopatie si in acordarea de sprijin victimelor psihopatilor.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: RO;"><a href="http://www.aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org/"><span style="color: windowtext; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">http://www.aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org/</span></a><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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